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Need to remove my two cildren from my ex-wife, their mother. Please help me find a lawer?
Rocco Vito Maimone <rvmaimone@yahoo.com>
West Palm Beach, Fl USA -
My father past away 2/13/03 at the age of 62, and had a lived in girlfirend for 17 years. He left behind a house in Brownwood Texas to us his kid's with no "Will" just verbal. His girlfriend is taking it from us and advoiding us, she lied and said they where married when we went up to barrie my father, my father never mentioned this to no one. Which was strange we soon found out she lied. My mom was married to my dad and had 4 of us, and in 1973 was given a court order for child surport with the State of California. My father never paid a penny. Could my mother have the goverment sieze the house and his retirement for back pay child surport????
Vivian Valadez <vv@jmcfire.com>
Los Angeles, CA USA -
Me and my x husband have joint custody but he has primary coustodal. He has left the state with my children and did not inform me of this. I just found out and I don't have money to get a new lawyer. If any one can help please.
Lisa Casey <caseme2002@earthlink.net>
clearfield , ut USA -
I had a court order for payments in the amount of $77.00 a week for my husband ,, but never received any not that Ididn't try , now my kids are grown ,,,and I would like toknow if can collect the money owing to me ,, Ihad a cousin that went through the same thing ,, and she got her money even though her kids were married ,, can you help me in anyway thanks
Catherine Frise <cookie2417@hotmail.com>
Windsor, Canada -
MY SITUTION IS AS FOLLOWS I DIVORCED MY HUSBAND TEN YEARS AGO HE INFORMED ME THAT IN THE STATE OF KY,,THERE WERE NO JOINT CUSTODY LAWS THEREFORE I SAID ALRIGHT I WOULD LET HIM ASSUME CUSTODY THE EVERY NEXT WEEK HE TOOK OUR SON TO POSEYVILLE IN,,,WHERE THEY STAYED WITH HIS PARENTS HE HAS MADE IT PURE HELL ON ME TO SEE MY SON AND WANTS CHILD SUPPORT I SAID UNTIL I GET MY RIGHT TO SEE HIM FORGET ABOUT IT,,HE SINCE HAS BEEN REMARRIED FIVE TIMES,,MY CONCERNS ARE WITH MY SON WHAT IS HE TEACHING HIM ABOUT WOMEN???/
PART TWO OF MY PROBLEM IS I HAVE TWO OTHER CHILDREN ONES IS 18 AND LIVING WITH HER BOYFRIEND IS SHE STILL ENTITLED TO CHILD SUPPORT AND HER SISTER IS 16 LIVING OUTSIDE OF HER FATHER HOUSE DUE TOT HE FACT SHE DOESNT GET ALONG WITH HER STEPMOTHER AND DIDNT WANT TO GO BACK TO LIVE WITH ME IN WEST VIRIGINIA,,,AS YOU CAN SEE THIS IS A MESS I LOST MY OLDEST DAUGHTER LAST MARCH SHE WAS 20 YEARS OLD SHE HAS TWO CHILDREN WHICH IM TRYING TO GET,,,AND WELL FINCIALLY IM BROKE PLEASE ADVISE ME ON WHAT TO DO!!!
THANKS FOR YOUR TIME,
MARYANNE RUNDLE
MARYANNE RUNDLE <MARYSO4REAL@AOL.COM>
FAIRMONT, WVA. USA -
I have been paying child support for 2 years. My daugter is 2. My is not on the birth certificate. BUt the mother of the child has still brought me to court. Will i have to pay for the court cost ? I also file a petition to establish parentage, will i have to pay for the DNA test?
In addtion to all of that, the mother refuses to allow me to spend time the child. HOw do i go about getting visition rights ?

CHAD Reeves <jenojando@hotmail.com>
Marietta , GA USA
my ex is constantly threating to take away my visitation...this is usaully done in front of our youngest chld 13yrs...he has alienated our oldest 17yrs...do you think he is trying to intimadate the youngest child...i am very concerned for her mental stablity...
angie <mickeysgal2003@yahoo.com>
lansing, mi USA -
I am in search of some information regarding divorce in MA. In the instance where the husband is the primary caregiver and has been unemployed for some time, what are the chances and circumstances that custody may be awarded to him rather than the mother? And secondly, what are the laws regarding custody and relocation, under what circumstances would the custodial parent be allowed to move out of state?

Any help you can give me will be helpful. Thank you for your time.
Racheal
Racheal <racheal_morgan@hotmail.com>
Boston, MA USA -
Help--Help Please-
My children and I live in Tn-my childrens father lives in W,va-he wonts us to move to W,va-we don't wont to-we love Tn-My ex is a drunk and was very abusive toward us-
but resently he filled papers at the court house in W,va to get custady of the children,he does not have a lawyer or any thing,these are papers he done up himself,my probblem isn't fighting him in court-I know i would win,My probblem is that I can't aford to keep running down the highway every time he decides i should,it is along way from Tn to W,va-
How can I get these hearings moved up here to Tn-so he has to come up here-I know all these hearings are just away to get me to move to W,va-we are not together any more-but still he controls me-
I really like your site!
Emma <Wonderfullest1#aol.com>
waverly, Tn USA -
I have been paying child support for over 10 years and not missed a payment Im currently Unemployed for the last three months and not payed child support since I keep getting letters from the child support office saying that they are going to cancel my drivers licens and hold tax return and take me to court I called them the same day i lost my job to inform them i was unemployed they told me that i need to contact them when i find a new job which i have no problem to do and that i should call them every week to keep them notified of my job search wich i have done and i still keep getting the letters I have contacting the case worker several times but he does not return my calls I have also explained to them when i find a new job that the salary will not be the same But they still expect me to pay the fool amount orderd by the court even though im not working what should i do the told me the case worker is the only one that can help me but he will not return my calls help please
David Van Vugt <dvanvugt@aol.com>
Clay , NY USA -
I need some help i have a problem and i need some suggestions on what i need to do i used to live with my mom for 14 years an i decided that i wanted to see what it was like to move with my dad and i thouhgt it would be good for a change becouse my mom and step dad where in a fight at the time so i did and come to find out that he presured me into telling my mom to give him full cusity and i was stupid anoulf thst i did and my dad promised my mom that he was not going to get child support from her so she would sign the cusity pappers and she did and now he is getting child suppor from her and she is not even allowed to come in my dads drive way even tho i live there and he tells me lies like that she has a restraning order on her and which she don't and he even got all my familys numbers blocked off our phone so they can't call and i have more in less stayed in my room for two weeks now and my dad tells me i'm wrecking his family but he won't let me go becouse my step mom and my dad hate my mom with a passion and i'm 16 years old can you help me plz.
josh jones <josh_jones_86@hotmail.com>
stuttgart, ark USA -
is my boyfriend allowed to reguest another attorney to represent him since he was court appointed he was his lawywer who help send him away before we would like to request another someone said we could is this true
wanda williford <wings_of_butterflydreams@yahoo.com >
portsmouth, oh USA -
great site,seems to be very helpful.
Jeremy L. Clark <blazejer@netscape.com>
Cliton, CO. USA -
Bula. My name is Leonie and my husband and I are going through a divorce. We have 2 lovely boys aged 4 and 1. My husband is moving to New Zealand in Dec 2003 to live with his New love and await the arrival of their baby... She is a NZ citizen and he a Fiji citizen. I urgently need information on how I can get him to pay child suport from that side and not skip out on his resposibilities as the father of my children. I dont really know how to go about making it happen and wouldn't mind help from you...

Awaiting your urgent reply.

thank you

Leonie
LEONIE FONG <baoffice@wgfiji.com.fj>
Ba, Fiji Islands -

I am writing about how to correctly write an agreement between my sons mother and myself. The paper will state that I am the primary [ care giver, propreter, costodian] I am not sure of what word to use. I want to be able to properly write one up and have her sign it to benifit us togeather since I would get paid better in the military if the above is validated. Please respond. Sincerly yours.
Jorge S. Bernas <prbude@msn.com>
Rock Island, Il USA -

My sister said I might find some help here. I hope so. My wife of 22 years has filed for devorce. The first hearing (90 days later) is Valentines Day; nice huh? She has not for the past four years paid many of the bills. I have 250 examples. She may have a problem with prescription drugs as a result of her taking oxy for three years. We have three children, 11, 12 and 14. I have been doing everything for them since late in October of last year. What can I tell the court (yes I have a lawyer) that might convince them that giving her custody of the children and back in the house would not get her the help she needs.
Jim <jimlevesque@msn.com>
Fayetteville, ga USA -

very resourceful web site
Sayon
USA -
I NEED SOME INFORMATION ABOUT CHANGING CHILD COUSTY FROM PARENTS TO A GRANDMOTHER.
TERRY <TILLY0319@AOL.COM>
COVINGTON, TN USA -
Hi, I'm in 6th grade and I go to Antioch Middle School. Our counselor came in and talked tyo us about our career. My goal is to become a lawyer and to attend Harvard University. Can you tell me the classes that are required in highschool?
Kersten Anderson <Sugarbear550@aol.com>
Kansas City, MO USA -
Aloha,
Me and my wife just seperated this yaer, after being married for two years. I know people can fall out of love with each other. But what gives a women, the right to say our kid will be living with her. We both know that we don't want to be in NO CUSTADY BATTLE, but the way things are going so far it looks like we will. Can you help Please?
JUstin Malina <J.Malina@verizon.net>
Lihue, HI USA -
Hey I really like your site. I have found some of the information here helpfull. Thanks :) Joe D.
Joe <j_dirt@hotmail.com>
Memphis, TN US -
PLEASE HELP. I HEARD TODAY THAT I CAN SUE MY HUCBENDS MISTREES BECAUSE SHE STOLE MY HUSBEND AWAY FROM ME. I HAVE A DISABLED DAUGHTER THAT IS DYING SHE WONT MAKE IT THROUGH THIS YEAR. AND THIS WOMEN CALLED MY HOUSE AND STOLE MY HUSBEND AWAY FRIM US CAN YOU HELP ME SUE HER
candace harter <rockyandme11@hotmail.com>
ukiah, ca USA -
i have a 30 year old son who has some serious mental health problems and i need of help it must be in hospital stay , he has depression and anti sosical behavior also has tryed suicide 3 times and is on drugs , lies,and steals ,got him in one place ,said he is cured in 4 days any help or advice i would love a little help .thank you brenda
brenda baldwin <lougean@webtv.net>
USA -
my name is lisa i have some questions for you. My brother in law was kicked out of his house on 12/31 02 wife had called police and got a restraining order on him. hes never hit her or child but has come home from work maybe had a couple beers mean while she stay on computer for hours and hours cant get thru on phone for hours.so she starts fighting with him over his drinking.hes a great father loves his daughter very much.They went to court 1/9/003 judge said after hearing everything would get back to lawyers on judgement days later come to find out he has to have have supervist vistation whitch just blew us all away. he gave up drinking for 4 years but because of the her being on computer for hours doesnt cook or clean we been over what a mess . just found out that the checking acct that he pays the morgage she took hes name off so how does he pay the morgage ordoes he even have to please help him thanks lisa
lisa <lisabudd7@msn.com>
Auburn, N.H USA -
What is the format or what should be included in a seperation agreement in the state of Virginia?
Please note that this is the correct e-mail address.
Maxine Wyands <wyandsm@chesterfield.gov>
Richmond, Virginia USA -
WE are grandparents who just found out our son signed adoption papers Sept 18th, 2002 so the stepfather of his children could adopt them/ We have not seen the papers but do not beleive there are any provisions for visitation for our son or for us. The mother litterlly lied and blackmailed him into signing. He move to Alaska not quite a year ago. He was three months behind on suppor because the job he was promised didn't start when he thought it would. He had stayed in constant coontact with his kids. He has made 3 visits home since then to see them. She told him that she would have him arrested for non-support and he beleived her. She promised nothing would change, only the childrens last name. He would not have to provide support but could still see his kids and we as grandparents could see them, Obviously he is quite naive but if only he would have let us know we could have advised him. Now she is beginnig to make sounds of with-holding the kids from him, She doesn't like them to call him daddy or him to refer to their stepfather as Ken in front of them. The ages of the children are 9-girl and boy 3 1/2. He has had a good and loving relationship with his children. He did not have the finances to hire a lawyer at the time this was going on. We are afraid she is going to exclude us from their life. Up until now we have been picking up the children once or twice a month. It depends on holidays and if she has plans. Is it too late for us to try to get grandparents visitation rights?
Brenda Eickholt <bme@wcoil.com>
Waynesfield, Oh USA -
JUST WANTED TO SAY IF A SPOUSE LEAVES THE HOME IS THAT CONSIDERED ABANDONMENT.
MARTIN GIPSON <kicknit34@yahoo.com>
MEMPHIS, TN USA -
Looking for a page about temerary papers!
thanks karen
Karen <misslady430152000@msn.com>
Mt.Gilead, oh USA -
I was terminated from my place of employment after 3 mos. for not attending a managers meeting in the Bahama's. I was notified by my physician my medical benefits were terminated the same day. Is it not true that my insurance should be active for 30 days? Does my employer have to offer Cobra? Please advise as I have had a complete physical done for my daughter as well as myself. Thank you, Lori
Lori Silva <reneesil@pacbell.net>
Sunnyvale, Ca USA -
Hello,
My Granddaughters need your HELP! My daughter has two girls and she lives with her boyfriend. Her frist born has been living with us all her life she will be four in three mo. and her secound born lives with her dads parents. My daughter and the father of her secound born live together and Don't work there SRS cheak is about to stop and she has signed co- guardianship of her secound child to the childs grandparents and will not sigen for her first born and I'm going to fight this because I feel that in the best intreasts of the girls that thay stay together there mother has keeped them apart all this time. The boyfriend has told the mom not to have the kids there, and has told her that the baby will stay with his parents. That both girls get on his nerves. The girls have spent time together however not like it should be. please do you feel that I have a chance to keep them together in my care or will thay have to live apart and never know each other.
Thay both have bi- polar and ADHD and need a lot of help the other grandparents refuse to excepet and get her to a DR. There mother is also bi-polar and has a brain wave disoder I love all of them however I feel that i should fight this so thay stay together and get the med. help thay need.
There are Grandparents that CARE'LOVE' and feel the need to keep there family Together.

MRS.SOOHO,
i NEED HELP WITH A VIOLATION OF PROBATION CASE IN SAN FERNANDO COURT.PLEASE RESPOND TO ME AND I'LL GIVE YOU THE DETAILS THANK YOU R.RAGAN
ROB <ROBRAGAN@HOTMAIL.COM>
SAN FERNANDO, CA USA -
A SOCIAL WORKER AT THE V.A. HOSPITAL PUT FILED GUARDIANSHIP PAPERS FOR MY HUSBAND AND BUT DID NOT MENTION THAT I HAD FULL POWER OF ATTORNEY OF HIM ALREADY. HE ALSO ADDED A LOT OF LIES IN HIS RECORDS,AND TOOK OUT OF FACTS FROM HIS RECORDS TO MAKE IT POSSIBLE FOR HIM TO FILE. I HAVE A COPY OF HIS DICHARGE RECORDS FROM TEMPLE VA HOSPITAL BEFORE I HAD HIM TRANSFERED TO THE MARLIN HOSPITAL WHERE I LIVE BEFORE THE SOCIAL WORKERS INPUT AND A COPY OF HIS RECORDS AFTER THE SOCIAL WORKERS INPUT. CAN YOU HELP US? WE HAVE ATTORNEY WHO IS NOT A SPECIALIST IN GUARDIANSHIP MATTERS WHO IS WILLING TO WORK WITH YOU OR TURN THE CASE OVER TO YOU OR A SPECIALIST THAT YOU RECOMEND IN THIS AREA. WE LIVE IN A SMALL TOWN, MARLIN, TEXAS OUR ADDRESS IS 718 FOSTER ST. MARLIN,TX. 76661-2472
LA VERNE CEASER <L_CEASER@MSN.COM>
MARLIN, TX USA -
To Londra and Jamie below. I think it's more of a Los Angeles plastic surgery thing then a general Califonria issue. I find that we have a lasik new york issue here. We have quite a few laser eye surgery new york converts. It's like people are afraid to wear glasses anymore. Oh well I love my fellow New Yorkers with or without glasses. Maybe you two should move to New York! speaking of moving do you know a good immigration attorney . Either I need to improve vocabulary or increase vocabulary because I can't communicate with my US immigration lawyer .
Nadia
New York, NY US -
To Londra below (it is a down to earth site), I couldn't agree more. I work in Los Angeles and there is a plastic surgeon in our building. In my office alone I know people who have had liposuction a tummy tuck and a face lift . I also know a lasik surgeon who tries to convince everyone he meets to throw out their glasses and get lasik and laser vision correction . People are so vain. Anyhow, let's respect this guest book and commiserate about living in LA offline. Email me at jamieyellowfeather@hotmail.com.
Jamie Yellowfeather
Los Angeles, CA US -
Thank you for producing such a down to earth site. I recently moved to Los Angeles California and can't believe how many superficial people I have met. I think they should rename the state plastic surgery California or cosmetic surgery California . Excuse me for saying this but I have never seen so many breast implants . There are all kinds of breast enhancement surgery: breast enlargement breast augmentation even breast reduction it's crazy.
Londra Clever
Los Angeles, CA US -
Hello, my name is amy and here is my story and i hope someone can help me and my young daughter. My daughter was born june 12th 1998 in massena new york, where at the time her father and i resided. When our daughter was 1 month old her father and i seperated, up intill her first birthday i would fight with him to come and see his young daughter, which he seldom did, at the time he had meet someone new and was more foucused on her and her children only, In may of 1999 i married a man that had been there for me and my children for some time and obvisouly spent more time with my daughter then her own father ever did, shortly after we set visitation up through the st lawerence family court, his visitation was set from every wed to thursday every week and so forth for hollidays. from that time i once again was constatnlty fighting to get him to stick with the set plan and always failed, numerous times i called the vissitation unit to complain and was informed you cannot make a father see his child nor take them. my daughter and i dealt with this off and on till she turned 3. In october of 2000 my parents took a transfer to michigan for my dads job security, and offered me and my family to go with them seeing they where my only family and had been there mentally and physically, I aggrred, I did contact her father and informed him of the move and even hand delievered a letter statting our address and new contact phone numbers, (but clearly new we would never hear from him)I have been here since october of 2000 I am now a single mother of three children, In May of 2002 I contacted the support collection unit in Canton new york to see about getting my support raised from 50.00 a month to something a little better seeing our child was now in school and other functions, so of course my child support was raised in june of 2002, In July of 2002 not even a month later i was sereved with pappers saying that my daughters father wantted coustdy of her and her immediatally restored back to new york, not to mention some pretty rude allegations, I immediattally got a attorney and startted with my proof of all allegations he said, which by the way all my stattements where notorized, Of course the first lawyer i had was a male and i honestly beieve him being a father he just didnt do me any justice. so the court appoinetd me another attorney, so far i have gotten many letters notorized statting acctualy facts that i beleieve should of helped me and my daughter by now, But no So far i have been told i have to be the one to compromise and meet in the middle and be willing to give up my hollidays and provide transportation for and given visitaion that might come inthe future. I have spoke with many lawyers by phone and have been asked and told as why? didnt the father start any of this back in october of 2000? why? did he say in open court for support in june that he couldnt pay more support because he was the only one working and supporting a family of 5 because his wife is mentally ill and seeking treatment
Amy l krise rogers <amylrogers68@hotmail.com>
Alger, Mi USA -
Hi i have a problem my x husban has custdy of my 6yr old boy. I also have another son 10.I have vistaion once a week for seven days but i never get to see him.I want to know how i canget custy .i think my boys should be to gether.
Mary Solomon
lawrenceburg, Indiana USA -
what is a joint custy when u file for a kid
morris smalls <ellie23@bellsouth.com>
mt pleasant, sc USA -
My ex-husband has cuostdy of our 2 boys because of the fact that he is very sick and wants to spend as much time with the boys as possible. my problem is i am southern baptis and he is jewish i have no problems with our children being exposed to these churches what i do have a problem with is the fact that his new wife is wiccan i dont want my children exposed to any type of spells, rituals, and as of now they are being exposed to these things. i have spoken to my ex husband regarding my fears and he has simply stated that he will cont.. to let them be exposed to this behavior. so my question to anyone out there is how can i stop it and what can i do?????
Melinda Bredrick <Mbredrick@hotmail.com>
van buren , Ar USA -
Im 14 years old & It in my best interest to live with my dad but my mom wont let it happen. Shes put me in a shelter to try and change my mind. We would go back to court sso my dad could have custody of me but from the pervious court issues its pretty much took alot of his money. So if theres any free custody lawyers out there who could help me get to my dad email me! Just here me out theres alot more to the story than me wanting to live there. My 3rd step dad has put my life in danger, my 18year old sister has put my life in danger. My mom has verbally abused me and has totally messed up my life. When im at my dads its like a family not a war. DHS has gotten involved and my mom has them eatng out of her hands. All I want to do is be with my dad but to some people thats too much to ask for. this has been going on since I was about 4 years old & ive desided I wanted to live with my dad about 2 years ago and have been fighting to live with him since. HES struggling and IM struggling so can any free lawyer in Iowa help us out so we can get some sleep at night? Please I dont know what else to do. Thanks
Cindey Zelner <shawty__22@hotmail.com>
Moville, IA USA -
my kids and x live in kansas, my x had 0ne of them locked up in a juvinile detention center without my approuvle.do i have to pay that bill. without going to court when she was there guardein.
dennis R <hd77@aol.com>
Vinton, Ia USA -
need indiana guide line for visitation
lillian meyer <lfm55@onemain.com>
ftwayne, in USA -
I recently took an exam for the MTA Police Dept, New York
in April of 2002 and received a letter from such agency saying that if I was over 35 years of age on April 20,2002, the date of the written exam and not served sufficient time in the Military forces I don't eligible for the job. Now my
situation is that I do work for a law enforcement agency thru the Military and have 24 years of service in which I have not yet retire., I'am 44 years old deducting 6 years as per requirement which brings me down to 38 / falling short 3 years. I know that the announcement for the exam never mention any age requirement which was during December 2000
please be advised that the effective date of such age requirment is September 24,2002.,
Now Question; do I have a Lawsuit?
seeking an answer for my
future in becoming an
officer.(My dream after
retirement.)
Thank you
Sgt Rodriguez, Luis A.

LUIS A. RODRIGUEZ <TUBOLKANE@CS.COM>
LEVITTOWN, NY USA -
I recently moved from florida.At the time I was living with my roomate. He had some finacial difficulties and had his vehicle reposed. I in return gave him money to purchase a used vehicle with the promise he would make payments to me. I was foolish by not getting anything in writing. I am looking for an attorney who can help me get back some of what I lost. He owes me over 5,000.00
I would appreciate a response as to what I may possible do.

Donnel <tinki@classicnet.net>
tx USA -
Hi, I was on SSI from the age of eighteen to 29. I decided to try to work full time because people were putting me down. Soon I was cut of cold turky. Now three years latter I'm out of work have no insurence, and I'm in dessprete need for blood presure pills, acidreflux- pill such as previcid. While working I found that when treated bad, stress made me get sick. I went before a judge and gave her a letter from my boss, who sad I couldn't work full time without SSI and my docter sent a letter saying I couldn't work full time or handle stress type jobs, but still i was denied by judge. All this trouble just because I wanted to try and work. Just because i'm not mental they wont help me and whats more Ive resently been in the emrgencey room for chest pains, and the docter said I'm lucky I didn't get heart damege. I have no job no car and no health insurence and welfare wont give me a medcade because of my partner Roberts income, and what's up with that we're not married, and he can't include me on his work insurence. I don't know what to do I gusse I'll just go down the drain now, because no one will help me reabillitate myself. I can't work being this unwell without medicine I'll have a heartattack and die. Last time my blood pressure was 216/ 124. what's more my boss wont hier me back without me gettin help first.
Rick <r.m.verburg@worldnet.att.net>
Grand Raids, mi USA -
hi, my name is wendy and i have case w/ children in youth. i have a mental illness called bipolar. i also have a 6 month old son who i love more then anything in this world. after my son was born i had to go back on my meds. so i had to go into the mental hospital. when my son was 3 and a half weeks old he was taken from me and my husband because of the mental illness. i have my next court hearing in jan. i don't know what i'm asking i guess it's just do you have any ideas on how in jan. i could get him back. please if you have any ideas e-mail me. thanks. wendy harris-fulton
Wendy Harris-Fulton <lost in space 100@aol.com>
chalfont, pa USA -
hi im really turning 12 on november 16 this saturday,anyway i have a father who doesnt ever get to see though i might get to see him this thanksgiving if my mother doesnt find out .how old do i have to be to decide who i want to have custidy over me? thanks alot please email .a.s.a.p.please oh please oh but just to letyou know i live with my grandma thanks seeya brenna
brenna gregory <brenna_gregory@hotmail.com>
bend, or USA -
can i recieve a wv driving license sense my nc driving license has been revolked permently for dui convictions
bob wilson
USA -
Hi I was wondering if you can help me my son is almost 3
and his real father has not seen him since he was 5 months
old I havent recieved anything from him ever and I was wondering how would I go about filing for child abandonment and take his real fathers rights away so that my Fiance can adopt my son and I can change my sons last name! Please let me know Thank you very much
Angelina <angelinaburch125@msn.com>
Arvada, Co USA -
believe d.h.r. in the matter of children is discriminating my fiance & me due her having seizures. how do we prove this. Also they tell us we have no right to see information that they have on both of us & have told us that if we do want to see anything of what they have that we have to supeane it. we live in the state of alabama, in lee co. city of auburn. does the freedom of information act pertain to them as well. If so how do we register a complaint & to who do we address it to? Any information you can provide would be a BIG HELP to us, you can contact us via E-Mail at dwhiteknght01@aol.com . am looking forward to hearing from you. Thanks-Sincerly, David
David <whiteknght_1@charter.net>
Auburn, al USA -
Does any lawyer in the Houston area want a case of civial rights involving Montgomery Co. police dept ? ( these guys seem to go out and arrest anyone at anytime for nothing )I have no luck at finding one what so ever . The case is cut and dry (easy winner ) on pro bono . Thanks Samnyfd@hotmail.com
Berna Baker <samnyfd@hotmail.com>
Houston, Tx USA -
I have 2 children. Their ages are 7 and 10. My youngest is very sad because he can not defend himself with dad and grandpa. Dad and grandpa yells at both boys they say "sometimes for no reason" and dad pinched my youngest because he threw a rock into the woods after being asked not to. Grandpa pinched my youngest because he was not ready for school in time. About 2 years ago grandpa shoved my youngest because he did not like the way he said something to grandpa. I said something to dad on the phone after a child protector asked me to call dad up and talk to him and dad just hung up on me. I know what will happen next. When dad see my youngest boy he will lecture him for about 30-60 minutes. I have been through this with their dad for 13 years. Dad is a VERY controlling person. How on God's green earth do I protect my children. My oldest is not effective by this situation but it is killing my youngest and me as well. I raised them and protected them up until I made my husband leave the house. He is defenetly using the children to hurt me. I am not the only person who sees it. My youngest child does not want to go because dad and grandpa yells and he and his brother are not allowed to go out side unless they are going to Gator's Dock Side(a bar). Please respond soon so I can so something.
susan lyn olsen <suzirolly@cfl.rr.com>
casselberry, fl USA -
I just wanted to say hello, I work with your brother, He told me about your web-site. So just wanted to say HI.
Have a good Day!
Thanks,
Tony
Tony Reeves <tr21war@aol.com>
BATTLE CREEK, mi USA -
my three daughters got tooken away to the child protective services and they got to come back home but we dont like the c.p.s
DAN <sqawgurl@yahoo.com>
orlando, florida USA -
I am trying to find out to whom to contact about abuse of schizophrenia they live in a two story house. And I have so worried about them smoking and not taking their medicine. The Lady that has the home has treated them not to say anything. And if I am right about it she isn't suppose to have no more than 5 or 6 people in the house at a time. But she has 14 people living there.And when any one shows up she is notified of the state's coming that gives her time to have some of the ladies to go to the store or somewhere else for a while.The ladies were here for a short time so I had the pleasure of taking care of them. But now there is no one there with them at all So please help me to close her down and putting their lives in jeopardy

Thank You
Nan terry <terry9190@aol.com>
san antiono, tx USA -
hello my name is daryl and i have a little boy that is for months old.The mother is always using my son aganist me for money so i pay for every thing BUT she will refuse to bring him to my house but all i whant is to be with my kid.Another thing her parents smoke pot in there basemnt i don't like thaat one bit all i want is to get my kid living with me if you have any helpful hints can you help me please.i also have lots of reciets from every thing i bought
Daryl <themangibby@yahoo.ca>
midland, canada -
I think child support arrears are out of control. They charge to much. This has ruined my life and I'm sure others lives as well. I want to make a difference. I just don't know how to get started. Even people who are dramatically behind on their taxes has a once in awhile chance to pay less to get the situation aleviated. In California they have an amnisty or what ever.... evidently it works. Why can't we apply this idea to some people who is behind on child support arrears. I'm a single father to two inocient son's who have nothing to do with my other family. I have already paid off the principal. The arrears is affecting our quality of life to the point that is pitiful. I can see where this problem can distroy many families. Any time I hear people wanting to make others suffer because they have suffered, saddens me. The correct answere it to make the situation better not cause more grief. I want to change the current problem. How do I do this???
jamesbyrd <thebigmac48@yahoo.com>
Auburn, CA. USA -
Hi ,
I am thomas and I have a question.I remarried a year ago and I have had insurance with TN.Farm Bureau for 25 years.Now they tell me that they are going to cancel my insurance because the lady I married had had 3 lose's in her homes and she has tryed to get insurance also. She didn't hardly have enough to even cover what she lost but she can't get anyone to cover her either. I have never had a lose and I think that is very unfair to me for insurance companys to do this to people .I was really shocked over this whole thing can you give me some leagle advice on what I can do about this. I live in the State of Tennessee and I think this is discremination on my part. Very unfair.
Thank you,
Thomas
THOMAS HALLIBURTON <TNREDNECK59@AOL.COM>
wAVERLY, TN USA -
Hi
I just have two sons, That just move in with their dad after seven year Of not getting any child support. Or getting it once in a while From him. Or When he wants to work for 5.00 to 7.00 dollars an hour. Or when he got out of jail! And he only came to see them maybe four or five times in that seven years. And I don't under stand how he could get custady of them . I work my but off for 7 year and gave them everything. And thay just walked out of my life not even a good-by. And now after all of this the Dad wants me to pay him support. After he still owe me rears for the last two years. So what do I do just let him screw me again. It would be nice To see him suffer for a while. I'v done my best to take care of them and how it's his turn but I thing I'll will get the bad end of it. When we go to court and I just got a paper to go their to see what happens. Should I let him have them And all my hard work and sacraficeing and doing with out for all these years will be for nothing . So tell me i wrong!
love ha <lo/la .com>
toldeo, ohio USA -
I have a child suport problem. I am just recently divorced and somewhat live with my oldest son to which I have the upstairs of the house and he has the downstairs. I work odd jobs at the time to support me and my youngest son and we seem to get by pretty good. my oldest son does not seem to have a problem with it either.The reall problem is I can not understand why I should have to pay child support when my child is living and being supported by me. At the time I canot afford leagle assistance and would like to know if there is anything I could or should do about it.
John
Marietta, oh USA -
I have a question about discrimination at a workplace because a person has a terminal communicable disease. If this person knowingly started working at a job with this type of medical situation, and an employer finds out, can the employer then tell other employees about this person's problem? If the employer feels like the person with the medical situation is a health threat to employees and potential customers, then shouldn't the employer find a position at the job for this person to perform that would not be considered hazardous to other employees or any potential customers? If the employer chooses to tell other employees about this person's medical situation and the employees then make the person with the medical situation so uncomfortable at work with their opinions or beliefs about this person, that this person decides to leave the job, then doesn't this make the employer liable to that person for telling personal medical information about one of their employees to other employees? This is in NC and I am wondering if there are any laws to protect a person's right to medical privacy and laws against medical discrimination or any kind of discrimination so long as a person can perform his/her job without endangering themselves or others? Please let me know as soon as possible. Thank for you help.

Sincerely,
Kim
kim <cellomeet@rr.ec.com>
havelock, NC USA -
Hello my name is Billy. I am having trouble with my ex girlfriend not letting me see my 3 yr old son. We were never married. We have already been to court once over vistitation. But here is the catch ever time we go to court her mother is standing right beside her. More less telling her what to say. Can i have her put out of the court room while the proceeding is going on so she cant tell her what to say. At our last court hearing the jugde asked my ex if she had any suggestions to visitation and her mother jumped in and said we would like for him to give us a 24 hr notice. At that time she was only 17. And when he does come to see his son he cant leave with him. Well i had no lawyer was it stupid of me to agree to that. Any way i done as they said with the 24 hr notice called and everything, but they always made up excuses for me not to be able to see him. It has been 3 yrs and i want to establish my visting rights my ex is now 19 and married im and also married what legal advice could you give me about the vistitasion, will i need a lawyer with me waiting so long to do something about this, and is there anyway of keeping her mother from the court room. PLEASE HELP I COULD REALLY USE SOME ASSISTANCE.
BILLY
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Billy Winders <btwinders@webtv.net>
Uniontown , KY USA -
I NEED HELP AS SOON AS POSSIBLE,MY WIFE(?)IS VERY JELOUS,ABUSIVEAND OBBSESIVE WITH ME.ITS ALWAYS WHAT SHE SAYS.WE ARE ALWAYS GETTING INTO FIGHTS ABOUT LITTLE THINGS.SHE ALREADY CALLED THE POLICE ON ME TWICE BEFORE FOR NO REASON ,I NEVER GOT CONVICTED OF ANY CRIMES.NOW,SHE THREATENED ME OF TAKING MY CHILDREN FROM-WERE ILL BE NOT ABLE TO SEE THEM.WHAT CAN I DO?
SERGIO ROMAN <WWW.SCOWBOY310@AOL.COM>
VAN NUYS, CA USA -
I have a question: Is adultry punishable by law in the US?
Don <jfchholland@msn.com>
Cullman, AL USA -
my son and girlfriend have been falsely accused of abusng her 4 yr. old son. My son has not been charged yet, and they are taking the word of a 4 yr old who cannot tell reality and fantasy. he is now in a foster home. my sons attorney doesnt knw much about juvenile cases and he needs help and hasnt the money for another lawyer, how can he proove his innocence. they have no proof other then this childs words, and he did not do anything wrong. please what can be done.
Maryann Sillyman <Maryann65689@yahoo.com>
cabool, mo USA -
MY GRANDAUGHTERS MOTHER WILL NOT ALLOW ME TO SEE MY GRANDCHILD. I WOULD LIKE TO START TO SEE HER.
I SEEN HER FOR THE FRIST IN 21/2YRS.NOW I'M NOT ALLOW TO SEE HER.
THE WAY SHE LOOKS AT IS YES YOU ARE HER LEGAL GRANDMOTHER, BUT IT DOES NOT MAKE YOU HER NANA.
I DID NOT EVEN KNOW THAT SHE WAS HAVING MY GRANDCHILD.

JANET RABIDEAU <garyrcr@earthlink.net>
DERRY, NH USA -
Is there a law that states that grandparents have rights.
Her son just got visitation rights.Now the grandmother wants to sue my daughter for visitation.Can she get visitation rights?If so,what visitation rights does my daughter have?he threatend my daughter verbally could her lawyer have used that,in court,would it have mattered or helped my daughter.My daughters lawyer did not even try to bring it in to court.Did her lawyer do anything wrong by jut sitting there saying not much to her defence.worried in TN not good enough to be Honest. Judithbaby@aol.com
Judith <Judithbaby@aol.com>
Watertown, TN USA -
I am Engaged to be Married to a lady that lives in Kansas .She will be moving to Texas where I live .At the time I have costody of my three boys ages 17-12 and 7.she has a boy that is 8 years old and has costody of him.What would or how would the visitation be worked out most likly with his father that lives also in Kansas.He now has visitation on tuesdays and one day a weekend.Because of the distance this would not be possable.what does she need to do to make this move and stay within the laws of the State?
Robert <BGBob47@aol>
USA -
i had a baby at 15 rapped by a cop. I want to know how to find whats on the birthcertificate before picking one up. if his name is on it. i think because it was his baby that his wife and him might of kept the baby and parents and the L.D.S. Social Service probly led me to belive the baby was a boy all these years when it was a girl. And That the father raised my now 27 year old. i found out recently they have a 27 year old girl. Born in Phoenix. Aprox date as what i think is his birthday. i don't really know much. how do i start. my last name was also put down as my not legal step -dads name. The fathers name according to mom is on the certificate. but she just recently told me. after first Dening it. i really don't know where to start. Where do Turn .
Roxanne Young <4x4forus@msn.com >
Clarkdale , AZ USA -
My Dauagther and I are looking for a lawyer that will
help us bring her back home and knowing that we dont
have anymoney. I'm a singel latina mother who has been
discriminated against in court for my upbring as a
latina .I will do what I have to bring my daugther home.
PLEASE HELP US. I LOVE MY DAUGTHER .

Mercedes Padilla <Sedespadilla@yahoo.com>
Rodeo, California USA -
My Dauagther and I are looking for a lawyer that will
help us bring her back home and knowing that we dont
have anymoney. I'm a singel latina mother who has been
discriminated against in court for my upbring as a
latina .I will do what I have to bring my daugther home.
PLEASE HELP US. I LOVE MY DAUGTHER .

Mercedes Padilla <Sedespadilla@yahoo.com>
Rodeo, California USA -
I have a 15yrs old son his father gets ssi he never help me with his son he's a no good fornothing his son dont have his last name but at 1 time he took me to court at let him stay there for about 8month his father lives in phila. and i live in ny i went to court but they told me they couldnt do anything because the child do not have his last name could some please help with how can he take me to court and i cant even take him so he can help with his son i dont understand how some 1 can make a child and not pay?
nixa <sweetliza21@aol.com>
bronx, ny USA -
To big Ba Ba I am glad women dont keep thier legs crossed It would be one sh i ty world & you know that for a very plain fact. All that would get U is a sore hand..Sharyn t , Sooho Keep up the good work Your god for some People........
joe simbeck, sr. <joesimbeck@lcp2,net>
Sturgeon lake , mn. USA -
Dear Sharyn, I am going to represent myself in a child support case and I want to know how do I go about requesting an hearing with the Judge that has reside over this case? I would really appreciate it if you got back to me soon. Thank You for this service you give many of us in this country. Look foward to hearing from you soon. Deborah C
Deborah Carrato <C1961DKay@aol.com>
Brooksville, FL USA -
I live in the state of Florida. I am interested in rotating custody. What is it? What are the guide lines? etc
linda
USA -
My sons mother has been smoking marijana while watching or caring for him. What are some of my legal options to assure my childs safety?
Victor M. VAsquez <turtlelord@msn.com>
San Pedro, CA USA -
Ex-Wife collecting child support unlawfully. Who can I contact to investigate this fraud and prove it to the D.A.
Mike McCleary <tvonic@dyna-la.com>
Los Alamitos, Ca USA -
DID BANCRUPSY CAN BE APPLIED TO CHILS SUPPORT ARREARS
FERNANDO CAMPO <CAMPOC@AOL.COM>
CORAL GABLES, FL USA -
DID BANCRUPSY BE APLLY TO CHILS SUPPORT ARREARS
FERNANDO CAMPO <CAMPOC@AOL.COM>
CORAL GABLES, FL USA -
My husband has 2 daughters. One (11 years of age) would like to live with us) would like to live with us. She has expressed this for 1 1/2 years. What age does she have to be to be able to decide?
Linda Crider <RCLC@alltel.net>
live oak, fl USA -
IM WONDERING HOW TO GET SOLE CUSTUDY OF MY 2 KIDS. THEY LIVE WITH ME AND VISIT THERE DAD EVERY OTHER WEEKEND HE HAS DONE DRUGS IN FRONT OF THE OLDEST ONE .AND HE HAS DONE SOME OTHER BAD THINGS TO THEM INEED HELP TRYING TO STOP THIS
IT IS REALY MAKING MY KIDS DISSRUPTIVE.

AMANDA DAVIS <AMANDADAVIS80353@AOL.COM>
PONTOTOC , MS USA -
please me my elegal lock out of the STATE OF IL THE STATE OF IL ARE TRY-ING TO LOCK ME OUT BECUASE OF MY MENTAL AND HEALTH ISUSE.MY CASE IS IN WASHINGTON DC.THIS CASES HAVE ALSO TO DO WITH HUD +MENTAL HEALTH+SSA TICKET TO WORK PROGRAM+LOCAL AGENTCIES.I'm try-ing to relocate from IL.Please any and all asistance will be apreciated.I can not even get my pass child sapport.Please respond.....
myra golden <mglove120@msn.com>
milan, IL USA -
My sister's son won't let her or any of the family see her
grandson because they are having a problem getting along. The child misses his grandmother and wants to see her but they won't let him.
Is there any Grandparent law that she can use to get visitation rights.....
Dee Osborn <smilez1703@aol.com>
Fairborn, Ohio USA -
We recently got a piece of paper in the mail from FIRST NATIONAL CREDIT saying if I mailed in $37.00, Iwould recieve a $15,000.00 credit card I could use on anything. Well a couple of weeks later we recived it along with a book it wasn't a credit card it was basically like a fingerhut catlog, well we we're upset but still order something out of it. Rescently we found out over the internet that other people are mad to and are getting laywer and filling complaints against them, for saying we can use it on anything, can we sue them to since we used it?,and do we have to pay them since there nothing but a scam. Thank-you
Tabitha Lane <chattie79@hotmail.com>
Winfield, IA USA -
HELP! have a superintendent who beleives hes God. he put my child in his car and drove him to my house to remove contacts(not script).We have a rule that the parent is called to bring correct whatever (clothes ect. to the school.He never called and took mt son without my permission.What is this called law wise I have to file charges and our police dept. is NOT helpful.
Dawn Hudson <stilhottat40aol.com>
Clementon, n.j. USA -
Hello, I am a 24 year old mother of 2 beautifull children. My husband tried to committ suicide May 1, 2001 and he is now in a nursing home. He is comatose. He was in the hospital for almost a month on life support, while in there, the social worker told me to file for Medicare and Social Security, so I did. I have been getting his social security since Nov of last year. The nursing home is now informing me almost a year later that I am suppose to be giving all his SSI to them for co-payments. I called and spoke with his case worker she too told me the same thing. This if the first I had heard about this. Now I owe almost $6000.00 in past due co-pays. I have been to DHS for some assistance and they won't help me. My kids' get $54. a month a piece SSI. I have all these bills that he left me with. One creditor is garnishing my check. The nursing home is about to sue me and I am getting alot of bills that the Medicare doesn't cover. I can't pay all this. I have been at my job for over 2 years and make decent money, but I am paying almost $600 a month in child care. I have contacted several attorneys and they say "I'm very sorry to hear your situation, but I don' know what to tell you." I don't know what to do, but I can't take all this stress. On top of all that my son has been dignosed with ADHD and Bi-Polar and goes to counseling once a week and has been on several medications. He was kicked out of preschool last year and now is in Kindergarten and so far there hasn't been any big problems. I am a good mother and I take excellent care of my kids'. I don't understand all this and I am in need of some help, but I don't know where else to go. I have exhuasted all my options. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
Misty Rouse <mistyrouse@sbcglobal.net>
Tulsa, OK USA -
My adopted mother is fighting for Grandparents over my three children. I have pressed trasspassing and hairassment charges on her because she just will not leave my family alone. I dont think my kids need to be around her because of things she has been doing to my family in the past few months. What kind of visatation can she get? And do I have any control over it?
Billie Morgan <xaviaann@aol.com>
Florence, CO USA -
I THANK YOU if can help me. RICHARD
RICHARD BOLYARD <RICHA23834@CS.COM>
COLONIAL HEIGHTS, VA USA -
Just surfing. A wise man will always change his mind . . a fool never will
Peter from Merchweiler / Saarland <pHoffmann@t-online.de>
Germany -
Is it true that in the state of Fla. that no family member can sue a hospital for wrongfull death. In question a 37 y.o. dies and the family has no answers yet?
B.Faye Morgan <faydomor@worldpath,net>
Wolfeboro, N.H. USA -
can I legally move out at 17?
Maquilla Anthony <pinkpanther48238@yahoo.com>
Detroit, Michigan USA -
What is the difference between guardianship and custady? I am trying to get full custady of my brother, so he can have a better life. Please respond as-soon-as possible.

Thank you
Tamika Sanders <lashun76_2001@yahoo.com>
Jacksonville, NC USA -
Need help now. I have so many bills in loans and pay day loans that I can't afford to feed my child. Help.
MICHELLE FOSTER <WILLOWDOLFN@AOL.COM>
SPRINGFIELD, MO USA -
Hey there. I research home equity loans regarding mortgage financing headaches. Home equity loans work even if you have a second mortgage or no home equity . You can even do some debt consolidation too.
Stacey Wales
Mirtle Beach, SC US -
I NEED SOME HELP IN HAVING MY EX- HUSBANB PAY HIS CHILD SURPORT .A New YORK Court ordered him to pay $486 every 2 weeks in 1993 for his son and he has never paid . I need to know what I can do to have him brought to justise. Thanks for your time.
Joanne Stanislaus <jotrev7@aol.com>
Glendale, AZ USA -
my daughter has a baby she had him 2 yrs ago the boy that the baby is by parents has the baby she moved to califoria with them then when she got ready to come home they would not let her bring the baby home with her now she is having a problem getting him they have never been married or anything they dont even know if he is the father theres never been a dna test done now they say thers a law called attachment law keeping my daughter from getting him they say that if she takes him they will have her arrested for kidnapped they dont even want her to se the baby this is not fair she is the mother i need to know if there is a law of this nature. sunshine11622000@YAHOO.COM
pamela everett <sunshine11622000@yahoo.com>
laurel , ms USA -
I went through two lawyers so far since the first of the year. The only thing that was resolved was child support and that was done half way. We own a home and i would like to find out if i can force him to sell the house. And if i can what recourse do i need to take? We do have our paper work filed with the court but now the devorce is stagnating.Plus he is currently living in the home. I am also afraid that he will forclose on the family residence due to him getting fired from his job recently. Thank-You for your advice.Take care
Tina Castro <Kuzgirl@msn.com>
Citrus Hieghts, Ca USA -
my soon to be ex wife is a manic depressent with suicidal tendancy. she is takin my kids toa lady who has abussed her own son and the cops haven't done anything to her. she has busted one of my sons lips and blooded his noise. i want to get a devorce i'm tired of this my kids are more inportant to me. my soon to be ex wife has a lot of medical problems and can't or will not take care of herself. she found out she might be able to get dissablty (ssi) all she want to do is sit on the couch and have the kids get her junk food all day while she watches movies. she will not go to dr.s she will run off with the kids every time i get her a appointment. i feel for my kids. i have someone to watch my kids and help with their homework while i'm at work. let me know who in my area would be best to handle this. thank-you. sorry not a good speller
dennis <dukeofmages@aol.com>
vidor, tx USA -
HI my Name Is Justin and my uncle has a dispute with his Ex girlfriend he has court date coming up i would like to know how can he get full custidy of his child (michael). Let me tell you a little about him he owns A car Shop he owns a 3 bed room house he pays for most of the things that his child needs and her luxury she has her own room at his house. He has a fiance that loves michael. And michael likes his fiance (angelica). Angelica is in college and works for Lausd. Michael Mother holly Has threathen to hurt angelica when she see her and has verbably said some unpleasant things over the phon e. can you help me.
=email me at jjdrodrg@hotmail.mom

Justin ROdriguez <jjdrodrg@hotmail.com>
los angels, ca USA -
okay. I am 14 years old and my mom has decided to move to Montana. My dad does live in Clear Lake in another home, but he has decided to move to Indiana. I was wondering if there were any way I'd be able to keep living in Clear Lake without my parents staying with me. I have talked to them about myself being in their custody but still living here, but they won't allow it! Please send any information that may be helpful to my cause. Thank you!
Dana Dzick <danda_208@hotmail.com>
Clear Lake, IA USA -
Hi, I would like to know how would I go about getting back child surport. See I'm the child, My sister and I have never gotten any child surport from our farther. I'm 18 now and my sister is 19, My mother told use we got over 50,000 worth of child surport and he was surpose to be paying 350 a month since 1989 which he paid none. So can you be so kind to help me out with this one. PS I almost forgot our farther lives in Germany I was thinking that would make it a little harder.
Rosina Jeffries <dimen 314@yahoo.com>
St. Louis, MO USA -
Hi my name is Lacey, i am 20 years old and my son (Dylon) is 2 this month. His Daddy, (eddie) and i split up. We were never married and have been living together with our son for 2 years. I have no family here in the state,i have been living on my own since i was 16 years old thats when i met Eddie. Eddie has all his family right accross the street from our Apartment wich is in both of our names. Eddie was not bringing home enough money to suport us even with my job. We were fighting so much it was not a good place for Dylon. So he left and went to live with his mom. i got stuck with all the bills, diapers, food, rent, health insurence, car payment, all by my self. So i took on two jobs and im still trying to go to school. It's so hard to keep up. Eddie does see dylon everyday, and i would never try and keep Dylon away from his daddy. I was raised not knowing who my father was, thats one reason why i left home so soon. Now i started to see someone elts and Eddie is mad and is doing everything he can to make my life miserable. We can not take his name off the lease untill the lease is up. So he come in the house anytime and starts flippin out while my boyfriend is there. He has threatened to take Dylon from me. Should we go to court for custudy? will he drive my boyfriend away? Will i get full custudy with my 2 jobs and shcool? Will he have to pay child suport and half the rent since his name is still on the lease and he is not living there? i cant afford a lawyer, is there free ones? should i give him joint custudy, or should i take full? Who can i talk too?
Lacey Miller <LaceyMiller@infineon.com>
Richmond , Va USA -
Hello my name is Cisco. English language is my second language . I visit sites like yours to learn new english vocabulary words and improve my english grammar . I hope to have effective communication and business communication for a new job in US. I learned a new word of the day from your site. I plan to be public speaking and business writing better now from your site. Thank you.
Cisco
Bogota, Putumayo Colombia -
I was wondering if you knew the procedure's dealing with out of state child visitation right's, and what steps you take to make sure you are garunteed visitation under circumstances like this one?
eric matson <adsextreme@hotmail.com>
charlotte, nc USA -
I am in CT and I need to know is there any other way to stop a VERY DANGEROUS woman from doing counceling/psychotherapy without a license? She is being investigated by DPH in CT, however this woman destroyed my marriage and almost my life, she has forced her way into my home and been physically violent when she learned I called DPH. Police will not do more than harassment charges. I am afraid she may keep making trouble. She called DCF on me. Can anyone HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Aimee Dutkiewicz <weemom2002@yahoo.com>
Forestville, CT USA -
I have been trying to get a divorce for a year now. My husband is in the Marine Corp and sent me home without my child. He is refusing to allow me to see the child until paper work is finalized, but he refuses to sign to paper work. He continuously stalls. Since I am no a resident of the state he lives in I have to start all over here in Ohio. No body seems to want to help. How can I fight for my child when nobody will help me?
Shannon Gearheart <navy96734@yahoo.com>
Willard, Oh USA -
i have a discrimination suite against da of san diego, san diego PD and for misconduct and non complience with court judgements and writ
fred pruitt iii <eggot_fp@hotmail.com>
spring valley, ca USA -
i am 16 years old and live with both of my parents and a younger brother who is 7 years old. my dad has been disabled and out of work for almost 7 years. he is very lucky to still be here with us considering the types of accidents he has had. in 1995 while he was cutting trees, one came back and crashed down on him. he was out of work for 6 years and never could draw anything from social security disability. this means my brother and i had to do without alot of things that kids need. my mom worked and did the best she could but it still did not bring much money into the household. he finally was able to go back to work and after 2 days of being onthe job (working with his brothers) he fell through a roof 13 feet onto concrete. well here he is messed up again and we are doing without AGAIN. he has been diagnosed with RSD. the future is very unsure for my family. is there some type of funding that is avaliable for my brother and myself as we are having to do the best we can again. my mom and dad go to alot of doctors visits and this takes up alot of their time. they try very hard to keep some type of normalcy for us but it is getting very hard for them to do. please advise me on which way to turn as far as some financial assistance for the minors in my family. my mom has tried to get government assistance to help but it seems as though they will not help the honest people and my parents are not going to lie just to get a 200 dollar check for the family. please help my brother and myself. i hope to go to college one day but that seems unrealistic at this time in my life.
ashley b. swing <tammyswing@hotmail.com>
nc USA -
I have a god daughter who I love dearly. She is only 15. Her mother has thrown her out on the street. She is now living with a friend. How can I go about getting custady of her. Her mother is known for using verbal and mental abuse. As well as phsyical abuse.
Sharon Banks <sharon44dd2@aol.com>
Flatrock, mi USA -
I am needing to get a divorce. My husband is not wanting to pay me child support. i gave him everything when he left. I am just wondering if ther is some type of leagal aid that I can make payments to. He makes twice as much money as I do. HELP!
Cindy Rapp <wellndoubt732000@yahoo.com>
Lees Summit, MO USA -
I am needing to get a divorce. My husband is not wanting to pay me child support. i gave him everything when he left. I am just wondering if ther is some type of leagal aid that I can make payments to. He makes twice as much money as I do. HELP!
Cindy Rapp <wellindoubt732000@yahoo.com>
Lees Summit, MO USA -
I was wondering if you could tell me the new Law about peircing people in a busyness.
Thank You
Tammy <angelwing_sacreetion@hotmail.com>
Booneville, Ar USA -
Would like to know if you give free leagle advice?
Patti <rizzopa64@yahoo.com>
Mukwonago , WI USA -
Where do I find such a law in the state of michigan that states if a 17 year old leaves home-and the police are called, the police cannot bring them home because they are considered a legal adult?
Deb <lildeb_2@hotmail.com>
Reed City, MI USA -
My sister-inlaw son was taken away from her when she amitted herself into the mental hosptail to stable her medication her family says she abanded him and took her to court to get custody of him but my sister-law did not they all new where she was and said they would take care of him while she was there now there saying she abused him she cant not afford a lawyer and she feels like she cant fight for him because she has no funds for a lawyer he is 10 years old and they are all saying she is to old to raise him she is 52 please what can we do to get her child back into her arms..lori
lorena <bakerlorik@yahoo.com>
colusa, ca USA -
Looking for info about a possible stress retirement dissability.
I have a very stressful Federal job and I am 55 years old.
Connie Funk <condon@gate.net>
Indiantown, Fl USA -
I am trying to get my ex husband to pay his child support at the first insteasd of the end of the month is there anything I can legally do. Also my daughter is 9 years old at what age can she say that she doesnt want to visit him and how can i stand for her legally.
kim <mikenkimgurno@aol.com>
Decatur, AL USA -
I am trying to get my ex husband to pay his child support at the first insteasd of the end of the month is there anything I can legally do. Also my daughter is 9 years old at what age can she say that she doesnt want to visit him and how can i stand for her legally.
kim <mikenkimgurno@aol.com>
Decatur, AL USA -
My husband & I have been separated for 2 yrs. I always thaought we'd work it out and get back together. No children living at home. Now he wants to file for divorce. I am self emplayed and due to fires and 9-11 have had a terrible 2 years financuilly. My credit card debt is now over $20K, my car is worth $4k less than I owe on it, my health insurance is $300 per month. We own 2 pieces of property jointly. Would I be better to file bankreptsy before finling for divorce, or try to get one of the properties. He lives in the home and the other is a raw piece of land. Both have estimated values of $100K. Selling the land would mean paying capital gains and I haven not lived in the residence 2 years, although he has and it is in both of our names. Irent and can't afford the payment anymore because my funds are deplete and my income for 3 months has been 0. Colorado is a no fault divorce state. Should I file bankruptsy?
patricia Justice <tjustice@frontier.net>
Durango, CO USA -
Ms. Sooho,
I dated a girl for about 6 month that ended with me having her arested for check fraud. I then learned that she is a con artist who prays on peoples kindness. ther was even a story written about her in the San francisco chronicle detailing her scame. She has a history that goes from San fran to LA to New Mexico. The Fraud inspector at SFPD say i would be wasting my time trying to get the DA to prosecute because of the nature of the crime. she has been living in New Orleanes and now has my child and seeking child suport. the fact of the matter is tough luck for me I have to pay. but given the nature of the situtation is ther anything i can do to sick it to her.
scott robinson <scottarobinson@yahoo.com>
san francisco, ca USA -
My wife pay the down payment on our house with her ininheritance money her mom left to her. Now we are getting divorced,. She says i can't get any of the house because of that.
Please Help, Billy
Billy K. Anderson <willi31156@aol.com>
Knoxville, Tn USA -
I live in Phoenix Az and my wife and daughter live in Dallas Area. I am in need of a lawery to handle my case. Please let me know if you a available or someone who could help me.

Thank You
Robert Kyser
1-602-247-6424
Robert Kyser <Kyserdennis@hotmail.com>
phoenix, az USA -
My sister's former boyfriend won't leave. Her son is terrified of the man and we are afraid the child may be abused verbally and'or physically. What can we legally do to get the man out? Thank you.
D A <fourdivas314@aol.com>
USA -
LOST JOB AFTER PLANES HIT/CLOSED POSITION. 2 MO. LATER TOOK JOB HALF PAY TO GO FOR BENEFITS. HUSBAND'S TEXTILE CHEM. CO TOOK ALL OUR MONEY EQUITY IN HOUSE, NOTHING PD. FOR NOTHING LEFT, EXCEPT CREDIT CARD BILLS LOTS. HE WILL NOT FILE, SHOULD I FILE? I VISITED UNITED WAY SENT LETTERS, STILL THEY FILED PAPER THEN I REPLIED COULD NOT PAY TOLD LAWYER TRUTH, NO MONEY, BARELY SURVIVING, WITH CHURCH AID AT TIMES, TRYING TO GO ON. WK. 40 HR. WK., HUSBAND CANNOT GET MUCH BUSINESS. HEARD NEW LAW IN OCT. ABOUT BANKR. WOULD IT CHANGE ANYTHING IF I FILED ALONE, HE ALMOST HAD STROKE WHEN I MENTIONED. SAYS WOULD RUIN HIS LITTLE BUSINESS HE HAS, WOULD HAVE MY NAME IN PAPER AS FILING CHAP. WHATEVER. NEED HELP, BROKE, HONEST PERSON, JUST NO FUNDS. THIS HARD AS 7 YRS. AGO I SURVIVED BREAST CANCER. JUST WANT TO HOLD GRAND-CHILDREN, HAVE ROOF, NECESSITIES.
VELMA L. HARBUCK <jvhardluck@earthlink.net>
GREENVILLE, S.C. USA -
I want to know if I have a case against a development company. My Husband and I were looking for a home and we saw this sign stating HOMES for 30,000. I called the developer and asked did they have a home available and the receptionist said that they had two LOTS for $40,000. The sign clearly states HOMES $30,000 and up not lots and I've taken a picture of the sign and I want to know if you think I have a case and what would it cost us? I had to quit work because I gave birth to a sick child and he has had brain & heart surgery and rehab. So I'm available during the mornings if you need to get up with me. (252) 752-9697
Millette Chapman-Worsley <worsley33@cs.com>
Greenville , NC USA -
Hi, I don't Texas' common requirements but I have two sons, 9 and 5. Ive lived with there mother for I reckon 4yrs at one time. A two year another time. We never married officially though. Now we are going our separate ways and we want to do it peacefully. So we decided to write our own conrtact/agrement and have it notarized. Will that be a legal binding document? If so can you shed some ideas on how to present it legally? I consider myself on of those fathers who care. I feel bad enough that I've grown apart from whom I thought I'd marry some day. I don't want to have to see my kids 4 days out of the week. Weekends. I work 12hr shifts, 4 days one week and 3 days the next week. Leaving me with 4 and 3 days at a time off. I'd like that to be their time with me. So how could I write that up in such a way that it is within legal rights?
Donzell C. Harris <donzell.harris@amd.com>
Austin, tx USA -
OKay, I am only 13 years old but I have been searching for childs visitation rights. I mean I don't want to see my father. He has treated me like crap all my life he has been in and out of jail cheating on my mother. They divorced when i was eight years old. Today i spoke to him and i had told him that i need money to go school shopping because my mother has alot of bills since we moved from Franklin. He had told that he does not have to speak to me about child support, which I was not talking about that (he doesn't pay child support) He started to get all mad and hung up on me. He wants me to go up to his house and stay the weekend. and I dont want to because i dont like his girlfriend and her family. I think i should have a say in wether i want to see him or not. He has told me things are going to change and i am going to start seeing him again. And I Dont Want To. He doesn't understand me. He has never been there for me never. I have been looking for websites that say what ages you have to be to chose to see your other parent. if you find any websites please send them to me at imagirl0942@aol.com. Please he has put me through many things and i can't handle it any more and if the court says i have to go up there my life will be a living hell. Plaese send me something anything!!
Stephanie <imagirl0942@aol.com>
in USA -
MY HUSBAND KIDNAPED MY FOUR CHILDREN AND FILED FOR CUSTIDY OUR COURT DATE WAS 8-7-02 BUT I MISSED IT I THOUGHT IT WAS 8-8 I HAVE BEEN UNDER ALOT OF STRESS BECAUSE I AM 8 MO. PREGNANT WITH OUR 5TH. CHILD HE DENIES THIS BABY OUR YOUNGEST ONE IS 2 YRS. SHE IS VERY ATTACHED TO ME I MISS MY CHIDREN SO MUCH HIS SISTER HAS ALOT OF MONEY AND HIRED HIM A LAWYER IS THERE ANY THING I CAN DO ? TO GET MY CHILDREN BACK PLEASE SOMEBODY HELP ME I WORK BUT I DONT HAVE MUCH MONEY FOR A LAWYER .
vergie <lkydave@www.com>
la puente, ca USA -
I AM THE ONE FROM WEST VIRGINA. I FORGOT TO LEAVE MY NAME.
TERRI WILHELM
terriwilhelmduh@hotmail.com
terri wilhelm <terriwilhelm3010>
mineral wells, wv USA -
I AM A MOTHER OF FIVE LIVING IN WEST VIRGINA. I AM TRYING TO FIND A WAY TO GET MY BACK CHILD SUPPORT OF 33'000. MY EX LIVES IN MICHIGAN AND MY COURT ORDER IS FROM OHIO.I HEARD THERE IS A LAW IN WEST VIRGINA THAT I CAN'T HIRE SOMEONE TO HELP ME COLLECT. SO WHAT CAN I DO ? I CAN BEARLY KEEP THE LIGHTS ON.
terri wilhelm <terriwilhelmduh@hotmail.com>
mineral wells, wv USA -
i sighed in earlier with a question and i forgot to add a 1 to my email address its midnightfarmer1@webtv.net thanks and sorry for this mishap.
charlie <midnightfarmer1@webtv.net>
penargyl, pa USA -
i pay child sapport for my 3 kids and thats my responsibility but every month it seems my x wife takes me to court for increases in sapport. i was wondering can she take me to court as many times as she wants because i misswork everytime to attend and i feel harrassed by this she is so mad because i got remaried and her life hasnt bettered at all,and i am sorry for that but do i have any rights here thank you
charlie <midnightfarmer@webtv.net>
penargyl, pa USA -
Dear Mrs. Sooho,
i am a 19 year old student whose sister is in the process of getting a Divorce. She has a 12 year old daughter who is in the middle of everything that has been going on. My sister and her husband agreed for their daughter to come up from Marryland to West Virginia to live with my mother until the Divorce was final, they both signed a paper letting my mother to have custody of her grand daughter. Well she moved up here in December 2001 until June of 2002, she then went to see her mother and ever since then we have not been able to get her back up here with us.
When we call my sister she always has he phone off and the only way we can get a hold of her is if we call her at work. She then tells us that Autumn is at work with her and she doesn't want to talk to us.
Last week my mother talked to my sister's husband and he told my mom that Autumn told him that the man who my sister is living with is very mean to her, and she is very scard of him. In the meantime my sister is also having a child with this man who she is living with, and her divorce is not even final yet. I have looked up the laws for MD and they say that the have to be separted for 1 year before they can file for their divorce. i would like to know if there is anything we can do since they signed that paper for Custody of Autumn to come live with us, if we can go down to MD and get her.

Thank You,
Jennifer L. Clarke

Jennifer L. Clarke <Alspad@access.mountain.net>
Franklin, WV USA -
I HAVE A FRIEND THAT LOST CUSTODY OF HER 6 AND 7 YEAR OLD CHILDERN TO THEIR FATHER.THE REASON THAT SHE LOST CUSTODY, BECAUSE SHE MOVED HERSELF AND THE TWO KIDS BACK HOME TO HER PARENTS TO SAVE MONEY.THE RULING SAID THAT SINCE SHE WORKED AFTERNOONS AT DIAMLER-CHRYLSER AND LIVED WITH HER PARENTS,THE KIDS NOW LIVE WITH THEIR FATHER WHICH IS NOT THE BEST INTREST TO BOTH OF THE CHILDERN.THE REASON THAT SHE TOOK THE JOB SHE HAS IS SO SHE COULD/CAN PROVIDE FOR THOSE KIDS.AT 25 YEARS OLD SHE THOUGHT THAT MOVING HOME WITH MOM AND DAD TO CLEAR UP SOME CREDIT MATTERS, TO BE ABLE TO AFFORD TO BUY A HOME FOR HER AND HER KIDS, SHE THOUGHT THAT SHE WAS DOING THE RIGHT THING. MOM AND DAD COULD CARE FOR THE CHILDEN IN THE AFTERNOON WHILE SHE WAS AT WORK.WHO MORE TO TRUST WITH YOUR CHILDERN THAN THE PEOPLE THAT RAISED YOU. HAD SHE KNOW THAT MOVING HOME TO MOM AND DADS WOULD CAUSE HER TO LOSE THE CHILDERN, SHE NEVER WOULD HAVE GONE HOME.IN THIS DAY IN AGE A SINGLE MOTHER CAN NOT AFFORD TO NOT WORK.SHE HAS DONE EVERYTHING SHE COULD THINK OF TO TRY TO PROVIDE A GOOD LIFE FOR THESE KIDS AND IN DOING THAT THEY WHERE TAKIN OUT OF HER CUSTODY. SHOULD SINGLE MOTHERS EVERYWHERE BE AFRAID TO WORK OR MOVE HOME TO GET A LITTLE TEMPERORY HELP.
KELLI <KLINADAMS@AOL.COM>
USA -
i made a mistake thinking i had something in my car when it wasnt, i added it to a report because my car was broken into, 24 hours later when i found the item in my house i went to the police dept to have it taken off the report as missing, and the cops took me to jail for filing a false report..what nerve is that. not to mention i didnt post bail until 25 hours later and during that time they gave me no food and held me in a cement cell with a mouse and big cock roaches! i also have black and blue wrists and one wrist was even bleeding from the hand cuffs being so tight. i have no feeling in my right hand on my ring finger and my pinky finger up half my arm, its been almost 2 weeeks and i still have bruises, i took photos right away, but is there any thing that can be done about any of this, i am not a criminal and can not believe how un human i was treated and they want to put me in that place for 6 months as a sentance for this ridiculas charge.
pjai <pjai88@msn.com>
gg, ca USA -
how can i get a restraining order dropped, 2 years ago i filed one on my boyfriend but since then things have changed, he found the lord and isnt the same person. the other day he was visiting me and was stopped by a cop infront of my house and they arrested him for violation of the order. in court the judge issued a new 3 year order, i do not want a new one, i do not even want the old one any more, why would the judge do that when there arnt any acts of violence or anything, how can i get this un done
patricia <pjai88@msn.com>
garden grove, ca USA -
HELP ME PLEASE! I FILED A CHILD SUPPORT AND PARENTING PLAN MODIFICATION THAT I HAD A PARALEGAL PREPARE FOR ME. I SERVED MY EX, WAITED WELL BEYOND THE 20 DAYS, WENT TO COURT ON 7/31 AND SAW A JUDGE. HE SIGNED AND STAMPED EVERYTHING. I TOOK IT TO A CLERK WHO MADE ME A CERTIFIED COPY AND SAID IT WOULD BE PUT IN MY FILE AND IT WAS A CLOSED CASE. YESTERDAY I GET IN THE MAIL A RESPONSE TO MY INITIAL PAPERS FROM MY EX DATED 7/30. HE WAS AT THE COURT HOUSE THE DAY BEFORE I WAS, BUT THERE WAS NO RESPONSE IN MY FILE WHEN I WENT THERE ON THE 31ST. MY PARALEGAL SAID SHE DOES NOT KNOW IF THE ORDER THE JUDGE SIGNED STILL STANDS OR WHAT I NEED TO DO. OUR INITAIL DIVORCE PAPERS GAVE HIM 50% RESIDENTIAL TIME AND BASED CHILD SUPPORT ON THAT. AS SOON AS OUR DIVORCE WAS FINAL HE STOPPED SEEING HER. HE HAS NOT ASKED TO SEE HER OR EVEN CALLED HER IN ALMOST 2 YEARS. I WANTED THE PAPERWORK TO REFLECT HER DAILY LIFE. SHE IS 14 YEARS OLD AND AND ASKED ME TO PLEASE DO THIS FOR HER. NOW SHE IS A MESS BECAUSE SHE THINKS THAT WHAT WAS SIGNED BY THE JUDGE WILL NOT BE HONORED. I LOVE HER SO MUCH, AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO TELL HER. PLEASE HELP. I SPENT SO MUCH MONEY ON MY DIVORCE, I CAN'T DO IT AGAIN.
MELISSA <CALLW8ING@AOL.COM>
KIRKLAND, WA USA -
please help my mom and dad took custady of my son with out me knowing they lied to the courts,stating they did not know my where abouts when in fact they did so now that i came back for my five year old thay wont let me get him. I went to fla. for a job and i asked my mom would she wacth him until i got on my feet i sent money and every thing and when i came to get him she said i couldnt because she had custady please help me in geting him back windi watzlowick
windi watzlowick <booda0075@aol.com>
albany, ga USA -
My roomate has a 2 month old son. Her mother went to court and got him in June. It took her 1 week to get a court date and now it is taking Kristin 5 months to get back into the court house to see about getting him back. The social service did a home study of our house and found of no neglect I also have 2 children and an divorced. We work together and pay bills and I am a nurse at the hospital her in town. She keeps the kids when I work and I keep them when she works. She has tried to get help from legal aid and they are not taking any cases now and she can not afford to get a lawyer and pay. Her mother has a lawyer and that a big part of the problem. The other day we went to the court house to see if see could amend her visatation and they told her to get a lawyer. Where can we try next what can we she is not unfit she has done everything they have asked of her. Where sould we go from here. Any help would be wonderful....Thank you.. Bridgette Shaw
Bridgette Shaw <bshaw79@hotmail.com>
brodnax , va USA -
Dear ms.Sharyn Sooho,
Thank you to publish your law firm to the public.I do not have a problem to request you for legal help,but of course I need some help from you.[Please lend your heart out because I am desperately in need.]You could refer my name, and my phone number to others.
I am looking for employment,since I am out of a job.As a matter of fact, I had been a professional house keeper,working in one job for seven years.Incidentally I am out of work,so,I am asking you,please,do assist me in my situation.
Thanking you in anticipation

Respectfully yours'
Bibi Hynson

P.S. telephone [718]-322-7150

Bibi,Hynson <kazim1@earthlink.net>
RichmondHill, NY USA -
I RENT A HOME AND HAVING PROBLEMS GETTING THEM THAY OWE ME OVER $15,00.00 AND NOW THAT I HAVE TOLD THEM THAT THEY NEED TO FIND A NEW PLACE TO LIVE THEY SAY THAT WILL NOT PAY ANY MORE RENT. IN THE STATE OF TENNESSEE THAY GET 30 DAYS TO GET OUT DO I GET THE MONEY FOR THAT STAY IF I GET A JUDGEMENT ON THEM OR WILL THE JUDGE LET THEM STAY FOR FREE?
BARBARA HAMMONDS <BFHAMMO@AOL.COM>
TEN MILE, TN. USA -
I just moved to NV from MI. I was wonder if there is a way for my aunt and uncle to get temporary custody of me for my last 3 years of highschool.
Jordan Heathfield <Heater2727@lycos.com>
Boulder City, NV USA -
At what age is it leagle to move out of your home? 17?
kitten <americasuxass45@juno.com>
houston, tx USA -
I hired an divorce attorney about a eight months ago. She required a reatiner for $2,500.00. I paid the retainer. She sent a billing statement whcih displayed what she had currently billed me for her services. The billing statement showed that I have approximatley $1,800.00 left in my account. My wife and I have resloved are problems. I forward a letter to the attorney informing her that her services were no longer needed and I would appricate a refund of my $1,800.00. She never replied to my letter. I contacted her via telephone and left a message. She returned my call and ask me if I read the contract that I signed. I returned her call and left a meassage that from what I read all funds would be returned within 48 hours. She has not returned my telephone call. My question is if you retain a lawery and you in good faith submit a retainer and there is a remaining credit why by law is she not obligated to refund my monies? Also, what legal course of action may I take to sue her for my monies. Please Help.
Francisco Barnette <FJBARNETTE@LA.ATF.TREAS.GOV>
VAN NUYS, CA USA -
my wife is leaveing me she has a temp. no contact order on the frist goes to court for perment order my guestion is she has broken the temp order i didn't say anything we have talk a few times sence how can i stop the perment order
Kirk Dietrick <kkid1976@aol.com>
cedarfalls, ia. USA -
I HAVE A QUESTION FOR YOU IF YOU CAN HELP ME WHICH I PRAY THAT YOU CAN. I HAVE A 16 YR. OLD SON WHO IS ON PROBATION FOR G.S.I. CAN HE GET MARRIED WITH MY CONSENT?
THANK YOU
kathy smith <kathy72466@cs.com>
mansfield, ohio USA -
Recently a Peruvian Marine Soldier passed away in possible military trayning accident with Japanese and USA Navy at Hawaii. I am relative of the familiy. The all family is sad and question what happened. Little answer has given in the Peruvian Navy. We want an complete report for the questionable accident. What benefits the family is entitled to. We would like a legal advice. If anybody can help. There is a woman and kids left out without nothing, but to get a body for funeral.
William Inciso <winciso@hotmail.com>
Los Angeles, CA USA -
I have sole custody of my 12 year old son. My x owes me a lot in back sopport, I work a full time job but it is not
enough to pay the bills, Ever time I confront my x about the
money, he quits his job. Is there anyway I can get my back
sopport before he disappears again, I've lost everything I
own, and It is not fair to my child to live like this, I want to eat steak for a change, not leftovers and hamburger
helper every night
Donna E Ralston <STEELRSLDY@SBCGLOBAL.NET>
AKRON, OH USA -
I received a check in the amount of $ 500. When I attempted to cash it at her banc, I was told that this account has been closed. The person who did write the check does not make any attempt to pay the money. How do I procecute?
Thanks
aischa santnas <cepsenterprises@consultant.com>
Lake Mary, fl USA -
Well heres my problem my ex wife is taking me for back child support i am a disabled vet She was receiving an amount from the VA from my check but some how got am order of support from a court in the city she now claims i owe 73000 in back support she didnt mention to court that i had custody of son since 16 and daughter left moms home and stayed with me kids went back and forth to 18 now they say im a dead beat dad and took my license and want to put me in jail kinda overwhelmed here hpoe you can offer somw advice and this is all arrears back support and i paid or an amount was taken from my disablity check for the kids and sent to her so what do i do ty hope you can help
bill <Mewhos1@hotmail.com>
leroy, NY USA -
how do uptain a lawyer if i can't afford it?
and leagal aid dosen't take civial claims?
kelly <rubycarp@yahoo.com>
burlingtom, wi USA -
my x lives on my ssi and the court wont let me get joint custady im married just had baby got step child 11 can u explain why this is cincerily bry jak
bry jak <snaptur7>
roanoke, in USA -
Is it legal for parents to take their 16 year-old child's paycheck and keep him from cashing it/using the money?
Caitlin <IceDiva2006@aol.com>
USA -
My x husband is suppose to pay child suport of 315.00 a mouth. He got on drugs and lost everything and moved where I can't find him. He's was also suppose to pay life insurance. On the divore paper it said he would loose all estate if he didn't pay life. He stop paying child support on OCT of 2001. It is now July of 2002. What can I do about this. I have is social secuity number. And his girl friend phone number. I think he is staying with this girl. please help it has beem very hard for my daughter and I. I got laid off and I need him to start helpping us.
CORENA FELLOWS <FELLOWSEAGLE@AOL.COM>
ALOHA, OR USA -
My mom has full custidy of me and my sister. Shes 18 and im 15. My mom and all of my family live in South Carolina.Except my Dad and my stepmom, and little sister,and me. Me and my sister came to vist my dad in C.A., the summer of 99'. My dad talk me in to staying with him. Then we all went back to S.C. Christmas of 00'. I wanted to stay with my mom.My dad did not want me to stay. But i did. Then i came back to vist my dad the summer of 01'. The whole time i was with him he was telling me he was going to make me stay with him and never let me go back.When i went back in July of 01' some things happened and my mom sent me back to my dad. NOw i really want to go back home. My mom also wants me to come back to live with her. But my dad wont let me he wont even let me vist. So since my mom has custidy of me, shouldn't i be able to go back to live with my mom even if my dad doesn't want me to? He has also said to me that since i have be with him for twenty four hours he now has custidy of me. Is that true? I really need some answers, because i dont want to live with my dad. I want to be back where i belong and that place is with my mom and the rest of my family.
jessica
USA -
I don't know where to go with this, because laws are different for different state's: In my divorce papers is states that my kids Dad has to pay child support till the age of 18 years old, and my kids are 18 and 19years old and both in college, I work full time and my kids work part time. My 18year old has Sever Hemophillia so its hard for him to work alot.... My problem is my kids dad feel he should not have to pay child support now that they are 18years old. We can't make it and from what I hear in Washington state a Father has to pay Child support as long as that child is in school????????? Hope you can answer or give me direction of where to go with this. Thanks!
Kathy Neff <klneff@us.ibm.com>
Seattle , Wa USA -
My wife and I own a home in Bonne Terre Mo. We sold the home
approxamatly 1 yr. ago. We have been having trouble collecting the payments. By rights I can avict them but
don't have the proper form letter for an aviction notice
Can you tell me where I can obtian the proper forms.
Thank You, Danny Conner

Danny Conner <dankaycon@earthlink.net>
Hitchcock, Tx USA -
I GUESS IM WRITTING IN HOPES OF SOME LEGAL ADVICE ON A SITIUATION THAT HAS GOTTON SO COMPLETLY OUT OF MY CONTROL I DONT HAVE A CLUE AS TO WHAT I SHOULD DO MY EX-HUSBAND ASKED FOR AND GOT FULL CUSTODY OF OUR FOUR CHILDREN RANGING FROM AGES 17-9 HE ALSO GOT A CPO ORDER RESTRAINING ME FROM OUR CHILDREN I WAS GIVEN NO VISITATION HE WAS ALSO GRANTED THE DIVORCE THAT I DONT CARE ABOUT I WANTED THE DIVORCE I JUST DIDNT HAVE THE MONEY TO FILE THE PART WITH OUR CHILDREN IS WHAT HAS ALMOST DESTROYED ME IN THE SPRING OF 2000 I WAS ADMITTED INTO THE HOSPITAL FOR THINGS I TRIED TO DO TO MYSELF AFTER I FOUND OUT HE WAS GOING TO TAKE MY CHILDREN FROM ME WHAT I DID I DID TO MYSELF MY CHILDREN WERE NOT EVEN THERE THEY SAW NOTHING THIS IS THE ONLY TIME IN MY LIFE IV EVER DONE ANYTHING SO FOOLISH BUT I HAD HAD SERIOUS EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS FOR YEARS WHICH I HAD SEEKED TREATMENT FOR THINGS JUST GOT TOTALLY OUT OF CONTROL FOR ME MY HOSPITAL STAY HAS REALLY HELPED ME MY QUESTION IS HOW CAN A MOTHER LOOSE EVERYTHING DEAR TO HER OVER ONE EVENT I AM A GOOD MOTHER MY CHILDREN HAVE NEVER IN THEIR LIFETIME BEEN LEFT WITH A BABYSITTER I HAVE ALWAYS TAKEN CARE OF THEM I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I FEEL SO HOPELESS I DONT HAVE THE FINACIAL RESORCES TO FIGHT THIS THE FREE LEGAL SYSTEM IN OUR STATE WONT HELP ME I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO THE BIG PICTURE IS JUST TO DETAILED FOR ME TO EXPLAIN BUT I DO KNOW THIS MY EX-HUSBAND WENT BEFORE THE COURT AND TOLD HALF TRUTHS AND MUST HAVE MADE THE JUDGE BELIEVE IM A DANGER TO MY CHILDREN AND FROM DAY ONE WHEN HE GOT HIS CPO HE HAS NEVER REMOVED OUR CHILDREN FROM MY CARE THEY LIVE ME AT MY PARENTS HOUSE HE HAS BEEN GIVEN COMPLETE AND TOTAL CUSTODY OF OUR CHILDREN AND I DO THE TAKING CARE OF IM AFRAID TO DO ANYTHING BECAUSE HE THREATENS TO TAKE THEM AWAY FROM ME I JUST CANT LIVE LIKE THIS ANY MORE MOST OF THE TIME I STAY HIDDEN OUT INSIDE OF MY FOUR WALLS BECAUSE OF THE FEAR OF GOING TO JAIL JUST FOR WANTING TO BE THEIR MOTHER I CANT GO TO ANY SPORTING EVENTS OR SCHOOL FUNCTIONS WITHOUT THE FEAR OF BEING ARRESTED.I LOVE MY CHILDREN BETTER THAN LIFE ITS SELF I HAVE NEVER OR WOULD EVER PUT MY CHILDREN IN ANY KIND OF DANGER I LEFT HIM FOR THAT STUFF HE WAS ALWAYS GOING OFF IN SOME KIND FIT AND SOMETIMES OUR CHILDREN CAUGHT SOME OF IT
I DONT EVEN KNOW IF THERE IS ANYTHING I CAN DO I DO BELIEVE THE JUDGE NEEDS TO KNOW MY SIDE AND WHAT A COMPLETE JOKE MY HUSBAND MADE OF HIS RULING BUT IM SO AFRAID TO GET INTO THE COURT ROOM BECAUSE IF HE THINKS IM UNFIT AND THEIR FATHER ISNT DOING IT WHAT DOES THAT LEAVE OTHER THAN FOSTER CARE IF THAT WOULD BE THE CASE I'LL JUST HAVE TO KEEP THINGS THE WAY THEY ARE I JUST HAVE TO BE THEIR MOTHER FROM INSIDE OUR HOME THANK YOU
RHONDA BRADLEY <RBRADLEY44@HOTMAIL.COM>
CAMDEN, OHIO USA -
I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHAT THE GUIDELINES FOR CHILD SUPPORT
WOULD BE FOR 2 CHILDREN WHEN FATHER IS MAKING A GROSS
INCOME OF $6000.00 MONTHLY

AMANDA BENALLY <LILGAL4@AOL.COM>
BARSTOW, CA USA -
I HAVE A 8 YR OLD DAUGHTER AND WE USE TO STAY IN CALIF. BUT KNOW WERE IN TEXAS I MOVED HERE TO BETTER OUR LIFE WHICH I DID.BUT I HAD A COURT DATE IN CALIF. AND I DINDT MAKE IT AND THEY SAY IT HARD HERE IN TEXAS TO DO ANYTHING TO ANYONE OUT OF STATE. WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE HIM PAY CHILD SAPPOET. HE DOES NOT WORK BUT HE DOES GET SSI. I WAS TOLD THAT MY DAUGHTER CAN DRAW SSI FROM HIM IM A SINGLE MOTHER OF 3 AND THE OTHER FATERS PAY WITH NO PROBLEM.PLEASE HELP A YOUNG MOTHER
A YOOUNG MOTHER <SIMPLEYCUTE9@AOL.COM>
WACO , TX USA -
My fiance has sole leagal custody, and sole residental custody of his 5 yr old son. I guess first off i want to say my fiance, and i are soul mates, we finally found each other in our 30s. We are very blessed each day with the love in our lives now. When we started dateing, and i entering his son's life his ex wife lived in P.A. They had joint parenting till his son started school then it was to be decided where he should live. My fiance drove all the way to get him on his visitation times (3hours one way) because his ex had her licences taken away. At some point they started meeting some what half way. His ex re-married, and had two boys in diapers. It's a long story, a life i would not want, but she needs to make better choices in her life because each one effects her children. Anyways when we took his son back after a weekend visitation, his son would cry so hard. I am a teacher so i have been around children, and have learned so much from them, and about them. I told my fiance something wasn't right. I felt something had to do with his step father, but i couldn't figure it out. One time when the step father came to get him, no mother or other sibilings, his son was purple from screaming he didn't want to go. My heart was broken, and i told my fiance we have to do something. We set up appts. for a counciler, and we found out he was hit in the head by his step father, he is afraid of him. If anyone could be around this little boy, he is over friendly, and no one has the right to hit a child, but he is truly special. I take the time to explain to him why not to do things, or the consequences if he does, and he listens, and he don't do things. Anyways, she was going to divorce him, not over him hitting him, but who knows why she was. She moved in with another guy, and is still not divorced, and now she is thinking about going back. We have worked well beyond our schedules for her, and he messed up life, but when she said that, my fiance didn't want to let him go back to her if she was going back to him. The little boy said he don't want to live there, and has been around the arguing they have done with their other sons. She had told him he is mean, and now she don't understand why we are fighting about him not going with her. I have tried to tell her if she wants to go back then go, but leave him here for this month, and she can have him every other weekend. She signed for my fiance to have sole leagal custody, and she said's it's because we would of used it against her about her divorcing now. We called our attorney, and he was NO help at all, and now we are getting another attorney. Her life is unstable, she has moved 12 times in 4 yrs. We only want to know what our rights are, we have never denied her visiations, and believe me we have gone beyond what we should do to accomadate her, but this is the line. I am afraid of the little one getting hurt again, and he is scared, not to mention confused by it all. My fiance, and i don't have any other children, and he gets our full attention with us. His ex saids he wants to stay here cause of all the fun stuff. We are middle class people, we can't afford disney land, but i tried to explain to her it is because he is the only one here, and she has two younger ones that take alot of attention. It's like talking to a wall, but i am truly inlove with my fiance, and his son has become part of me, he calls me mommy from time to time. We have a good family, but we work hard at it. Thank you for your time.
Chrissy <billchris@neosplice.com>
portage county, ohio USA -
I am 17 and my boyfriend is older than me and we are wanting to get married and I was wondering if you could tell me a state that we can get married in and not have to worry about the law.
Jessica <sethsg_friend@hotmail.com>
Kingston, TN USA -
Don't you people realize that this is a GUEST BOOK, and not a question/answer page? It's a GUESTBOOK. You sign your name and say "Nice web site, great legal advice" or something like that. Well, this is proof positive that we need a better education system in this country.
Vicki
USA -
I need help to file bankrupy, but I have no money. I am on welfare now and will be on SSD. My income is $339.00 a month. I just do not know where to go for help.
Pennee Johnson <PenneeJ019@aol.com>
WA USA -
I just left my 18 month old son's father we were not married i want to leave the state..... but one prob.. i dont know how to go about leaveing. His father loves him so much and i know there is NO way i am getting out of here i dont know what to do. I dont know what rights he or I have on this issue please help with any info possible
Christina O'Brien <obrien8114779@yahoo.com >
NY USA -
my 2year old son got taken away from me by cps i did all that the courts asked me to do but they still did not give my son back to me now he is going to my step sister and she hates me she told me she wont let me see him or call him i need help to get him home and to sue cps and the state of ca
katleen tinney <tinkat2001@yahoo.com>
USA -
my son got taken from me by cps and i did every thing the courts told me to do and now they wont give him back they are giving my son to my step sister but she dose not like me and she said she wont let me see my baby i need help getting my son home can some one help me
kathleen tinney <tinkat2001@yahoo.com>
serra vista, az USA -
I teach school and was wrongful terminated and retaliated against at my job, so I found an attroney to take my case, we agree on $1000.00 and he receive 40% of the settlement.
The lawyer ask me to drop the termination part and stated we had a better chance with retalition so I said ok.
After waiting 10 months and two weeks he change his mine about repersenting me and return my information with no money. Two days later his office called and stated they had my check and I ask to speak to the attroney but he is always busy;I've made several attempts to reach him.
What legal recourse do I have seeming that I had only one year from the date of the claim to file?
Because teaching is almost a seasonal start and I've look for employment in other places with no luck, I embeded myself with bills trying to hang on for the new school year which I have found employment for the new school term starting in August 2002.
Now I'm stuck with trying to find an attroney with no job or money with August being my dead Line.
This is the state of California, Help please.
Larry Thomas <huskteam38@hotmail.com>
Bloomington, Ca USA -
My son dad hasn't been around in over a year and he has thing where i can't leave the state. I was wondering if i could now move to another state w/ no problems being that he hasn't be around?
donna <wildhorses9397@aol.com>
no.great river, ny USA -
I have a friend that the doctor told her that there's a 48%that she would not make it after labor but the baby will. She wants to do a legal letter given custody to the father of the baby.
emily <tiapacheco@yahoo.com>
fort myers, fl USA -
I am a doctoral student at a local university. Midway through the program my adviser, added additiona course work to my Plan of Work. These additional courses added not only a financial burden to me but required more time to complete the coursework. Now I am not beinng given a time extension to finish. I have a dissability covered under the the Americans with Disabilites Act and I am a minority. I feel the advisor set me up to fail. Do I have any legal recourse? (I have found another university that will accept most of my credits, but I may lose some and may have to take additional ones).
Alisha Snieder
Beverly Hills, MI USA -
To COURTNEY
INVER GROVE HEIGHTS , MN USA - Why doesn't your Father help you with the custody issue? Have you tried a Social Service ageny in your area? They usually can refer you to resources that can help in most situations regardding any form of abuse, emotional or physical.

Best Wishes
D. Williams
USA -
ME AND MY MOTHER ARE NOT GETTING ALONG AT ALL. MY PARENTS ARE DIVORCED AND MY MOM HAS COSTIDY OF ME ON THE WEEKDAYS AND EVERY OTHER WEEKEND.I ONLY SEE MY DAD EVERY OTHER WEEKEND. MY MOM AND I FIGHT ALL THE TIME. I AM 16 YEARS OLD AND WOULD RATHER LIVE WITH MY DAD. MY MOM IS CONSTANTLY MENTALY ABUSING ME, AND SHE IS ALWAYS SAYING BAD THINGS ABOUT MY DAD IN FRONT OF ME. ALL OF THIS REALLY HURTS ME,AND I TRY TO TALK TO HER ABOUT IT BUT WE JUST KEEP ON FIGHTING. SHE DOESNT LET ME BE THE PERSON THAT I AM AND IS BREAKING ME DOWN. ONE TIME WE GOT IN A FIGHT AND SHE PHYSICALY HURT ME BUT SHE TOLD ME THAT I COULDN'T DO ANY THING ABOUT IT BECAUSE SHE IS THE PARENT AND I AM THE CHILD AND THAT TELLING THE COPS WOULDN'T DO ANY GOOD. MY DAD AND I GET ALONG GOOD. EVERY TIME I NEED HELP I CALL HIM AND HE UNDERSTANDS ME, HE TALKS TO ME IN A FRIEND WAY TO GIVE ME SUPPORT, AND THEN ALSO TELLS ME THE PARENT OUTLOOK AT THE SITUATION. I WANT TO LIVE WITH MY DAD, AND HE WANTS ME TO LIVE WITH HIM TOO, BUT MY MOM SAYS THAT SHE IS GOING TO DO ANYTHING TO NOT LET ME LIVE WITH HIM. MY DAD LEAVES TOWN 2 NIGHTS OUT OF THE WEEK AND I WOULD BE ALONE THOSE NIGHTS AND I WONDER IF I CAN STILL LIVE WITH HIM BECAUSE I AM 16. MY MOM WILL USE THIS AGAINST ME AND I WOULD REALY APRECEATE ANY RESPONSE SO THAT I CAN GET A COURT DATE SET AND HAVE SOME FACTS TO SUPPORT ME. THANKS!
COURTNEY <RISSE313@AOL.COM>
INVER GROVE HEIGHTS , MN USA -
I have a PROBLEM IN MY MARRIAGE MY HUSBAND HIS CHEATING ON ME LYING ALL THE TIME WE NEVER HAVE A GOOD LIFE TOGETHER SINCE WE ARE TOGETHER, ITS ALWAYS ABOUT WHAT HE WANTS.
HE CAN NOT USE HIS ON MIND BUT FRIENDS, WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 YEARS AND WE GET MARRIATE LAST YEARS BUT ITS LIKE WE ARE ROOMATE THE ONLY THING SHARE ITS THE BEDROOM NOTHING ELSE. AND I'M REALLY TIERD OF HIS BEHAVOUR.
PLEASE HELP ME.
elizabeth Koroma <ekoroma@comcast.net>
Alexandria, va USA -
I would like to no when a check is given to you by the owner of a
small compay. Can this owner stop giving you a check or tell what to do
with this check. I'm part owner of this company. And my CEO told me
he will stop paying me.Can I take this to Employment or not.The check in question is for
what type of work I get pay for. I'm a consultant/ VP. The CEO is trying to conrol my money.It
is a family ran business.
Thank you
Paula
Paula Guyer <PGuyer@ADSITECH.COM>
Folsom, CA USA -
if a man did not have a job back before the child support laws was change and he owe back child support can he get a solution settlements and plus he have always taken care of his kids, buying cars,mopads,computers and money besides.
mabalene davis <people2795@aol.com>
inver grove, mn USA -
I have just recently had to go through something I never hoped I would have to encouter. I have a 14 year old daughter he was sexually assuted by a 27 yr old man. I have pressed charges, but this took place at a summer party, family gatherings for alot of people. My question is can I file a law suite against the people who gave the party? There was alot of adults there including the people who gave the party that saw this going on, no one stopped it. She had went with freinds and some church memebers. She will be scared for life with this, and the emotional distress that I have encoutered with her and myself, and the work I am having to miss because of all this that happened. What are my legal rights here in GA. Please I do not know what to do? I am not sure if anything will happen to this man at this point, I am having to wait and wonder while my daughters world is closing in on her.Please help me? Give me some advice.
Thanks alot!
Stacy Long <stacy_long@mohawkind.com>
Calhoun, Ga USA -
How can I open Trust?
Where I have to find the standard documentation?
I need make simple Trust that will acsept in leagal institutes.
Eugene Richter <real46@fdt,net>
Gainesville, FL USA -
I have custody of my two daughters. My ex-wife and I were divorced when my youngest was 6 months old due to infidelity (to the point that it is not positive that my youngest is biologically mine except in my heart). She willingly gave me custody due to the fact that her lifestyle was not appropriate for children. She says that it was because she was sick and did dent know she had Lupis, but when a woman leaves two children lock in their high chairs unfed and unchanged screaming all day while she sleeps 5 feet away; and then come evening she feels better and goes out to party I see that as a little more the a illness. Any way I have had one girlfriend in the last 2 years of which it only lasted 6 months. You see she abused my oldest daughter once while I was at work, and due to my ignorance and how the situation was handled social services took my oldest away. Now since then it was determined by a court that I was negligent in my duties as a father, but not a guilty party nor a improper caretaker and I am now getting her back. My ex-wife has no decent income, she lives with her parents and boyfriend who take care of everything including the lawyer fees (I live on my own in my own house and I support my self). She and her mother are heavily medicated; she has no high school diploma or GED. She had been behind and delinquent with child support since day one, although I have not pressed charges. She has spent less than a month and a half with the girls in the last year and a half, and a year ago moved to Texas, also there are no set guides in the divorce for visitation except state standard and I have done all in my power to let her see them. She dose dope, but I have no physical proof (have seen the parifinalia though after the separation), and due to the type of people her family are (gamblers, alcholics, mental disabilities, ECT.) I do not feel the children would be in a very good environment. Now because of the abuse incident she now wants to fight for custody.
Now that I have painted the picture with out getting into too much detail here are my questions:
1: How will the court view my possion as a single male with two daughters?
2: How will the court handle the fact that I had a girlfriend who abused my oldest, and who is no longer around? And no other indolence's of mal-care?
3: What would be the best approach to win and keep my children?
4: How will the courts view her and her living arrangements compared to mine?

Eric <berg_eric_c@hotmail.com>
Oak Grove, KY USA -
My daughter(14 years)'s dead-beat dad could be receiving Social Security payments from his Dead wife. Could my alive (A and B) student Daughter be intitled to this or some when he already owes thousands of dollars of back child support? His name is Jerry Lester Porter. If we can, contact me at my E-mail. Just trying anything to let him know he is not going on with life being ignored. Signed
Concerned parent. Beverly Ann Steed
beverly Ann steed <suneday@bellsouth.net >
douglasville , ga USA -
hi am a student geting out of hgih school a was reading about lawers i always watend to be on senc i was 2 well i was looking at your site it give me good help thanks lot Diana ADame
Diana Adame <dinky15@hotmial.com>
bakersfield, ca USA -
My fiance had been married for approximately (8)eight years before he met me. He and his ex-wife had (2) two beautiful daughters together. They filed for divorece because she had committed adultry while united in marriage. She has took him to court to request that he pay ($71.00)+-. He does pay the court ordered child support, it comes out of his check every week. In the state of kentucky People who file for a divorce and is granted so. They have to go to a parenting class at a local path ways. He has done so. He also has court standard visitation, plus open visition , and joint custody. His ex wife has failed to let him have his visitation that she aggreed to when they carried out there divorce. She has blocked all phone numbers he has called from to ask to see his daughters. She has went as far as blocking all phone numbers of his know affileates. she has blocked pay phone numbers and my work number.When she found out that he wouldn't give up on getting his visitation's, she call forward her tellaphone number to a local information number that give current event's that is yet to accure with in the comunity, and that gives time, date, and temperature updates. Call forwarding allows all incoming calls to the number that the calls are forwarded to,to bypass the actuall number and sends to a differnt place or phone number. When that didn't work due to her family having difficulties reaching her, she changed her telephone number and unlisted her knew number to keep my fiance and his family from reaching her to see the girls.we need help fighting the common wealth court system we have here. But we can not afford to pay for an attorney. can you help or point us in the right way

Kelly Dougherty <kelly8340353@yahoo.com>
Mt.sterling, ky USA -
My fiance has had full custody of his 3 children. His first childs mother was abusing drugs and left the kid at her mothers house for about a year. When my fiance found out he filed for custody. She was upset and made up a story that he had sexually molested his daughter. She had coached the child to say that her daddy touched her private areas. Well as it turned out they found out that she was forced to say these things and the father was awarded custody. She lost her rights because she never followed through with rehab. Now she has been clean and demands all these rights. I feel that she put her daughter through so much emotional and mental abuse that she should not have any say in anything. The daughter is now 12 and she does not want her in her life. Is there a law that says she has to go if she doesn't want to? Why does our laws let people slander someone and then later get what she wants? Sure she wants us to forgive her for her drug use and abandonment, and she is granted visitation rights. What about the child and the father who were mentally damaged from this where are his rights? Also he has 2 other children who he has full custody of and his ex wife abandoned the two children when the youngest was a couple months old. Why do thes women feel they can emotionally scar these children and then walk right back in their life as if they did nothing. Never have to pay more than 50.00$ in child support. She never calls them maybe a couple times a year then wants them to come stay the summer in Idaho when we live in Washington. The children are fed up with her and have decided not to go visit her anymore. So do they have those rights not to go over to their real mothers home? They are 7 and 8. She has told me I need to make them go and I told her I will not force them to go if they dont want to they dont have to, and she said their a little young to make decisions. I told her then you come force them to go kicking and screaming. Shwe said I will be talking to my lawyer. We are confused we are not keeping her from the children they dont want to go. What rights do children have when this kind of thing happens? Please anyone with any information please let me know.
Chelsie <sweetchels@msn.com>
Enumclaw, Wa USA -
Me and my ex have a child in common, and both our names are on the birth certificate. He drank all the time when we were together. He slammed into a tree when I was about 2 months pregnant. He has drove our daughter around when he was drunk and I was working. And right after we split up he was under the influence and tried to take her from me, and he ended up dropping her on the porch to stranggling me. I called the cops and made a report but didnt press charges is there any way i can go back and press charges? I am also afraid to let him take her for weekends in fear of what could happen to her. If anybody can give me any information on anything that i can do to protect my daughter and me from him it would be greatly appreciated....
Helen <Ashlynn1080@aol.com>
Greenville, SC USA -
My name is Edmund Marco and it's a pleasure to sign your guest book. I work for an advertising agency in London. Our agency represents direct marketing companies that are involved in the marketing of products as seen on TV in England. Most of the infomercial products come from the U.S. but then again we export our talents as well. My brother has appeared in infomercials in the U.S. advertising various products. I think it's hilarious that English people respond so well to American products while Americans tend to respond well to sales people who have an English accent!
Edmund
London, Kent England -
need help with child suport and caustady of my two dauters my wife is a mentle abuser and has asalted me but still has my dauters help

Donald Rowland <mulemandon@msn.com>
pacific, wa USA -
Good Morning!
On June 4th in Cambridge Court I will appear in with the D.O.R. to rectify what the D.O.R. considers back support.
This is so far from the truth its not funny at this point.
I have represented myself now for 2 years and I for these
years have with no avail missed seeing my 2 kids in that time.I need your professional expertise, I assure you that what I am telling and willing to show you would amase even
you.feel free to contact me at once 1 508 363 4792.

Thank-you

John Boisvert Sr.
John G. Boisvert Sr. <JBoisvert363>
Worcester, MA USA -
I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHAT RIGHTS A FATHER HAS ON CUSTIDY.
IAM NOT MARRIED,MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAD A BABY 7MONTHS AGO.
IT WAS A SUPRISE.I WANT TO LEAVE BECAUSE HE IS MENTAL ABUSER AND WE JUST DON'T AND CAN'T GET ALONG ANYMORE HE SAYS IT IS ALL MY FAULT AND IF I LEAVE HE WILL DO EVERYTHING IN HIS POWER TO TAKE MY SON FROM ME. MY SON IS MY LIFE. I WOULD JUST LIKE TO KNOW IF HE HAS ANY CHANCE TO TAKE MY SON.
THANK YOU FOR LISTENING
JENNIFER
Jennifer Harkless <jennislovebug@aol.com>
USA -
MY NAME IS SHARYN TO YYYYYYYYYEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAA
SHARYN REYNOLDS <SNREYNOLDSCCBS@EIRCOM.NET>
DONEGAL, IRELAND -
I have been married for 6 years. My husband who is not a legal resident is abusive. His INS case is now pending an appeal. The last time he abused me was 3/19/02 and I tried to get an Emergency Restraining Order but I exceeded the amount of time given to file for the ERO. I have even told him to leave the house and he refuses to leave. We live w/my mother. Are there any other options for me? His cycle is every three months. Please help me!
Mari <maryiam4u@aol.com>
Houston, TX USA -
i am a girl of alcholic parents they said over and over for years it was the last timne now they both went to tretment im aim sapost to forgive the past
tina <baker@mtaonline.net>
USA -
I haven't had my daughter since she was one year old, this August she will be seven years old. I have been screwed over by the courts and was told I would never have her in my life that I was just her egg donor. I now have a three year old son who I have took really great care of and have raised him to the best. I'm just hoping to find someone who can help me get my little girl back in my life where she should be. I haven't seen or talked to her since she was two years old. So please if someone reads this and can help I would be very thankful. Looking for a angel!!!
Stacey <lil_sis_gorilla>
Mcalester, ok USA -
trying despretly to get my driving lisence back.they were susppended 7 years ago.i live in ky they were suspended in mi.for dui.i have appealled and done more than they asked to get them back and michigan still will not clear for renstatment of my driving privleges.
michael bishop <Rbishop766@cs.com>
paducah, ky USA -
I have been having some trouble with the school my 13-year-old son attends. He is in trouble at school atleast once or twice a week for being rebelious, skipping classes, excet. I have FULL LEAGAl CUSTODY of him. When he gets in trouble the School will NOT contact me at work OR home. They leave messages for my mother on my answering machine. I have gone to the school to tell them to call me at work, but they still don't contact me. Is there any thing I can do about this? My mother doesen't have ANY custodial rights. Any info would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,
Robin R. Smith
Robin <rsmith3732@earthlink.net>
Panama City, FL USA -
I'm in the military. I've been married ten years. I need to know is it true after being married after ten years your spouse automatically rates fifty percent of your retirement. Is this true or false or can you tell me where to get the information from? Need help Mr. Hodge.
Alfred F Hodge <hodgea46@konnect.net>
okinawa, japan, USA -
My Father is looking for a lawyer for a child support case. You see he has been paying child support scince 1976 and in and there is no records of him paying for it at all. And the money is still being tooken out of his check. He still pays child support for my little brother and he know that he still has to pay that cause my brother is only 14, but he has 3 older children in thier late 20's and he is still paying child support that he dosen't owe I am wondering if that money should be payed back to him and HOw can he go about taking care of this problem.
Please give me some advice ---Courtney
Courtney <Angeleyez2110@yahoo.com>
Milwaukee, WI USA -
hi my name is deborah i can not afford to pay for a lawyer iam looking for some leagle addvise on child custody iam trying to get custody of my grandson and iam trying to get him home with family because my daughter is only sixteen and she is not ready to take on the responabilty of being a mother yet and right now he is in the custody of the state and so is my daughter and she is doing evrything she can to see that i do not get custody of my grandson so i need some help from a lawyer but can not afford one can you tell me is there any good leagle aid lawyers out there that can help me to get custody of my grandson
Deborah L Munoz <titanic_12570@yahoo.com>
wendell, nctitnc USA -
i'm looking for a no cost or low income lawyer i need a divorce
amalia pena <2betenacious@ez2.net>
perris, ca USA -
I, was a VERY BAD motor cycle acc.
I, was left "Brain Injiuried".But I, live alone "Own" well paying for My house!
Now My father is trying, to make Me look insane....So far he talked, well threated,Me into Committing Myself once!
I, had done so,to prove I, was not upset in "The Head".

Now he is, threating me AGAIN.I, just want that man taken off, My Papper.As My Gardian.

He has involved,My Sisters,My Brother,an Lesbian Aunt,his sister.
An I'm all alone here......... Can you folks,help........?????????????????Me Please!!!!!!!

My last name is spelled incorrectly, on purpose.........for My protection! all of the rest of the mistakes are real, mistakes:/ Buh Bye.

PPPPPPLease contact me!!!!!!!! 856-384-9206
Daniel Bunts <przybo@comcast.net>
Deptford, NJ USA -
my husband has a seven year old child we havent seen for about 3 years now but we are paying child support on her she is beautiful we dont even know how she is we need help to see her please help if u can .......
dawn gibson <teddybear32822@yahoo.com>
summerfeild, fl USA -
I have been looking to see if there are any laws that give aunts visitation rights to their nieces/nephews. Can you help me out?
Kamie <rifle94@hotmail.com>
Morgantown, WV USA -
My husband has a child from a previous relationship. Once the mother of the child found out we were getting married she put him up for child support. We do not mind paying but she has never been in daycare before(grandma watches her)and 2 days before the court date she put her in daycare causing the amount to go up. We were granted visitations but the mom never lets her stay the full time and just recently she did not show up for a visit she said she had something to do. We called the daycare and the director said the mom took the child out of daycare. Is there some type of documentation we can ask for proving her daycare status because we think she just enrolled her for more money. What are the rules for joint custody or maybe for the summer visitation? She is 2 years old every other weekend is not enough for a father.
Daelene <biancawash@aol>
temple hills, md USA -
I want to know the limitations of a restraing order. I really need to know so please e-mail me if you have any answers. Thank You
HELLEL <ChampionStix@aol.com>
San Jose, Ca USA -
I was hoping for some advice. My stepson was sexualy abused at a church daycare about 4 years ago and the case was dropped. We were told just recently that unless there was prior complaints or unless other people come forward, that there is nothing we can do. My question is how much information on the "alledged" perpatraitor or the daycare can we put in an article to see if anyone had doubts or concerns before or since our son was molested???

Don
Don Jarrard <jarrarddv@aol.com>
louisville, ky USA -
I AM ABOUT TO GO TO COURT FOR CHILD SUPPORT I HAVE A 13YR OLD AND 15YR OLD WE HAVE NEVER BEEN MARRIED AND WERE TOGETHER FOR 15YRS WE JUST FOUND OUT THAT HE HAS JUST GOT MARRIED A YEAR AGO AND HAS BUILD A HOUSE FROM THE GROUND UP HE IS CURRENTLY SUPPORTING HER CHILDREN SHE HAS 2 BOYS FROM A PREVIOUS MARRIGE AND HE TELLS US HE HAS NO MONEY FOR US HE LIVES IN ANOTHER STATE SO I'M TOLD THAT THE COURTS WONT GO AFTER HIM. AND DO YOU THINK THAT I CAN GET BACK CHILD SUPPORT PLEASE LET ME KNOW THANK YOU! WRITE BACK SOON
gladys robinson <ladygmrobinson>
attleboro, ma USA -
my friend and her husband have been seporated for almost a year and will be divorcing soon, they have been to mediation for the children, which left them with joint costody.(the children reside with the father). he has now informed her that he plans to move out of the state...is there anything she can do to prevent this? she has not yet been able to afford a larger place to live so having the children stay with her does not look like an option at this time.please give us any advice you can on her legal rights.there are 2 children involved..the oldest is his step child..(her father is in the military,in korea)
josie <manic_pisces@hotmail.com>
USA -
I am trying to declare bankrupy and I am in search of a lawyer to implement the case! I would like to know your fee for completing this process ,and filing costs...

Thank you,

Ms. Mason
Brenda Mason <brgnm@webtv.net>
Dallas, TX USA -
I've negotiated a 50/50 coustody agreement in the state of Ny with an equil housing agreement and no support payments to be paid by either party.I live up to that agreement,in every way, as a mater of fact it is more like 70/30 in my faver,meaning that my daughter is at my home far more than she is with her mom. The "X" moves to PA (6 miles away). She takes me to court in PA for child sopport and wins,with out changing the coustidy or the residency agreement.My question is : Can the state of PA over rule the desicion of the NY court? I actually am the exact opposit of a deadbeat dad
Thank You in advance for your responce
C.R.Corbett
Chris Corbett <ccorbett@aol.com>
Hankins, Ny USA -
I was wondering if there is any way to get restraining order against my baby's father that will prohibit him from entering the same county as I am in. He is very abusive and I dont want him around my baby....I am scared that he will take my baby from me.Any help that I may recieve would be greatly appreciated. Thank You
Stephanie Clark <kittykat_62959@hotmail.com>
Montgomery City, MO USA -
I was wondering if there is any way to get restraining order against my baby's father that will prohibit him from entering the same county as I am in. He is very abusive and I dont want him around my baby....I am scared that he will take my baby from me.Any help that I may recieve would be greatly appreciated. Thank You
Stephanie Clark <kittykat_62959@hotmail.com>
Montgomery City, MO USA -
I need information about how to file for bankrupsy and also how to sue Profina Dept. Solutions for messing things up royally for me. I am in Missouri and need a good attorney.
C. L. Martin <mercys_me@yahoo.com>
LaRussell, Mo USA -
my sister wants to give me full custdy of her child. What do she have to do without going though dss or getting a lawery,or is that the only way.
THANK YOU
tlindsey@OLIVIANC.NET

tasha <tlindsey@OLIVIANC.NET>
Sanford, NC USA -
Can you tell me how to speak to my son (age 13)in WI. when my x-husband wont let him regardless of the fact he wants to speak to me?
Janet Weis <pixiemystic@yahoo.com>
Modesto, CA USA -
how do i get a copy of Laws & Rules of nh. chils support enforcement???. i have been told, that there is a time to wait like a mo. before they take your licence for Non payment..
I want to see it in black & white...
thanks
Joseph is aound $2,000.00 in Arrears.. has Not been here for 3 yrs. to see our son.
Thanks
monica hicks <hicksnhfamily@msn.com>
Clarksville, nh. USA -
my sixteen year old wants to live with me . what are my rights in ct or his rights . he don't want to go home . he wants to stay with me. what can i do???????????????
tammy patterson <tjflash31@yahoo.com>
salem , ct USA -
I told my mother i was moving out and she told me that i was not going to move out and i was not old enough to make that decesion. I told her that the law in texas is 17 and she did not beleive me. I thought it was 17 could you tell me what the legal age is so i can move out? Thank-you
Anthony Green <opie138@hotmail.com>
marble falls, texas USA -
My boyfriend was sent papers in the mail about a child that he didn't know if it was his or not. There was a test taken, and he is. The mother of the child just up and left one night, and he hasn't seen or heard for them since, until the papers were sent to him. Now he knows where she lives. The state is wanting him to pay child support, and he is willing to, but I think that he should have the right to see his daughter. The mother and daughter live in Florida and he lives in Missouri. Is there any way that they would be able to have joint custity, or would he just get to see her on Holidays and Summer break? What can he do? Would he be best to try to get full custity if he thinks that she is in a bad situation, or would he be best to just get visitation rights? Would he have to pay support, if the mother doens't want him to see her?
Thanks.
Patricia Abney <pabney@hotmail.com>
Kansas City, MO USA -
My husband has been to court over and over in the last 5 years with his exwife because she doesnt want him to spend any time with his children every thing was fine untill he met me then she desides she doesnt want him to see the kids I have 2 kids by a previous marriage and we have 2 together then he has 2 by her my husband has recently been laid off of work in the mines his exwife has took us to court several times with free lawyers the welfare gets her free lawyers and there is only one low income place in town for help and because she is using them we can not get any help.We have no money and we have a court hearing in May we love the kids very much and she is lying to the courts so she can have the kids to her self the woman uses the system to get here way She tells the kids that my husband doesnt want to see them he just wants to hurt her please help us thank you Rosie Stowers
Rosie Stowers <kidsmgdcsc @ yahoo .com>
bradley, wv USA -
I like to know couple of words mean jont legal custody and primary physical custody
linda wells <blackvelvet41@webtv.net>
troy, ny USA -
I WAS MARRY TO MY XHUSBAND WILLIAM RIVERA FOR 15 YRS.A NYPD OFFICER.HE WANTED ME HOME CARE FOR HIM AND OUR SON.HE HAD CHEATED MANY TIMES I FOR GIVE.I DID MY OWN PI WORK. HE WAS HAVING SEX WITH THE WOMAN WHO LIVE UPSTAIRS OF ME.MY POINT IS IM STILL HURTING FOR WHAT HE AND SHE DID .MY LIFE IS GETTING WORST.MY HEALTH. NO JOB VERY DEPRESS,MENTIAL VERY MAD FOR WHAY THERE HAD DONE TO MY SON AND ME.HE DONT SEE HIS SON. I LIVE IN A POOR PLACE.AND BECAUSE A OLDER WOMAN WHO PAID MY HUSBAND HE LEFT US. AND IT HURTS TO NOT BE ABLE TO HAVE THE THING YOU ONES HAD. SHE HAS A APT LIVING THEGOOD LIVE SPENDING MONEY LIKE NOTHING AND IM WONDERING HOW TO PAY THE BILLS AND GET FOOD AND LIVING IN A 1 ROOM. NOW I WANT TO NO IF I CAN SUE MY XHUSBAND NEW WIFE FOR BREAKING UP MY MARRIAGE. AND FOR ALL MY PAIN ECT.CAN ANY ONE HELP ME I BELIVE IN GOD AND WHAT YOU DO TO OTHERS YOU WILL GET THE SAME BACK .I GUESS WHAT WOULD MAKE ME HAPPY IS THAT SHE SEE WHAT HE IS REALLY MADE OF A BIG CHEATER.GOD BLESS US ALL AND THAT WE THE FRIST WIFES CAN MOVE ON WITHOUT MEN LIKE THAT FROM A BROKEN HEART ADNAN925122@AOL.COM CAN I SUE A WOMEN WHO IS 13YRS OLDER THEN MY X HUSBAND AND BROKE MY MARRIAGE.
RIVERA-ROBLES <ADNAN925122@AOL.COM>
MASPETH, NY USA -
i am native american, have a 10 year old son, thats live on the reservation with his aunt dhe is the guardian, like to get some help with getting my back.
dietta twyford <dtwyford@webtv.net>
chandler, az USA -
I am 16 years old and 4 months pregnant the father of the baby is 17 and will be 18 when the baby is born. He has a police record of trying to kill his best friend at school and doing drugs. I am nto with him any longer cause I cant raise a baby with a guy like that. He is threating me to get full cosidty of the baby when it is born. would that be possible. He does drugs and he drinks all the time. I want him to be in the babys life, but I think that the baby will be safer with me. I have a 1 year old brother and my ex boyfriend treated him like crap. I dont want my baby to go through that. Can you please help me?

Irene <spoiledbrat53916@hotmail.com>
WI, USA -
I was wondering what a credit card can do to me legally. I am willing to pay a debit. I don't have the money now. They want me to give them $600 in 24 hrs. Which I can not do. What happens? Please let me know.

Lee <karenadora@hotmail.com>
bonifay, Fl USA -
My husband and I were married and he had an affair and decided he didn't want to be married any longer. I moved out due to his request, Ipayed a lot out to move,to rent a new place, therapy, anti depressant meds. the divorce etc.. My husband and the girlfriend moved in together. To make a long story short, we have remarried and she has decided to sue him for items they aquired together. I would like to know if adultry is a crime? Do I have any basis to sue her for damages thatI suffered because of this fling?
Brenda Savage <bpsavage8@aol.com>
USA -
My husband is being suited for child surport for his son.
At least there is a 50%/50% change. The lady at the time was on drugs and was legally married to some elese at the time of conception. By the time my husband found out well it was to let. He has cont. to take care of this child by send money payments and we are find out she was on welfare in the state of alabama. Now my husband has asked for a blood test. This lady has been taking our money and the money from the state and paying for a 2000 suv. She lives with her sister. Two question if she is legally married to another man at the time the child was conceived, is it true they most go after the husband first and prove he is not the father before coming after my husband. And if he has been provding surport shoulding she be responsible for what she has gotten from the state and not us.

Thank
Conern Wife
samanatha <slhunter@wt..net>
houston, tx USA -
my son is getting child surport from his farther and he is upset that i wil not release child surport so the only way that he will deal with my son unless i drop child surport. what should i do ?
sharon meadows <smeadows@uga.edu>
athens , ga USA -
Hello,
My Mother and I took out a 'K-Mart' Master Card, I asap canceled mine the next month.I've been paying on it for well over a year, I only owed $200.00; That was also my balance. I paid it all up, but keep getting these bill's stating I still owe well over $489.00!!!!? I have called and called and called these people, I've even written the CEO of Capitol One who put out this K-Mart Master Card!!!!
I've never heard anything back from this man, But I still am getting these aggressive mean spirited Bill collector's calling monday thru sunday!! even well into the evening!! My Poor Mother has been paying trying to get her's all paid for too, But they told her that with the $40.00 dollars that she pays every month that it will take 27 years to get her balance of $400.00 paid off!!!! 27 YEARS!!!! All the people I've talked to about my Card have said relitivly the same thing???? That the card can 'NEVER BE CANCELED'!! That we'll be paying off the Interest with as little as we can afford to pay a month!!!!Before we even get to the correct amoUnt that we REALLY OWE!!!! This can't be leagal!!?? Please tell me who to contact? To help me with my Card and My Mother's card. Please.
Thank you,
Kelly S. Sizemore.
Kelly S. Sizemore <Pockets1987@msn.com>
Farragut, TN USA -
I have a 10 year old son that I have never received any child support for at all. We have never made it to court and we were never married. I conceived in our sixth year of courtship which was the same year our relationship failed.
I quess based on what I have heard about collecting any back child support........impossible????

Thanks,
Denise L. Whalen
Denise L. Whalen <nyyanko@aol.com>
Holbrook, NY 11741 -
I can't believe you have the names and sometimes phone numbers of these poor people on your website. In some cases these folks have abusive spouses and you publish their names and phone numbers - the abusive spouse could see this! You should be ashamed and not allowed to practices law!
concerned person
USA -
Well me and my cusian are really wanting to move out and we really dont know when the leagle age is to move out so could you plz let us know, also when is the leagle age to have sex with someone 18 and older? i heard it was 16 and 17 so plz write back okay.
annie <hotchiemam69@hotmail.com>
dearborn hgts, mi USA -
Please help my son and i.

Thank you
William Chapman
william chapman <chapman@corrcomm.net>
Cullman, AL USA -
I am being charged back childsupport for my 3 year old son. The first eight months of his life, his mother and I lived together. Then she wanted to date someone else and so we shared the expenses for our son. The majority of the time he was at my parents home where I also lived. I bought most his clothes shoes coats, paid medical bills, bought diapers formula et. How can I be forced to pay child support during a time when he was at my home more then hers and in no way did the mother pay the majority of our child's expenses. (She lived with her mom after we seperated) How do reverse this back support. I don't mind paying support but not when the circumstances were equal.
hutchins <hutchins24@aol.com>
KENN, WA USA -
MY NAME IS EMAD HAMDI I WAS IN NEW YORK BEFORE I STAYED OVER THERE FOR 5 MONTHES IT WAS THE FIRST TRIP FOR ME AND I TRAVELED AGAIN TO NEW YORK AND STAYED OVER THERE FOR 5 MONTHES TOO I WAS TAKED A VISA FOR VISITING USA FOR 1 YEAR AND AFTER I CAME BACK TO EGYPT AND MY VISA WAS FINISHED THAT I SURBRISED THAT I TAKED REFUSED FROM THE AMERICAN EMBASSY IN CAIRO IN EGYPT FOR 3 TIMES PLEASE INEED YOUR HELP FOR ME THAT I WANT TO TRAVEL AGAIN TO AMERICA BUT THE AMERICAN EMBASSY SAY THAT I STAYED FOR A LONG TIME TELL ME PLEASE WHAT I CAN DO TO GOT A VISA FOR VISITING TO AMERICA AND THANK YOU FOR LISTENING TO ME FINALY
EMAD HAMDI HENRY <EMAD_MIERLLA@HOTMAIL.COM>
ALEXANDRIA, EGYPT -
i have a problem , but it does not concern me, but a cousin of mine, she has a 4 year old daughter buy a man whom shes not married too.they fight all the time ,hes abusive to her and is a very jealiuos man whos very accusing, he belittles her at home and in public
but he lives with her in fear he could get custody of her.she doesn't want him there any more. her father has been ill.she does'nt want the fighting to go on, she does'nt want loose her daughter or even give visitation can you help in anyway?any suggestions are welcome
what can she do
she also has him on tape where he has threatened her life also thank you.
dorene zimmerman <dorene_zimmerman2002@yahoo.com>
oxford, ny USA -
Father has had cousty sole for 8 years he is in jail for 3mo he left cousty to grandparents. Mother picked up the child for weekend visit will not return she is in KY. IN SAYS they need lawyer Kentucky. Kentucky says IND.Child has lived in IND. FOR 8 YEARS THANKS KATHY
kathy smith <Klsnolan@aol.com>
Hanover, IN USA -
Dear Ms. Sooho,
My name is Molly, and I have a 13 month old daughter who is acceptionally smart for her age. She loves to read {and I do mean she} she loves music and dancing. She has been talking since she was about 10 months old, and it breaks my heart to see her father use her to get back at me. I need some serious help. I am very afraid of loosing my daughter to him, and he would stop at nothing to get what he wants. Every time I bring her to him for visits, he has some new threat and in turn I have nervous break down. We were never married. He has 2 other children, they are 5 and 3. He gave up custody of them to their great aunt. He doesn't have a set place to live. and nhe doesn't have a car. He is constantly using his girlfriends house and car so that he may see our daughter. He thinks that the times that he asked for are just set guidelines, and that he can show up whenever he wants and bring her home when he wants. He used to verbally abuse me and the children, he would keep me looked in the laundry room sometimes if he didn't get what he wanted. He was never around for any of us and still things are the same. I know he is going to hurt our daughter by using her. I experienced it my self in a nasty divorce between my parents, and i don't want her to experience the same. He has also locked me out of the bed room the night i had him removed from my house, and would not let me see our daughter. when the police finally came, he came out of the bedroom ranting and said that i had hit him and that i had scratched him. but there were no marks to show. I had found and showed the officer that there was an illeagal knife in the bed where our daughter was sleeping "unsheathed". the officer just gave the knife back to him. I need help I don't ever want him to take her away from me, because i would never do it to him. Sincerley, Molly
Molly <MSSFOXYBRN@AOL.COM>
Mashpee, MA USA -
my name is erum khan . i don~t know english very well .i have a big promble with my husband .i have two kids .one is 4years and other is 3month .and i dont know how i dievorce to him .pleace help me .i dont have any body to help and care me .iam 30 years old .and my husband is a enginear .but idont have any money to give a lawers .thats why i need a sicialworker that can help me i cant drive .i am a house wife .i am from pakistan .pleace help.my phone number is 631 395 2610

erum khan <www.erumkhan2@.msn>
shirley, ny USA -
how does a person find out who called cps on them in the state of texas and through which avenue do you take???
Jen <jenniferanderson@ureach.com>
Tx USA -
After my divorce my ex-wife agreed to refinance the house. The has not done so yet and doesn't seem to want to.
Is there a way I can force her to refinance it. She has made some late payments and is screwing up my credit. I know
I was stupid for letting her stay there with my son. I should have forced the sale of the home. So much for being a nice guy.

Any ideas on what I can file to remedy this issue?

Sicerely,

Allen K.

Allen K. <sweetcj7@yahoo.com>
Placerville, CA USA -
After my divorce my ex-wife agreed to refinance the house. The has not done so yet and doesn't seem to want to.
Is there a way I can force her to refinance it. She has made some late payments and is screwing up my credit. I know
I was stupid for letting her stay there with my son. I should have forced the sale of the home. So much for being a nice guy.

Any ideas on what I can file to remedy this issue?

Sicerely,

Allen K.

Allen K. <sweetcj7@yahoo.com>
Placerville, CA USA -
Please help me. I have been trying unsuccessfuly for two years to get my son's school to provide a bus for him. There excuse is that the school has been zoned a walking school. I have requested a written document of the zoning, and have had no response. This is an elementary school. My son is only seven years old and he would have to walk a mile to and from school. I am leagaly blind and cannot drive. I also feel unsafe walking with him because of my condition. I won't make this any longer there is a lot more details to this delema. What I want to know is how can I write a pettition and make it leagal to show the school board and my town council there is a need and an intrest from the community? Thank you.
April Hamilton <frosty@planetc.com>
Elizabethton, TN USA -
i have taken my ex girl friend to court in 1987 for vistaion for my 1year old son. at that court hearing i had told the judge that im on welfere awaiting ssi. that i couldent pay child surrport.and hev told me to get a job.iwas being charged i think $25.00 a week for years i was on her welfere case. and still being charged for the surrport. ive gone to court aleast 12 to 15 time over the years to try to streten it out a thay cant find the order os surrport.so what can i do i owe aleast 30,ooo in surrport. please help me.
john pimentel <pmnt984@aol.com>
brooklyn, ny USA -
I was happily married for about six months and found out my husband was having an affair with another woman who was also married at the time. I suffered a lot due to the emotional and financial stress of this situation. My question is can I sue this woman i small claims court for damages I sustained ie. the cost of having to move,medication for depression etc?
Brenda <bsavage@webtv.net>
USA -
I AM A MOTHER OF THREE GIRLS. A FEW YEARS BACK MY EX BOYFRIEND FORCED ME AT LITERALLY GUN POINT TO TURN OVER CUSTUDY OF OUR SECOND CHILD. WE HAVE ALWAYS LIVED TOGETHER THOUGH...SO THE CHILD HAS BEEN WITH ME. MY EX AND I SEPARATED SO 4 DAYS AGO HE HAD MY DAUGHTER REMOVED FROM MY HOUSE WITH THE ASSINTANCE OF THE POLICE OFFICERS.
I LIKE TO KNOW WHAT ARE MY RIGHTS IN THIS, AND WHAT DOES CONSENT CUSTODY MEANS? (JOINTED?)
PLEASE RESPOND ME TO ASAP EITHER BY EMAIL OR CALL ME AT : 347-723-3225
THANK YOU!

Evis Kore <l0vebutterflyyy@aol.com>
brooklyn , ny USA -
Attorney Soohoo,

i have been looking for 9 months on different web pages for help! i went to the local library to research this once more. my ex will not let me see my 16 yr old son and 14 old daughter due to my child support being behind. i have paid in since 1989 over $25,000 and have never missed a visit in all these years. my children were snatch by my ex and he forged my name on the divorce papers. i did NOT quailfy for legal aid at the time due to my high salary!!($7.50hr) haha took my ex back to court saved for 2-3yrs to by the best i could find!!! all they did was raise my support and used up all my money. i grew up in foster care so i have no support there. i have a excellent realationship with his parents and they(outstanDING people) believe he is in the wrong. i read of an (alination(sp) "law" i have been able to talk to my son on the net a little. our hearts are broken. i am (above average) mother with two others at home with me. i coach soccer, room mom, PTA. ETC. BLAH BLAH AND LIVE A GOOD LIFE. i don't understand how he can do this. PLEASE!!!!! PLEASE BEFORE MY CHILDREN SUFFER THESE UGLY SCARS. I HAVE NO MONEY AND LIVE AND A SMALL TOWN WHERE FUNDS ARE SLIM. I AM NOT ON FOOD STAMPS OR OTHER PROGRAMS. I HOLD MY HEAD UP AND PRAY FOR HELP. I FEEL I HAVE FOUND IT TODAY FROM YOUR SIGHT. (STEPMOTHER HAS HAD CHILD PRTOTECTIVE CALLED DUE TO MY SONS BLACK EYE AND SEVERAL ON MY DAUGHTER!!!! THIS MAKES ME CRAZY! WHY DO THE POOR MOMS THAT GET "DUMPED" AND LIED TO AND TAKEN TO THE CLEANERS ONLY DUE TO THE FACT A BULLY USED TO BE A PRNCE. JUST CAUSE OF LOW PAY! MY CHILDREN MISS THIER BROTHERS!! SO UNFAIR! GIVE ME HOPE PLEASE.
JULIE GRIFFITH <Anjewls@aol.com>
mabank, tx USA -
I need advice. Me and my girlfriend want to get married. I am 24 and she is 17 years old. She currently is a runaway because her fater beats her, and she left. I want to know if we can get married and not have to worry about the law. I hear you can get married in Las Vegas, NV. Is this True? Please help

Ricky <Cutpimpn@hotmail.com>
Cutler, ca USA -
Please help me. what can I do? my husband will not let me talk to my kids on the phone or even see them i have'nt talked to my kids in six months i seen them in july, of 2001 that was the first time i have seen them in 2 years he holds child sapport over my head i did'nt go to the divorce court so he got all rights i only get to see the kids when it is agreed apon but as you see he has allowed one 24 hour visit in two years I feel trapped and don't know what to do please give me some legal addvice if you can thank you so much.....brenda from Missouri
Brenda <summe446@aol.com>
Joplin, MO USA -
leagle seperation, divorce in WV
and lawyer in huntington,WV
joann <joann288@hotmail.com>
WV USA -
I HAVE SEARCHED ALL OVER THE INTERNET AND I HAVE FOUND NOT ONE NUMBER I CAN CALL TO FIND OUT WHAT MY BROTHER HAS TO DO IN ORDER TO GET JOINT CUSTODY OF HIS FIVE YEAR OLD SON. PLEASE CONTACT MY BROTHER IF YOU CAN AT 410-909-6161
patricia johnson
baltimore, md USA -
my brother have been trying for a long time now to get joint custody for his son. the mother of the child will not allow it.what can he do before it's to late and the child forgets who his father truly is?
patricia johnson
USA -
I HAVE A QUESTION MY EX HUSBAND WANTS TO GET CUSTIDY OF HIS CHILD FROM HIS CURRENT WIFE WHAT ARE THE LAWS AND REASONS HE WOULD BE ABLE TO GET CUSTIDY?
TRACEY <BUTTER8333@AOL.COM>
CLEVELAND, OH USA -
I am a mother of 5 children,and through biased information,and lies told by a homebased councelor,and a dillutional mother.They were ripped from my arms and put in temporary foster care.I appealed the desicion and i want all information that I can absorb to get those kids back with me.The court will review the case in 75 days.The court had me take alot of evaualuations and they were biased on what I read.I was wondering if I should get the same evaluations done over.I know that the outcome would be different cause the psychologist who did the eval was given false accusations that was based on hearsay.I live in Virginia a commonwealth state and I want to win my kids back in less than 75 days please help me do all I can possibly do.
Debra <debra23059@yahoo.com>
glenallen, Va USA -
Can I sue my employer for not filing A worker comp injury claim when asked?
Lloyd Tenney <ltenney@citlink.net>
Standish, Ca USA -
I have to file bankrupsy chapter 7. The laywer i talked to told me he will charge me $6oo.--, plus court cost. I made a downpayment, but know I have to pay the rest befor my lawyer will file the papers to court. To be able to pay the rest of $ 350.-- i have to ge to a check advance place, but I know allready that I can not pay that money back. Can I put that amount into my bankrupsy debt?? Please answer me!! Thanks's, Vivian
hart vivian <hartvivian@hotmail.com>
cleveland, oh USA -
I signed all the papers the child suport office asked.I was told it was confidential. How come the office gave my sons father all the paperwork including coppies of my paycheck stubs?
cheryl <creed@conninc.com>
USA -
My brothers X-girlfreind called me up and said she did not want there 31/2 year old son any more. she could not handle him. Would I please come get him in Junuea Ak, She said if I didn't take him she would turn him over to the state. So I sent her plane tickets for the both of them to come to Oregon. My question is, Me and my husband don't have much money and can't afford a lawyer is there any way we can get full gardinship of him on are own. So she can't come back and get him
Brenda Poltera <Brindajean@AOL.com>
SIsters, Or USA -
My quwstion is for a friend of mine she recently had a judge in Alaska give her temp. custudy of her 2 child from a previous marriage. they are to be turned over on 10/20/01. What we are trying to find out is can the father have the order overturned at this point in time? She filed all of her motions for custudy on her own and he refused to respond to any of them. Neither of them live in Alsaka but that is where they lived when they got divorced. She is also putting forward a motion to have the venue changed. So if you could let me know if he can have the motion overturned without giving her notice as to whom his attorney is so she can respond I would greatly appreciate it. Thank You.
laura <lfurlong@charter.net>
fond du lac, wi USA -
MY HUSBAND AND I ARE TRYING TO GET CUSTODY OF HIS 2 CHILDREN
HIS X HAS FINALLY SAID WE CAN GET THE BOYS FOR 6 MONTHS OUT
OF THE YEAR AND HER 6 MONTHS. WE HAVE AGREED TO THIS. AS FOR CHILD SUPPORT WE HAVE ASKED HER TO DROP THE CHILD SUPPORT. BECAUSE THE 6 MONTHS WE HAVE THEM WE KNOW SHE
WON'T PAY, SHE TOLD US SHE WOULD BUT I DO NOT BELEIVE HER SHE LIES A LOT. AND BESIDES IN THIS YEAR ALONE WE HAVE HAD
THE BOYS LIVE WITH US IN JUNE AND JULY AND WE STILL HAD TO PAY. SHE HAD TOLD HEALTH AND WELFARE THAT THE BOYS WERE ONLY AT OUR HOME FOR THE WEEKENDS. WE DID NOT FIND THIS OUT UNTIL WE WERE SENT A STATEMENT FOR BACK CHILD SUPPORT. IN THIS YEAR ALONE THE BOYS HAVE ALREADY LIVED WITH US FOR OVER 3 MONTHS AND MOVED BACK IN WITH US AT THE BEGINNING OF OCTOBER. WHAT CAN WE DO TO MAKE SURE SHE WON'T DO THE SAME
THING TO US AGAIN. AND ALSO GET CREDITED FOR THE OTHER TIMES. IT WOULDN'T BE SO BAD PAYING THE MONEY IF THE MONEY WOULD GO TO THE BOYS NEEDS NOT HER OWN.

THANK YOU

JOHNNA <JW83605@AOL.COM>
CALDWELL, ID USA -
I work at a daycare and for the past year I have bonded with 2 children that I have really come to love.I am 21 years old and my husband is also 21 years old, and he has also come to love these children, but for the past year we have had them every weekend from Friday till Monday when i take them back to day care for their mom to pick them up, and sometimes she will call on Wednesdays and want me to take tem home and keep them till Monday.When the children have been wilth their mother and father they come to daycare without having a bath since i have had them.The guy she lives with is one of the childrens father but not the other one. When I have them, she does not bring them diapers or clothes for them, so I provide all of that, even for the day care.Their mother and father fight all the time and I have found out lately that the father has been doing drugs in their house and it breaks my heart that these 2 precious children have to be around this.The mother had had 2 black eyes and a broken nose from him.I have been told that alll of this is neglect, please tell me if this is what it sounds like to you. Me and My husband are thinking about trying to get custidy of them but do not know how to go about it and dont really know what the chances are of us getting custidy of them.Please please please wite back and give me some advice........thank you
alisha sanders
Alisha Sanders <IXpurecntrygrlXI@aol.com>
taft, tn USA -
Can you tell me anything about Tennessee's Drug Free Kids program?? if so please e-mail me.
thanx
Josh <hgjames@apex.net>
USA -
How do I get the name of a good devorce lawyer in San Diego CA??
David White <AWhite3607@AOL.com>
Alpine, CA USA -
I need to file for bankruptcy but because I do I do not have much money. Can you please tell me where to get these papers so I can file myself and also please tell me what I need to put on them so I don't mess up. Thanks wc
Wanda Chavez <chavez_w@aps.edu>
Alb, NM USA -
I need to file for bankruptcy but because I do I do not have much money. Can you please tell me where to get these papers so I can file myself and also please tell me what I need to put on them so I don't mess up. Thanks wc
Wanda Chavez <chavez_w@aps.edu>
Alb, NM USA -
I would like information on non-compet contracts. I signed on with the company I was working with and have just left their employment. This is very binding and states I can do other work in this town for three years and 30 miles. I cant afford to move and do not want to as my family is here and we have been helping my parents. I enjoy the work I was doing and would like to continue in this line of work. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you
Tim Cutting <N_W_X@yahoo.com>
Florence, Or USA -
I would like information on non-compet contracts. I signed on with the company I was working with and have just left their employment. This is very binding and states I can do other work in this town for three years and 30 miles. I cant afford to move and do not want to as my family is here and we have been helping my parents. I enjoy the work I was doing and would like to continue in this line of work. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you
Tim Cutting <N_W_X@yahoo.com>
Florence, Or USA -
I would like information on non-compet contracts. I signed on with the company I was working with and have just left their employment. This is very binding and states I can do other work in this town for three years and 30 miles. I cant afford to move and do not want to as my family is here and we have been helping my parents. I enjoy the work I was doing and would like to continue in this line of work. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you
Tim Cutting <N_W_X@yahoo.com>
Florence, Or USA -
I AM A MOTHER OF 4 I LOST THREE OF MY KIDS 2 ARE WITH THERE FATHER THE OTHER IS WITH HIS GRANDMOTHER AND 1 LIVES WITH ME
I WANT TO KNOW IF I LOOSE FULL CUSTUDY IS THRERE ANYWAY AND CAN REGAIN CUSTDY I WANT MY KIDS HOME BECAUS THE GOT THEM BASED OWN LIES.
LATANYA JACKSON <LATNRAM@AOL.COM>
MEMPHIS, TN USA -
Well this is the situation. I am 22yrs of age I work full time and go to school part-time. Last Saturday (9/29/01) I picked up my 8yr old brother because my mother has a drug problem that she is tring to kick and she thought that CPS was going to take him. She gave temp cus. to my Aunt who is 88yrs old. Well her grandson said she is to old to take care of him so he is going to care of my brother. He and his wife can't have kids so I think that they are going to try and keep him for good. He works for a big company and she has her own businees. I can take care of him but (grandson/wife) thinks that CPS will not let that happen. Mean while my mother thinks my Aunt has him. What I would like to know is can the grandson/wife try and get cus. of him? Also if I get temp. cust. of my brother can my mother take him back?
Elisa <elisa@djtile.com>
CA USA -
Well this is the situation. I am 22yrs of age I work full time and go to school part-time. Last Saturday (9/29/01) I picked up my 8yr old brother because my mother has a drug problem that she is tring to kick and she thought that CPS was going to take him. She gave temp cus. to my Aunt who is 88yrs old. Well her grandson said she is to old to take care of him so he is going to care of my brother. He and his wife can't have kids so I think that they are going to try and keep him for good. He works for a big company and she has her own businees. I can take care of him but (grandson/wife) thinks that CPS will not let that happen. Mean while my mother thinks my Aunt has him. What I would like to know is can the grandson/wife try and get cus. of him? Also if I get temp. cust. of my brother can my mother take him back?
Elisa <elisa@djtile.com>
CA USA -
Ilive in NewYork and my boys dad lives in Louisville Ky i have a support order but hes always crying the blues. I get my childsupport through Canton NewYork they dont want to help much hes like 16,ooo behind can you give me any suggestions?
Elana Wilson <elanaw716@yahoo.com>
Mt.Morris, NY USA -
Where do I go and how do I go about filing for seperation? How long after filing for seperation do I have to wait to file for the devorce. It is a pretty much cut and dry situation we both no longer want to be married.. and we have already worked out the who gets what stuff on our own.. I would love just to get this over with.. I would appreciate any help or advice you could give to me.

Kimberly
Kimberly Landreth <jadewolf77@aol.com>
Williamston, SC USA -
I was wondering what I would have to do if I wanted to file for custidy of my child before filing for divorce. I already have my husband moved out of the house.
denise <dguitar87@aol>
fraser, mi USA -
My husband and I have been having marital difficulty. I have been offered a week long vacation with a friend out of the country. I would really like to go, but I am afraid to leave my two children behind. I am afraid my husband might say I abandoned them. I don't know how long I would have to be gone for him to legally do that, but I am very concerned. Would you please contact me to let me know if I am able to go on vacation.
Thank you,
Gweni
Gweni <gwenivere90@yahoo.com>
MI USA -
I was wondering how I can request papers to fill out in order to get custady of my 6yr. old child.
NINA JONES <dejhajones@yahoo.com>
modesto, ca USA -
My boyfriend has a daughter who is 10yrs.old. She has expressed that living with her mother is difficult because she drinks, heavly. When we have dropped her off, her mother could not even walk she was so intoxicated. My boyfriend has a sorted past but has proven himself in the last year. What can he do to safely and low costly gain custidy?

Kathleen <Catwomen263@cs.com>
WI USA -
I was wondering if you can help me I was wondering if I Can sign over Custody to my mother of my nephew. I was given gardianship of him two years ago and he doesn't want to listen to my husband or I. He starts a Fight with my step daughter's everytime they come over and it is putting pressure on my marriage. I love my nephew very much but I belive he want's to be down in north Caroline wih the rest of his family. I would like to know how I would go about signing my gardianship over to my mother or atleast temporary gardianship to see hoe it works out. If you could please help me.
Thank You,
Jennifer Morrill
Jennifer Morrill <Jenniferm@safeworks.com>
Westbrook , CT USA -
My boyfriends ex-girlfriend told him that she has a child by him, when the baby was 3 weeks old she dropped the baby off to him at midnight and told him she wanted nothing else to do with the baby. We raised the baby together for 4 months and now she came back in town and wants the baby back. We gave her the baby back because she threated to call the police and tell them he kidnapped the baby because he is not on the birth certificate. Now she tells him the baby is not his and that is why she would not get a DNA test done. We have tried to get in touch with people to help us with the situation, but no one will help us. Who can we call to help us with this situation when we have limited funds avaliable to us at the present time?
Marie <keepmovin135@aol.com>
Orlando, Fl USA -
I have reconciled with my son's father. He is now supporting my son, and myself. The problem is a court order from 1995 for child support. How do I cancel it??
Tricia Wehrer <md8525@aol.com>
Jacksonville, Fl USA -
cool site i need help on getting custady of my god child. I have had her all her life 6 yrs .The mother is on drugs and is never around and signed over custady to her mother and the paper end soon the yr is almost up. The father is never around eather and dont support her at all i do all that. Can the grand mother that she gave temp/custdy to and i get full custady before thay try to take her away that will just put her in a very bad life of druges and alc/sex abuse and i and her grand mother want`s to stop it before it happens to her.. help me thanks jm
jonathan mills <undertaker2941@home.com>
baton rough, la USA -
cool site i need help on getting custady of my god child. I have had her all her life 6 yrs .The mother is on drugs and is never around and signed over custady to her mother and the paper end soon the yr is almost up. The father is never around eather and dont support her at all i do all that. Can the grand mother that she gave temp/custdy to get full custady before thay try to take her away that will just put her in a very bad life of druges and alc/sex abuse and i want to stop it before it happens help me thanks jm
jonathan mills <undertaker2941@home.com>
baton rough, la USA -
cool sitei need help on getting custady of my god chid i have had her all her life 6 yrs the mother is on drugs and is never around the same with the father can i get custady befor thay try to take her away that will just put her in a very bad life or druges and alc/sex abuse and i want to stop it before it happens help me thanks jm
jonathan mills <undertaker2941@home.com>
baton rough, la USA -
I have a daughter and she is 16 her father is as useless as they come he does nothing for her and now he won't even pay child surport and Iam sure he is getting unemployment in Va and I have done what I could but can't get any help can you help me please?
Anita G Albright <Toniteo5@aol.com>
Kingwood, WV USA -
I need information. I have looked for legal information
on gardianship but have not found. I have a friend who is
and adult but because of a medical condition not able to take care of herself. She has lived with me for over ten
years. Been in and out of hospitals. Latest dianosis is
depression. She has tried to work but failed. She has
family but they will not help. I let her live with me and
try to support her with the little I have. She is deep in
debt with hospital bills. My consern is what will happen to
her if anything happens to me. I have my insurance left to
her as my beneficary. I work for government. Over twenty
six years. Will Retire soon but will have to still work to
survie. I would like to know if I can become her gardian
so that she will recieve my benefits if something happens to
me. Also I will be able to add her to my medical insurance.
Please give me info.

Marion Ezzell <esfc6123>
Long Beach, CA USA -
now ,i am looking for law help
sky <chinabluesky@china.com>
guangzhou, guangdong china -
My fiance (Cindy) and my twin brother (Kent) were killed in a plane crash on mamorial day. My fiance left behind a daughter who will be 5 on September 30th. I love this little girl like she is my own and would lay down my life for her. The little girl (Amber) loves me like I am her father. We are so close. Her biological father (Nick) hates me and sued me for wrongfull death of my fiance just 5 days after the crash because the airplane belongs to me. Another words, he wants to make money from this. If my fiance (who is in heaven) had any idea this was happening, she would be furious. Now I am not allowed to talk or see Amber and neither is my fiance's parents. She is always crying for me and sneaks and calls me beging me to let her move back in with me. She wonders why I don't come and see her anymore and I don't know what to tell her. She is scared of her dad but is now opening up about how he lock her in a dog kennel and would masterbate in front of her. Amber was able to describe the porno he was watching and what he was doing with his pants down to his ankles. This kills me inside but there are also other issues. He does not allow her to talk about her mother or see any pictures of her mother or any of her family. We also suspect him of sabotoshing the airplane but can't prove it. At her mothers funeral Nick's Mother left a card on the casket thanking God that this happened claimming victory in a round about way. These are obviously sick people that should not have total controle over this little angel. If anyone has any sujestions on what I can do, please help me. I would pay any amount of money I there were a chance. my # is 847 366-9890 and my name is Keith

Thank You
Keith j. Arendt <lancair351@hotmail.com>
Schaumburg, IL United States -
My ex-husband owes over $11,500 in back due child support. We have been to court many times and nothing happens, except we go back in a month and do it again. I want to know if I can file a lawsuite against the state since they are not doing anything to help me collect.
Fran Beetler <franbeetler@msn.com>
Willard , MO USA -
My fiance has a 6 year old boy. 3 years ago, my fiancee contacted a lawyer and had a legal agreement written up, which visitation and child support were agreed upon. Visitation is every Friday afternoon to Sunday evening. They never went thru court for this because they had both decided that, at that time it was the best way. The father had used his lawayer to reduce costs for both parties. Lately, the child has been pleading for more time. We have been thinking of changing the visitation so that we both spend equal time with the child. At this time we have not aproached the mother on this topic, only because we both know that it is something she would not consider. What can we do to pursue and win the equal visitation ? We have spoken with some lawyers, but they have all stated that we have little or no chance of achieving this. Is the 6 year old child old enough at this time to legaly make any decisions of this kind? I would apreaciate any information that could help in this issue.
Teresa <fyfkitty@yahoo.com>
winnipeg, mb canada -
This year my daughter who 8 will being staying with her father in virgina and I need to know how do I go about residental coustdy.
Eileen Smith <EileenLeen143@aol.com>
Newark, NJ USA -
I'm 17 years old and me and my parents fight all the time. Sometimes me and my mom would get into some real bad fights. I left home 7 times but they called the police everytime. I have a place I could stay and its very stable. Recently they brought me up to Alabama where they practically droped me off to stay with some of my great aunts that I've never really knew and they went back to Florida. I there anyway I can go live with who I want to without my parents permission? I'm just tired of everthing and everybody in my family. They think I'm the most horrible child in the world but they don't want me living with who I want to. Please help me. Is there anyway I can get away from them?
Kari Burney <short_stop02@yahoo.com>
Okeechobee, Fl USA -
My mother and Step-father giv me my 15yr old sister last year because they couldnt handle her,but they wouldnt sign her over to my husband and I;Now they know that I can give her that better life they, want me to draw up gradianship papers and sign them.I dont know anything about the laws can you help me???????????
Melinda Dyke <mdmaddogg@aol.com>
Columbus, Oh USA -
Im have 2 children and their mother will not let me see them unless I am in a relationship with her. She tells the kids bad things about me and my former girlfriend and I just want to be able to see my kids and spend time with them. I pay her every month even though I do not see them. I really would like some help on solving this. I don't have alot of money and all I want to do is be in my childrens lifes with out putting up with any hassle with their mother, Please help!.
Robert Parra <angmad_2000@yahoo.com>
Venice , CA USA -
Im have 2 children and their mother will not let me see them unless I am in a relationship with her. She tells the kids bad things about me and my former girlfriend and I just want to be able to see my kids and spend time with them. I pay her every month even though I do not see them. I really would like some help on solving this. I don't have alot of money and all I want to do is be in my childrens lifes with out putting up with any hassle with their mother Please help!.
Robert Parra <angmad_2000@yahoo.com>
Venice , CA USA -
Im have 2 children and their mother will not let me see them unless I am in a relationship with her. She tells the kids bad things about me and my former girlfriend and I just want to be able to see my kids and spend time with them. I pay her every month even though I do not see them. I really would like some help on solving this. I don't have alot of money and all I want to do is be in my childrens lifes with out putting up with any hassle with their mother.
Robert Parra <angmad_2000@yahoo.com>
Venice , CA USA -
Do you take SSI cases?

My name is Ms. Johnny Robison, and I have been turned down for Social Security Disability (twice). The first time was in 1996. After visiting SS office in Abilene, Texas, I was told my husband made too much money - so I was denied. They did not mention, that there was a different type of disability claim I could make, where my spouse's salary did not matter...I did not learn of this until recently.

I am trying to get disability, because I am disabled. My story starts in 1994 and continues until today. I have been suffering from Trigeminal Neuralgia, which affects my face and head. The three sets of nerves leading from behind the eye to the forehead, nose/mid-section, and jaw and lower part of the face are affected. It is not known what causes you to experience the "extreme pain" in the face and head...but it feels like your face is being "shocked by electricity". Attacks come on at random and start out- lasting for a few minutes to an hour. As time goes on - the length of the attacks become longer, until you are in pain "all the time".

To get relief (and believe me - you have to have some) surgery was the only option in my case. Drugs would not work - I tried them all.... so, I elected to have Dr. William Hurt (no kidding on the name) from Houston - perform a procedure to "kill the nerve rootlets" behind by right eye. He indicated my face would be "numb" (including my eye, throat, ear, etc.) after the surgery and there could be "eye complications" ... since some nerve damage to the eye was possible.
I had the surgery and I gained immediate relief from the pain. The right side of my face was numb, but no pain. Great - yes! Initially yes, but I indeed have eye complications from this procedure. Since my eye is "numb", I have to be very careful to keep it clean - but, since the nerves to my eye were damaged, I now find myself in pain from my eye. Its amazing what happens when you have nerve damage to the eye...your eye stops working as it should. You vision is impaired, the cornea "flakes off" causing pain and blurred vision. I cannot bear to be exposed to light (any kind of light - sun, office, etc.) I wear a patch over my eye some of the time and sun glasses all of the time. Well, that's not so bad - I am not disabled from this - just cannot use my right eye. .... here is the problem -- my doctors think I have trigeminal neuralgia again (extreme pain again) -- what do I do? I am taking pain pills to help with the pain...but, if you are in constant pain - with blurred vision...trust me...you are disabled.

I have two doctors (family and eye doctor) that are treating me for "blacking out" and "falling down". They both think this current condition is associated with trigeminal neuralgia. I am being scheduled to see another doctor (neurologist) in Abilene. I also have extreme allergies that complicate my condition. I continue to try remedies to help... but I basically cannot work or function very well. I have to depend on my husband to help me in my condition. When you are dependent on someone else --aren't you disabled?

I don't know if you would be interested in taking my case, but I have to try something. The Social Security has given me 60 days to appeal. I can't pay you anything, but if we could get disability - you could share in these payments. If you are interested, please let me know.

Sincerely
Johnny Robison
1861 County Road 217
Breckenridge, Texas 76424
254 559-5667

Note: We have 60 days from July 16, 2001 to appeal this decision.
Jerry Robison
jrobison@texasisp.com
Johnny Robison <jrobison@texasisp.com>
Breckenridge, tx USA -
I had a boyfriend for 6yrs. and i left him.We also have a child together but we were never married.Now he has my daughter and wont give her to me.I would like to know how to get her back and full custudy.
Heather Grafing <scoobysnakz01@aol.com>
cocoa, fl USA -
I was 17 years old i was raped /i got pregnect ; so i gave my child up to my mother she was going to addopt her but my mother got relly sick so she stoped working.so she started getting welfare know i have to pay child surport on a child i gave all my rights too but my child surrprt rights. i want to know how i can sign up all of my rights with no money and amother that get ssi.ineedu help . joyce
JOYCE ALEXANDER <JOY162133@YOHOO.COM>
GORDON, GA. USA -
Can't afford a lawyer! My soon to be ex has her parents
paying for her defence. She reguested a drug test but the
judge ordered both of us instead of just me. She had 3610
ng/ml in her system (propoxyphene)which i know for a fact
belongs to her mother. We were married for nearly 2yrs and
have a beautiful son and I know for afact that whenever she
had one of those headaches her parents were her phamacist.
3 suicide attempts but i can only proof one when she cut her
wrist and emergency attention was needed. She begged me not
to have admitted and like a fool i didn't. I can't afford
an attorney,I'm back living w/my parents who are presently
unemployed and live on a farm living very simple and this
has always been a problem w/my soon to ex cause she always
felt that my family was to poor to visit let alone allowed
vistation rights to be held here for our child.This case has been a burden on them since her folks have gone as far as called dhs and reported tat my little brother is being
abused, that my folks were drug makers etc. Her father is
grabbing at everything considering what has happened
for drug test. The worst thing about this is her father must consent before i can see my son. I'm really being to feel that noone cares that my wife is suicidal,has a drug
abuse problem and has custidy of our son and the custidy
hearing is a few days away and i don't think i have i chance with my son. So much mess here in the meantime my son is living with her and her parents who live one floor
down, which has alot to do with my marriage problems from the start

Adam Pearson <louisjng@aol.com>
wewoka, ok USA -
About two months ago, my girlfriend and I broke up. I've told her time and time again that I want nothing to do w/ her and don't want her talking, but she constantly trys to talk with me. So my question is, is there any way to put a stop to her talking to me?
Keith Darling <lopey15_1999@yahoo.com>
ilion, ny USA -
i have been living with a woman out of wedlock and she had my child her parents moved her and my son to florida they want nothing to do with me how can i get to see my son and can i get him to live back in New York so i can be his father i don't mind paying chils support,i send him a care package every week,I went to florida for five days and she let me see him for thirty minuites and also i have another son which is his half brother and she will not let him see hie brother what can i do
Jimmy <Jimmyq727@aol.com>
new york, ny USA -
my husband has been paying childsupport since 1992 in 1999 we got custody of his oldest child, he has never been late with his childsupport. The outher two children have only seen their father twiced this summer. he doesn't want to make them to come down if they don't want to. but do you think it is right for him to continue to pay support and never get to see them?Is there something that can be done about this,if so what please help us. thanks
lanacantrell <lanaka@midsouth.com>
ms USA -
I HAVE A FEW QUESTIONS ABOUT MY THREE NEICES AND NEPHEWS THEY ARE RESIDENTS OF OHIO WITH THIER MOTHER. AND THEY WENT TO TENNESEE FOR A VISIT WITH THIER AUNTS AND THIER FATHER TOOK THEM AWAY ..THERE HAVE BENN ALLEGATIONS THAT THIER FATHER MOLESTED THE GIRLS .HE WAS GRANTED SUMMER VISITS THEN THE GIRLS MADE ALLEGATIONS ABOUT THE MOLESTING .. MY SISTER IN LAW CALLED THE STATE WELFARE OFFICE AND MADE A REPORT ABOUT THIS THEN THE FATHER TOOK THEM NOW MY SISTER IN LAW HAD THE KIDS SIGNED IN TEMP CUSTUDY WITH HER SISTER TO GET THE KIDS AWAY FROM THIER FATHER NOW THE SISTER HAS WENT TO COURT TO GET CUSTUDY OF THE KIDS AT COURT THEY SAID THAT MY SISTER IN LAW AND MY BROTHER DOES ALL KINDS OF DRUGS IN FROUNT OF THE KIDS AND THEY DO NOT THEY EVEN TOOK A BLOOD TEST AND THE COURT THREW IT OUT SAID IT WAS NOT DONE IN TENNESSEE WHAT RIGHTS AS A MOTHER HAVE CAN THE STATE OF TENNESSEE TAKE THE KIDS EVEN IF THEY RESIDE IN OHIO ? AND DOESNT IT HAVE TO BE PROVEN THAT THERE WAS DRUG USE OR NEGLECT TO THE KIDS ALSO MY BROTHER AND SISTER IN LAW HAVE A BABY NOTHING WAS MENTIONED ABOUT HIM HE IS STILL IN THE HOME WOULDNT THEY WANT TO REMOVE HIM ALSO SINCE THEY TOOK THE OTHER KIDS WITHOUT PROOF OF DRUG USE WHY WOULD THEY LEAVE HIM THERE? COULD YOU PLEASE E-MAIL ME BACK ABOUT THIS? THANKS DAWN KOPIETZ
dawn kopietz <dkopietz@hotmail.com>
wauseon, oh USA -
I am a grandmother I have to grand children age 4 & 6 that have lived with me 90% of the time since there birth.thier mother and father (my son) recently separated.The children are still with me but she is trying to get costody. I have never try to stop her or him.from taking them.they both have came and got them for vist.but it has not even average as much as two days a week. do I have very much of a chance of getting costody.do to these circumstances.
Penny Sue Morris <pennysue@rica.net>
Shenandoah, VA USA -
I have joint legal custidy of our 9 year old son, and he lives with his mother. My ex-wife is planning to move to florida with her boy friend. She has had our son in five schools in three years. If she does move to florida neither her or I can afford to transport him to and from each other for vistation. He does not want to go, he wants to stay with me. Unfortunatly his mother says no. My question is can I do anything to stop her from going or taking him with her? Please get back to me soon as possible thank you!
Aaron Hall <ajh2872@yahoo.com>
Streator, IL USA -
My fiance was ordered to pay child support to his ex-wife for their two children - the order was based on his pay over a two year period which he received extraoridnary bonuses from sales - not his typical salary. He pays more than he brings home and also carries the children on his insurance. His ex-wife asked him to pay half of his daughter's tuition for pre-school on a monthly basis. We do not believe he should do this because he is already paying child support which should cover costs like this. He has the children 2 - 3 nights a week and every other weekend and does not ask for support to feed them or house them - it is part of being their father. His ex-wife's lawyer sent him a letter that child support does not cover, what she called, "child care expenses" such as pre-school and he is responsible 50/50. We disagree - are we wrong?

Thank you!
Tracy
Reading, PA USA -
My husband has a daughter 15yrs. old living in the state of Arizona and we live in California. He pays child support, and back support, monthly, to the state of Az. His daughter called us this weekend and says she is moving to Michigan to live with her 20yr. old brother and will enroll in school there. We wish to bring her here but her mother won't discuss it with us. As long as the option of no adult supervision is available, this seems to be the popular choice. Does my husband have any rights after being a dead beat dad?
L. Garcia <ving888@netscape.net>
Riverside, ca USA -
I am fighting for coustidy for my 4 girls.
They said I have to file two separate petitions for coustidy of
1 child in family court and then the 3 others in juvenile court.
What I need is the forms and how to correctly word them.
Is it possible to send this information via email.
Stefanie Hamilton <sherryr@qwest.net>
Provo, UT USA -
I AM TRYING TO FIND INFO ON HOW TO HAVE JOINT CUSTODY OF MY SONS ALONG WITH THEIR AUNT. RIGHT NOW THEY ARE WITH HER. I DON'T WANT TO GIVE UP CUSTODY OF MY KIDS BUT SHE NEEDS TO HAVE GUARDIANSHIP SO SHE CAN DO THE PROPER THINGS SHE NEEDS TO DO FOR THEM.
JAVINNA WILSON <JAVYNNA@NETSCAPE.NET>
DAYTON, OH USA -
I recentaly went on vacation to a resort town in MAryland (Ocean City). From what I have heard there are no laws in AMryland on Peircing age requirements. But I went to the Parlor to get my peircing and the artist said that because I was only 16 i was not allowed to have anything peirced. Not even with my mother present. In Ocean City there are many, many places that peirce, but this was the only board certified place. XCould you please tell me if there are any age requirements for peircings in MAryland? Thank you very much.
~*~Michele Potter~*~ <BayBbrat90@aol.com>
Baltimore, Md USA -
My mom is going through a divorce, she is recovering from a major foot surgury and has knee & hip complications. So her mobility is limited. She is concerned that her ex's health insurace wont be affortible for her, she isn't working at this time , but she is looking for a job.
shelly <shellyallman@hotmail.com>
Oceanside, CA USA -
I'm trying to find an example of a written answer form on the internet. Please help. Thank you.
Melissa Coyle <Mac2795@aol.com>
League City, TX USA -
I was recently told that in the state of Florida, a minor can legally move out of his/her home at the age of 17, without parental consent. Is this true? I have done some research, but have thus far found nothing. Please contact me as soon as possible. Thank you.
~*Sara Swindel*~
Sara Swindel <Peaches727_2003@yahoo.com>
Jacksonville, Fl USA -
I was recently told that in the state of Florida, a minor can legally move out of his/her home at the age of 17, withour parental consent. Is this true? I have done some research, but has thus far found nothing. Please contact me as soon as possible. Thank you.
~*Sara Swindel*~
Sara Swindel <Peaches727_2003@yahoo.com>
Jacksonville, Fl USA -
Hello,
I have 3 children with my ex wife, which I have custody of 2, during our seperation i was giving her money for the children, well to my surprise later on
my surprise I found out she was on AFDC, so i reported the incedent DA, they wanted reciepts, which I had just started getting, so when our divorce went thru I got custody of
2 of the 3. The DA set my child support at 447.00 and 200.00 for arrears which they say I owed about 20,000.00, Well its now down to 17,000 after 4 yrs, and my ex has agreed to lower child support
fromm447.00 to 250.00 when the order came in the DA took it upon its self to change there order from 200.00 to 550.00. Is there any thing I can do? I have also remarried and have anouther child
Please Help
Dave
Dave Romero <a1stlrsfan@yahoo.com>
Barstow, ca USA -
i am looking for jail mail pinpals
anthony cotton <anthonyinmaconwebtv.net>
macon, ms USA -
I don't have a father and my mom and I are not getting along, I tried to move in with my grandparents once but she called the cops and had them bring me home. I've been told that in TX the leagal age to move out is 17. I was wondering if this information is true. I will turn 17 in November.
Karen
Karen Beckwith <slick_n_sassy007@yahoo.com>
TX USA -
I was wanting to find out some leagle advice on a father that has visitation rights and has not got to see his daughter in 2 1/2 years. What can we do leagaly???
Thanks
Jamie Moore
Jamie Moore <luv94@lycos.com>
Yukon, ok USA -
Hi,
when i was going to second grade my parents divorced. I lived with my Mom for the summer and went back to my dads when i started second. i stayed there until the middle of 3rd and i then moved with my mom till the middle of 4th . i went back to my dads and i have been here since. i am now 14 going to 9th. i am very unhappy. i don't get along well with my step mom half the time. i want to live with my mom now. And this is to stay! Does she have to go to court to get me or is there another way. my dad won't just hand my custidy over to my mom. Please help!
Emily King <sweetiehgms@hotmail.com>
shawnee, ks USA -
Hi,
when i was going to second grade my parents divorced. I loved with my Mom for the summer and went back to my dads when i started second. i stayed there until the middle of 3rd and i then moved with my mom till the middle of 4th . i went back to my dads and i have been here since. i am now 14 going to 9th. i am very unhappy. i don't get along well with my step mom half the time. i want to live with my mom now. And this is to stay! Does she half to go to court to get me or is there another way. my dad won't just hand custidy of me over to my mom. Please help!
Emily King <sweetiehgms@hotmail.com>
shawnee, ks USA -
I need leagal advice in unusual case: I hired a lawer,I prepaid him $668.00. After that he never contact me again. Now he does not aswer on all my calls, faxes, etc. What I should do to get my money back?
Iddel Nehamah <yuriykrasnov@msn.com>
Cleveland, Ohio USA -
DEAR SIR ,

I WAS LOOKING FOR A SITE TO GIVE ME SOME ADVICE ON
BUYING A NEW MOBLE HOME AND LAND.. MY QUESTON IS I FOUND THE LAND IN FEB. AND IT IS NOW JULY AND I PUT DOWN MY DEPT. IN FEB AND SINCE THEN I HAVE HAD ABOUT 4 LOANS DO TO THE FACT THAT THEY NEVER TAKE THE LOANS THEY WAIT TILL THEY ARE NO LONGER GOOD AND INVALD NOW LAST WED. THEY SAID THEY HAD A NEW LOAN AND WE COULD MOVE IN SO WE TOOK OFF FROM WORK AS WE HAVE DONE IN THE PAST ME WITHOUT PAY .. THEN THEY CHANGED THE LOCKS AND WONT GIVE US ACSESS TO THE THING ALREADY IN THE HOME .. ALSO THEY HAD US PAY TO HAVE THE ELEC. WATER. AND SWER.ALL HOOKED UP IN OUR NAME....LAST MONTH... WHEN THEY SAid we could move in and i have LONG PASSED MY DEAD LINE ON MOVING OUT OF THE HOUSE I AM IN I WAS TO BE OUT OR HERE BY NO LATTER THEN JUNE 1, AND YES THEY KNOW THIS .... I HAVE CALL LAYWERS AND I DO NOT HAVE 20,000.00 DOLLARS TO GO AFTER THEM THEY ARE HURTING MY FAMILY AND MY HELTH ALSO.. IS THERE ANY ONE OR ANY WEB SITE THAT CAN HELP US WHAT CAN WE DO...ALL OUR MONEY IS TIED UP IN THIS HOUSE AND SOON WE WILL LOSE ALL OUR THINGS AND HAVE NO PLACE TO LIVE..

DEBBIE
momie59@yahoo.com

DEBBIE <momie59@yahoo.com>
KNOXVILLE, TN USA -
7/14/01
I am a mother of 3. I left my husband feb. 3rd. He hasn't paid me a dime. He only works on occasion. He is about to lose the house even though my name is on it too. I can't afford to pay for the thing not with having the 3 of them and they are more important then it is. He is a crack head and I was tired of having our families buy our food when I had a full time job but my money was getting stolen by him for the pipe. He thinks he is going to get my kids because I have a boyfreind. He had a live in girlfreind but she died of a overdose of pills. Can he get my kids?
Melinda <melindalilmom@aol.com>
Gastonia, NC USA -
I have three children that I have custody of.They are 16,12,&9 years old. On January 7,2001 Isent my 16 year old daughter to live with her dad.Which had'nt been involed in there lives for the whole 8 years we have been divorced. But she got in a little trouble here. Anyways it's been 5months since she's been there and she is now ready to come home and I'm ready for her to. I did'nt sign over custody to my ex- husband. But now he say's I can't take her back. My question is can I go get her and bring her home
Melody Hall <bearchr7@aol.com>
Rosharon, tx USA -
My x/wife has custudy of my son and I'm suppost to get him the 1st, and 3rd weekend of every month,and two weeks in the summer.She won't let me have him, the judge said a lawyer could write up the order and he would sign it?I want to know what the paper is.
james williams <jw4kh29@aol.com>
boaz, al USA -
I'm am married to my wife and her family gets involved into my marriage life.Her mother and her brother called the Dept of Social Services on me for child abuse twice and there was no abuse in my apartment.My wife's family has been involved in our marriage since day one.And I have been going to a psychirogist for the past year, because of all the abuse and slander from her family.I want the marriage to work out ,but her mother,and the rest of her family want us to get a divorce.I'm on my edge every time I'm around her mother.Her mother only believes in their own race,no mix marriages,stay with your own kind.She even had a older man chosen for my wife to get married to,but it didn't work out.I just want to keep my wife and step son and sue her family for mental anguish,for all the harassment they put me through the past few years
Phill <zionink@iwon.com>
USA -
I was assaulted in summer of 1998 in colorado and made a police report. The police said they couldn't file any charges because I didn't have a permanent address in colorado. I was visiting colorado at the time. Is there a statute of limitations to files charges against someone for assault? If so, what is it?
Thanks for reading.
ka <brap@waste.org>
MI USA -
i am 13. my mom has full custudy.i want to come live with my dad.he lives in the same state pays child suport.i have asked my mom to let me come live with him before i get any older. i am not fighting with my mom i love her, but she refuses to let me. both parents are remaried and have a stabel home. there is no reason why i cant come and live with my dad. they have talked and she still refuses. do i have any rights to decide with whom i want to live with.
please give me an answer ASAP.

THANK YOU
L Edwards
D edwards <dwrje@yahoo.com>
florien, La USA -
I have a very interesting storey on the Dept of child support of Boston Ma.
Mark Ollendick <monteybello@yahoo.com>
south boston , ma USA -
i pay childsupport for 3 kids,for the last three years my ex has vacationed in hawaii myself am back up on bill trying to make it work i need assidance for my biils
paul d hehir <hehirmasterp@aol.com>
dorchester, ma USA -
My Xgirlfriend sued me for childsupport of our daughter
see lives in NY she did not have custidy of our daughter
and my daughter lives in Mass.
I finally got a court date in march of 2001 where the
court order was termanated after proofing that she did
not have custidy and that my daughter lived in Mass.

after all the court order was terminated I am still
paying support they say that i still owed the arrears
in the mean time I have lost my house to forclosoure
my car was repoed and NY is still taking money
what course of legal action do I have
thank you Dale
Dale Darrow <daledarrow@aol.com>
Jacksonviie, fla USA -
My husband AWOled from the Army with assistance from his mother. She put my name on the Western Union reciept! I am expecting our baby girl any day now. He was living at home with me and left suddenly three weeks ago. I have not seen or heard from him since. My mother-in-law finally admitted that she had talked to him. Several people have seen him drinking and smoking(I do not know what).I don't want my child growing up in court over custody etc. Please advise.
Leigh-Anne Reilly Doss <lanne78@aol.com>
Duncanville, AL USA -
my grilfreind 55 has a 29 y/o son. he moved in with us temp (6mo ago)we are buying a home and just moved into it 6-12. he will not work or find a job becouse he said he is sick. drug and achole problems. i have loaned him money , fixed his truck and tryed to help him. he sleeps all day and up all night, we have had many yelling matches and his mother and i get in to it.it got so bad two nights ago i called the sherrifs office. they said i needed to get and aviction notice to get him out,30 days.i love sue very much but the kid must go or i. she take up his side even she know i am right. she is afraid that something might happen to him. he knows how to play her. could i get a restraining order to get him out now whch i know it will start ww3 but i must do something now. any ideas"he thinks the home is his, she has put money into the home about25/75 me
frank fletcher <frankfletcher@aol.com>
sun city, ca USA -
my grilfreind has a 29 yo dun. he moved in with us temp (6mo ago)we are buting a home and just moved into iy 6-12. he will not work or find a job becouse he said he is sick. i have loaned hem money , fixed his truck and tryed to help him. he s;eeps all day and up all night, we have had money yelling matches and his mother and i get in to it.it got so bad two nights ago i called the sherrifs office. they said i needed to get and aviction notice to get him out,i love sue very nuch but the kid must go or i. she take up his side even she know i am right. she is afraid that something night happen to him. he knows how to play her. could i get a restraining order to get him out now whch i know it will start ww3 but i must do something now
frank fletcher <frankfletcher@aol.com>
sun city, ca USA -
MY BOYFRIEND HAS HIS BOYS FOR THE SUMMER. HIS EX-WIFE IS WORKING SLLOWLY ON REPAIRS TO HER HOME.SHE IS TRYING TO REMOVE ON NASTY SMELL FROM A DOG SHE JUST GOT RID OF. THE SMELL IS SO BAD I GET SICK WHEN I'M THEIR.MY QUESTION IS SHOULD HE RETURN THE CHILDREN TO HER IF THE SMELL IS STILL THERE? THERE IS NO PAPERS SAYING WHO HAS CUSTY OF THE CHILDEN.
HOLLY MILLER <SNICKERS1030@EARTHLINK.COM>
RED WING, MN USA -
hi , I think by you haveing this site is realy and truly A God sent
Johnathan Chastain <darkstar709>
Atlanta , Ga. USA -
MY CHILDREN DADDY ALWAYS LOSES HE JOBS.I THINK HE LOSES THEM CAUSE HE DON'T WANT TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT.I FEEL THAT HE GETS AWAY WITH BECAUSE HE HAS A FRIEND THAT WORK AT THE CHLID SUPPORT ENFORCEMENT OFFICE.HE CALLS HER AND SHE TELL HIM WHENEVER I CALL OR COME INTO THE OFFICE. EVERYTIME I TRY TAKE ACTION NOTHING BE DONE ABOUT IT.SO PLEASE TELL ME WHAT I CAN DO ABOUT THIS PROBLEM.THE ONLY TIME THEY GETS ANYTHING FROM HIM IS WHEN HE IS COURT ORDERED.THEY GO MONTHS WITHOUT SEEING HIM.CAN I TAKE HIM TO COURT WITHOUT HIM HAVING A JOB.HE WORKS WITH HIS BROTHER AT HIS CLEANING COMPANY THAT DOESN'T APPEAR IN THE COMPUTER.WHAT SHOULD I DO.THANK YOU!
LOVELL <DAHSUNTE1>
WARNER ROBINS, GA US -
I have custidy of my 7 year old daughter and her father is 4,000 dollars in debt to childsupport. HE has been paying it in the last year, he still has no insurance on her like the papers say he should. He has every other weekend visitation rights but he comes when he feels like it. 2 or 3 weeks go by and she will not see him or talk to him or longer times. Then he pops up and says I have to make her go with him for the weekend. She starts to cry and wont go. He wants me to make her and I wont. He says he is taking me to court and I wont like it. Please tell me what he can do? Do I have to make her go when she is screaming not to go? I want to refuse his childsupport payments and have all rights taking from him. I dont want him in her life. Can I do this? HE is not on her Birthcertificate. Father says UNKNOWN. Please tell me if I can do anything. He is a very UGLY man and I was so wrong for getting involved with him and I thank God each day for my daughter but I kick myself each day for not giving her a better father. Anyone can be a Dad but not anyone can be a Father. Thank you for your time and sorry for bothering u with this. HOpe u can help me. :) Anna
Anna <anna123@sheltonbbs.com>
Kennett, MO USA -
MY DAUGHTER HAS BEEN LIVING IN THE SAME HOME WITH THE SAME MAN FOR ONE YEAR NOW HE MOVED HER STUFF IN HIS HOME AFTER HER SON WAS BORN ONE YEAR AGO BUT ABOUT 3 WEEKS AGO HE PACKED UP EVERY THING IN THE HOME AND MOVED IT OUT HE TOOK THE BABY BOY WITH HIM AND EVEN IF HIS NAME IS ON THE BIRTH CARD OF THIS BABY - BUT HE IS NOT THE REAL BLOOD FATHER HERE - SO DOSE HE HAVE ANY RIGHTS TO KEEPING THIS CHILD - AND CAN MY DAUGHTER DO ANY THING TO GET HER SON BACK. WE DONT KNOW ANY THING ABOUT THE LAW SO WHAT CAN SHE DO TO GET THE BABY BACK. AND DOSE THIS MAN HAVE ANY CHANCE OF GETTING FULL RIGHTS TO THE BABY - CAN HE GET RIGHTS TO THE BABY EVEN AFTER THE D&A TEST HAS BEEN DONE. HE SAYS HE WILL STRIP HER OF HER RIGHTS AS A MOTHER FOR EVER. HE SAYS HE WILL GET FULL RIGHTS TO THE BABY EVEN IF THE D&A IS NOT POSITIVE. PLEASE HELP US OUT HERE WERE VERY DESPRATE. MY
DAUGHTER IS AN AID IN A OLD FOLKS HOME SHE DOSE NOT MAKE MUCH MONEY AND SHE ALSO HAS ANOTHER 2 YEAR OLD BOY TO LOOK AFTER. SHE HAS NO BELONGINGS ANY MORE HE TOOK ALL HER THINGS FROM HER. SHE CAN NOT PAY FOR A LAW PERSON WHEN THIS GOS TO COURT AND SHE NEEDS HELP SO VERY BAD. PLEASE HELP HER IF YOU CAN. OR IF YOU KNOW SOME ONE THAT CAN HELP HER PLEASE E.MAIL ME. THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
P.S. ALSO 4 YEARS AGO SHE LOST A CHILD TO CRIB DEATH AND HE SAYS HE WILL BRING THIS UP IN COURT IN A WAY TO PRESENT HER AS A UNFIT MOTHER. MY DAUGHTER IS A GOOD GIRL AND SHE IS A GOOD MOTHER SHE LOST HER DAUGHTER AND NOW SHE FEARS THE LOSS OF HER YOUNGEST SON - SO PLEASE HELP US OUT - THANKS ALOT.
mona walker <m.walker@htcomp.net>
hillsboro, tx USA -
i need to know how to write a contempt of court order
charise c. davis <shannaici2>
bossier city, la USA -
I need Some information in how to go about taking Law
Janie Williams <lolliepop4jan@yahoo.com>
Roswell, NM USA -
I am 20yrs old and when I was two months pregnant my husband of two years cheated on me with a 15yr.old.I took him back and then when I was 8months pregnant he cheated again with a 16yr.old.He is 22yrs old.He left me and wouoldn't give me a divorce.He almost faced jail time for the 15year old,but because she slept with over ten people they wouldn't procecute him.They were ok though that he was living with a 16yr old girl.How is it that because she slept with more than ten people that it excuses the fact that he commited a crime?I would also like to know if Alaska has an Adultry Law?Thank you
Brandi Harris <brandi_lynn_harris@hotmail.com>
USA -
I AM PAYING CHILD SURPROT ON MY 17 YR OLD DAUGHTER. WHILE SHE WAS 16 SHE GOT PREGNENT BY A 26 YR OLD I WAS TOLD THEN THAT IF IT WAS CONSENTUAL SEX THERES NOTHING I CAN DO.SHE TURNED 17 IN MARCH AND HAD THE BABY IN MAY AT WHICH TIME SHE BECAME AN ADULT, A PARENT HERSELF. WHY MUST I KEEP PAYING CHILD SURPORT FOR AN ADULT OR THE LAW SAYS SHE IS. PLEASE LET ME KNOW IF I HAVE ANY RECOURSE
GEORGE KESTEL <GKESTEL@AOL.COM>
VALLEY MILLS , TX USA -
i like fishing,camping traveling, having new friends...!
mustapha laachiri <mlaachiri>
ouaouizert, azilal morocco -
My husband and I got married last July, He had become very distant and less afectionate and actualy getting mean over the past few months. We have had arguments. I was getting strong signs of infedelity. He had set me up to believe we were camping, to try and work our troubles, when I was ambushed with a restraining order. He had falsley accused me of attacking him. I've been out of the house for 6 weeks. He is actually dating publicly other women. He, actually used the restraing order to remove me from the house so that he could carry on his affairs. Can he do this And isn't he not suppose to be dating? We have no legal separation. I have to go to court on 6/25 for motion on vehicle that I ordered. Please tell me, what should I do?
Cathy <Rupert_Cathy@ EMC.com>
Franlin , Ma USA -
I AM HAVING TO PAY SURPORT FOR A CHILD THAT IS NOT MINE
HOW CAN I GET THIS STOPED AND CAN I GET MONEY BACK
PAUL <PFIDLER47@AOL.COM>
USA -
I was wondering, I am 23 now but my real father never paid child support despite the court orders, instead he moved clear across the country. I guess the laws in Alabama are different, for my mother has only 60 dollars or so of child support. Does he still owe my mother? Is there any legal action she or I can take? Accoarding to his attorney in Alabama he does not have to pay anymore since I'm over 18. But he never paid to begin with!!!! Thanks
Min Brett <MinCrystl@netscape.net>
USA -
How can I get an adoption reversed. The CPS adopted my child out and she was taken due to false allegations. I was ripped off by my attorney who was supposed to take this to civil court. He got suspended by the bar for 6 months after taking my retainer and now my child got adopted. What should I do first? I am desperate, I love her dearly.
Thank you ver uvh for this service, their should be more people like you
Karen Brooks <KarenBrooks@webtv.net>
Bakersfield, CA. USA -
I'm a single parent of a 3 year old and I have filed for child surport though the state of ID. our hearing was held in NC because that is the place of birth of my son. It was held in 11/00 and I still have not heared anything. I was just wondering if this was legal. I have tryed calling both the local and NC offices and just get peoples voice mail. No one will help me.
Jessica <jessie_herman@yahoo.com>
Eagle, ID USA -
I have been divorced for 12 years from a guy who now resides on Guam. He stopped paying child support and I have a court order here in CA for $1,200 a month. How do I get ahold of him to enforce the order? I have asked attorneys and most don't have any idea. I know I need a sister state act but how do I get the order enforced. I tried going through the district attorneys office bet they take years to enforce the order. There has to be an easier way. Please help or give suggestions. Maybe you know an attorney in my area or a paralegal who could help get the order ready and I can go into court myself.

Thanks for your time, Debbie
Debbie <wa2onre@aol.com>
Apple Valley, CA USA -
I have been divorced for 12 years from a guy who now resides on Guam. He stopped paying child support and I have a court order here in CA for $1,200 a month. How do I get ahold of him to enforce the order? I have asked attorneys and most don't have any idea. I know I need a sister state act but how do I get the order enforced. I tried going through the district attorneys office bet they take years to enforce the order. There has to be an easier way. Please help or give suggestions. Maybe you know an attorney in my area or a paralegal who could help get the order ready and I can go into court myself.

Thanks for your time, Debbie
Debbie <wa2onre@aol.com>
Apple Valley, CA USA -
I think what your doing is great keep up the good work!
Peggy Roy <peggyroy25@hotmail.com>
Dunnville, Ky USA -
When my husband and i divorced five years ago we agreed on joint custody of our two children. We were told that the children had to have a primary address, so we agreed the it should be his because I was unable to afford a large enought place for all four of my children. But not long after the divorce the kids were always with me in my small two bedroom apt. because their dad wanted to go out with his friends after work, or he was working late. But since that time I finished college, bought my own house and have a good job, and the kids were always with me. Less than a year ago I was almost killed in a auto accident and he had to take responsablty of the children, he was not happy about this, he had a problem with finding babysitters. Anyway, I have healed and he will not give my children back. He said that I can only see them ever other weekend and not on school days, and two weeks in the summer. We have joint custody and I don't think that he is being fair to me or my children, my understanding that joint custody is that everything is 50/50 he will not let me make any desistions about the children and will not even tell me if there is a problem. He will not listen to me on my understanding of joint custody, and in the court papers there is no set visitation of any kind everything is left open. I want to get along with him for the sake of my kids, what do I need to do to get him to understand that the kids are intitled to the best of both parents. I don't have the money to take him to court and I want to leave custody at joint, I would like to share the children as part of the month with me and part of the month with him. He said that is not good for the children and that it will confuse them. I just don't know what to do anymore. And I miss my kids all the time.
Karen Patrick <Karen@surf-ici.com>
indianapolis, in USA -
I'm currently in the military in NC. My x-wife is giving me the shaft in the child custidy dep. I ma verry far away and would like to know how i can put a stop to this. she has me in court every other month and always has new ways to get to me. Her new husband makes alot of money so they can afford it. It's sucking me dry! And now she wonders why I can't afford to come to get the kids. I need help. what can i do?
daniel wiggs <dannjennie@earthlink.net>
warsaw, in USA -
Please help I am a single mother of a beautiful four year old daughter.I have sole custody of her and her father has visitation on Tuesdays. He is also to pay child support. It is now in the hands of social srvices but they have taken him to court once how long will this go on before something is done, and what can I do.

Thank you
margaret a miller <1angel@ntelos.net>
USA -
I have several problems...The most imedeate first. I closed a major credit card account 18 months ago when they informed me that they intended to change several parts of card aggreement based on credit reports. I had never been late or over in 5years with them. They called me about 2months later and offered me a reduced payoff amount after i got mad at the rep.(i was still maintaining payments on time). I was under the impression that the monthly made over following 8or9months were toward the reduced amount they stated. I made,what i thought to be, the last payment of almost 2000.00 in Jan.2001 with a cashiers check the bank had typed up with my name, card# and "paid in full per agreement Feb.2000. They cashed the check and have now come up with penalties and late fees of almost 1500.00 that they informed me of May,15th 2001. Is there any thing i can do? They say that they will sue me for this even though i have paid the full amount that was due at the time they tried to con me into a prejudiced change in only my account. I have not even seen a card in 18 months and several people i know with the same card have never had any changes made on theirs. I cant afford this being on ssi...my dissability forced me to sell my car last Dec. since i cant drive much. I need this taken care of before i loose my remaining eye to glaucoma with enough time to refinance house at lower intrest rates and finish fixing it to blind freindly enviroment(i.e. remove all maintanance problems)
Todd A Frederick <todd-vette@yahoo.com>
Pueblo, CO USA -
I was wondering if some type of action can be made against a parent who has never paid child support to a child that is now 27 years of a age? Thanks!
C. Turner <crystil_t@hotmail.com>
USA -
Question: My Husband was divorced in ID 9 years ago, He is in the miltary and is now stationed in Az. The children and their mother moved from ID to New Hampshire. One child is 17y/o the other will be 19 in June. After High school the 18 year old decided to attend college, she did not know what she wanted to study. We tried to talk her into a JR. college for 2 years, but her mother had other ideads and registered her to go the a private college in Mass. My wife is 100% disabled, so she collects over $400.00 a month which we are willing to continue if she maintains a cC average. The EX wants more money. She makes 2 times what I do. The divorce decree from ID states we will equally share expense. I called ID they stated it is unenforcable after age 18. If divorce is transfered to New Hampshire is this enforcable. HELP, HELP DE
Denise <Flower8637@aol.com>
Glendale, az USA -
I will make a long story short. My son's father is in the military. He left in September 1998 At the time I was almost or was five months pregnant and didn't want to get an abortion. He promised to send me money and help with anything I needed for the baby. When he left that September, my mom told me to get out and I did. I went to go live in a home for pregnant women needing help. They were the ones who provided a home for myself and my son for nine months. I was on welfare and all my medical bills were paid for by the government. My son was born in January of 1999 and he did come to see his son untill easter time cause he needed to come sign the birth certificate in order for our son to get the benifit that the Army provides for family members. At the same time I was deciding whether i wanted to go with my original plan and go to the army like I was supposed to do or go to school. I talke it over with hm and he said to go to school. Meanwhile he wasn't sending any money and if i would ask he got an attitud. When the truth was, he didn't have any cause he spent it all. In May 1999, I made the biggest mistake of my life and gave hm full physical custudy because he said the army didn't accept the birth certificate. Then he asked me to move in with him and I said yes. I left the home for pregnant women and thought we were going to move in together. Instead we had a big fight and we broke up. I realized that I had to do something about my situation and decided to live the dream that I wanted to live. I joined the Army to better myself and my son. Now the prolem is, he is going to Korea in August and he is leaving our son with his girlfriend. I want my son back and he won't give him back to me. He said I can only see him during the summers and on holidays. My son does not belong with a woman I don't know. If I don't get help I will loose my child. I really don't have much money so I know that will be a problem. If there is an attorney that will help me in my situation, please help me.
Jesse <grumpy_16_2000@yahoo.com>
Roselle Park, NJ USA -
My daughter is living with me in my home and my daughter wants to get sole cousty of her daughter. how does she go about doing it.the baby father is in a facility and he should be going into a transishional haouse for boys in the next 3 months so he can be anmanapated. He has been violent in the pass and don't feel that his daughter should be left alone with him,since he was put in there for hitting his father and threating my daughters boyfriend. can you help
Francine Keough <Francine_Keough@el.nec.com>
San Jose, CA USA -
Thanks for the info.
Ms. Flu <msflu30@yahoo.com>
Houston, TX USA -
I'll be fifteen in august and i'm living with my father. Five years ago my step-father had some problems and my mother found out through my diary. While they were getting a divorce, my older brother and i moved in with my aunt. we moved to north carolina where my father lived. My aunt and uncle were having some problems, so she moved back up here. In the mean time my father moved in with my uncle, older brother and i. In the middle of the school year my father met this lady and moved my brother and i back up here. a year after we lived here, my brother mover in with mom again and i wanted to go to. But my father wouldn't let me. Over the past four years my mom and i have been tring to get my father to let me move in with her, but if my dad knows my mother wants something bad enough he'll do anything to not let it happen. Now that i'm forteen can't i say that i want to live with my mom and he can't do anything about it? I wasn't even supposed to be living with him in the first place. But my father is a back stabbing liar and will do anything to ruin my life.
Sweetie <InMuchTrouble@webtv.net>
Port Crane, NY USA -
I'am 14 years old and im living with my dad, but i dont want to, my mom wants me to live with her and I do to~ i only see my mom 2(if that) months out of a year~ an i feel a growing girl like me shiuld be with there mother, so do i have a choice of who i want to live with? thanks
Amy <sexyamee@hotmail.com>
Allen, tx USA -
hi im from c.a. moved to missouri and been taking care of my kids and there mom because i recieved an inheritance and finally got them off of welfare i sighned acontract to pay 8 thousand dollars with no interest because the said the hospital bill would be 40,000 they said they could attach my wage through my social security 3 and i gave them my adrress id been there for over ten yrsi had gone to diferent jobs but they garnished me for four yrs then when i tried to increase my pay by working somewhere else they stop garnishing then after awhile they took me to court with 25 contempts fot ftp i consolidated it to 5 contemps then cons.that to 1 misdeamener and 3 yrs informal probation was told by court order to pay a set amount but when i told them i moved the d.a. said they were going to garnish the exact amount the court requested from me but there was nothing i could do about it its ordered by the stte they dont even garniish enough to pay for my arrears and i was before they pput there nose in it again when you walk in to the district da family support to do these contracts they wont let your family a representive or lawyer in there with you im especially talking about the one in c.a on zanker road ifeel if you lose your job and go to a smaller pay or have been supporting and having the kids and mom reside with you there should be a modification not for currant pay but for arrears when i told them i couldnt pay taxes or interest on it isnt that taxation without representation and i couldnt sighn that ccontract if the state was going to tax me any way , ill either have to pray for a nother enhereatencee go to a civil court which might go to supreme court or prey for a miracle, i reealy believe in the rights of good fathers there are some of us out hear and good mothers too ., i thiink wilson was triiing tto make a buck he sure screwed up the world and mmany other states the same thing .. i saw a funny picture in a resteraunt bathrooom the other day a rich man in a rools royce with champagne glasss in front of the health education and welfare building underlying caption reads i hate poverty . ironic i think that must be wilson or any other gov triing to ccollect areaers from people who are triing but didnt know the system well wish me luck in supreme court ill be like , mr, smith goes to washington and fight this thing for mme and others. well good luck to everyone.
charles.j.g.tipton <chucktipton@hotmail.com>
chillicothe, mm.o. USA -
my husband and I have been divorced for 7 years and at the time of the divorce he fought to get joint legal custody...he did not in the divorce. He took me back to court 2 years ago and fought to get joint legal custody...and lost again...He now is fighting for joint legal of my 15 year old and my 12 year old...Why is this so important to him? I can find no lawyer who says this is something that could do him a lot of good. Is there something we all overlooking that he can use this joint legal for? He never trys to get physical and I cant make sence out of it...The children are exhausted from court and so am I ...much less it has broken the children and me and physically, mentally and money wise. He is a very controlling and manipulative person so is there something we just dont know.
vicki glosson <vickiglosson@altavista.com>
tupelo, ms USA -
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My ex-husband owes child support arrears and i would like to collect on them he is currently on state asst. because he claims he is disabled but i know that he has an under the table job and his employer is paying him buy writing a check to his father and then he is getting it. He is living well he has a new trailer and 2 newer vehicles. our child is 18 now but he still ows right? can i ever collect what he owes?
Kathi Raymond <cows34@hotmail.com>
Colebrook, NH USA -
My boyfriend and I were arrested this past week because his x-wife said we abused his 5 yearold son. We did not commit any such crime, even the children told DHS and the police that we didn't but they did not listen. My boyfriend has tried to turn in some really serious things that have happened to the children while in her care but DHS blows him off like he didn't say anything. There are two counslers that know everything and also several other people know, because the children have told them what goes on at their mother's. We feel no one is on our or the kids side. We are very scared that the children will be put in harms way. What should we do?
Amanda Gookin <wolfie98@msn.com>
Wartrace , TN USA -
My boyfriend want to atleast get to see his child every other weekend but since there not together anymore she says its not his kid and he cant see her so how can i help him to beable to see his child atleast once a week or anything please help!
nicole m knaus <rosaliak@epals.com>
Manitowoc, wi USA -
My old employer of six years fired me and refuses to pay my medical benifits as per Union Contract is this something that I can take to Small Claims Court? If so what is the
Statue of Limitations on such a matter!
Deborah Samuel <Freshprince21@guessmail.com>
New York, NY USA -
my girlfriends sister was stopped for drink-driving earlier this month, and the arresting officer has also put a assult charge on her as well. She said that she did'nt hit him, and i believe her, i was just wondering where she stood as there was no other officers involved
please please can you help me with this as myself or my girlfriend don't want to see her sister with another big fine. Please advise!
david hanna <d.hanna@ntlworld.com>
cambridge, united kingdom -
I need to know how to get a child support order changed. See I pay child support but my children live with me.Child suppory enforcement informs me that the only way to change the order is to go back to court. I can not afford a lawyer.
Heidi Harrison <CldwllJr@AOL>
Springfeild, MO USA -
I am wondering if and how I can get custady of my 7yr.old.
What is the critera and laws?What must I do to quilify, or can I even ?
Ron Maiden <nyteowl@wingsisp.com>
Gowen, Mi USA -
I got married on April 17, 1995 back in New York and left my wife in May of 1997. I filed for divorce in June of 1998 she refused to sign the papers. My x and I have no children, property or assets so it should be a very clean cut. When I left I gave her all the furniture, money and I even leased her a brand new Toyota Corolla after I moved out because her car was giving her trouble and she needed reliable transportation to and from work. I have since met another woman and moved to Las Vegas. We have 1 child. I would like to buy a house and eventually marry again. Can my x just refuse to sign divorce papers and force me to stay married to her when I am trying to go on with my life. If I buy a house does that mean that a woman who I haven't spoken to in four years gets half? Are there any laws that could help my situation?
Joe Petra <GMPLV1999@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA -
I have been paying child support for two of my children. I only see one of them, At the time I was Living Or, and my ex lived in Ca. I pay $550.00. This has been going on for aleast 9 years. My oldest child knows me very well. but my youngest.. has no clue of me, and I'm a truck driver.. and Its had to find some help me.. so I can see my younger son.. she gives me a hard time, evan with my older son. if things arn't up to her stander's. can you help me??I Love Both my chlidren.. and I Love to have them both come and see me at the same time.. Not Like It is ..

Ronald Paris <prsparagon@teknett.com>
Pahrump , NV USA -
yes hello . my name is tonya haddock and i have a child with shawn hildreth, and he hasnt had any thing to do with this child for 6 years , and my husband and i have asked him to to come over and hes , drugs and booz is more inportion then our child . and to top it all of he has two more children in vermont that he is doing this with. he does pay for them either,,we just went to court last week and he did not show up so there is a capeus out on him and hes walkingaround still and going to bars , and talking to these cops whats wrong with this picture? thank you for listen .. tonya

tonya <peeton@metrocast.net>
franklin, nh USA -
I lived in Colorado in almost 5 years ago. I had a past due phone bill in the amount of 470.00. We paid it before we left the state with a money order, but the new company who took over the old us west says they have no record of it being paid. What is the statue of limitations for them to collect on this? I no longer have the records of payment. What can I do to take care of this? It is ruining my credit.
annette <farmersdaughter_t_a>
St.James, mo USA -
My name is Kevin, and I have a problem, my x-wife is living in the home that we purchased in 96, in the divorce she and my child would reside in the home, my problem is she is moving out of the home and going to rent it out, but the home is in my name and she is a co-signer, the morguage co. told me that my name couldn't be taken off the morguage unless she refinance, but she can't, my question is, does she have the right to rent out the home with out my say. The divorce papers say that she and the child could reside in the home. can I get my home back if she moves, and tries to rent the home out. Please respond if you have the answer for me, I am blind and am on a fixed income, so I really can't afford an attorney, but I don't think its right that she doesn't live in the home and is rougning my credit by not making payments.
Kevin <smurfou812@triad.rr.com>
Winston-Salem, NC USA -
I would like to know how to get a legal speration my wife put me into bankrupsy and than left me for a man on the internet she wants a legal speration Ive got the note from her stating so she is welfare minded and I only make min. wage an attornry is out of the ? and leagle aid is not willing to help can you tell me how to help my self?
walter wnak JR <lostindian@usadatanet.net>
Little Valley, N.Y. USA -
I recently found out that the minimum wage where I live is 7.60 per hour. For almost four years I have been working at this job and have only been making 7.50. The minimum wage just went up a several months ago and was I was unaware of the change. My employer has failed to notify me of the change, or give me a change in pay. I am confused and do not know what to do. I would like some money for my lost wages but I do not know the right way to go about getting it. Please mail me back with some advice.
ROb <Bud_yser@budweiser.com>
Midway, bc Canada -
OK, i have a problem, i am 16 and i will be 17 in september on the 20th, and my boy friend and i have been going out for 1 year and a half now, he is in the navy and i dont get to see him that much at all, Well i wanted to get my GED when i turned 17 and i wanted to move to virginia and get a job and go to a community college while i live with my boyfriend, and i just wanted to know the leagal age for me to move out with out my parents permission..please help me i need to know soon, thanks, carrie
carrie <carrie_n_clint@hotmail.com>
overton, tx USA -
I am a mother of 5 children by the same father. I have been on my own since 1992 with no family for help. I was recieving child support up untill Nov. of 1999. The support issue is tied up in the Henderson county court at this time for reduction of child support because if 2 children reaching the age of 18.That still leaves 3 for support. I need to find out who to contact to get this action in motion.I have spent my entire adult life carring for my children with no gov. support and no extra help from the father or his family. Raising children is a responsibility and should be an honor. I have spent every penny I have earned for my children with no regrets and still have the rest of my life to do more for them. I was a full time housewife when we split up and it was because of abuse that we are apart. I have not remarried and have struggled doing any kind og job available to servive. Starting out working at a Quail Farm raising game birds to waitressing,bartending and now am a manager of a stockroom in a industrious factory. I need child support to finish raising my children. Who will help me get what they deserve?
norma gilbert <Norma.Gilbert@pentacon.com or nsgilb@bellsouth.net>
lexington, tn USA -
My aunt has left my uncle after a 14 yr. relationship. She is having an affair with her co-worker. She now wants my uncle to move in with my grandparents so that she may leave in their home. She also wants him to give her full custady of their son--which she left with my uncle for 2 days without calling. He cannot file for abandanment because he is the major income. What can he do? Please e-mail me and help. Thank you.
Melissa
Melissa <imaHoneyBee@yahoo.com>
Hendersonville, NC USA -
I live with my dad and he has legal custody of me I turn 13 in June and I really want to move with my mom.
How can She and I win?
Mel <angel49837@hotmail.com>
Gladstone, MI USA -
I need Help bad. My daughter is 14yrs. old and was born in Florida. We have lived in West Virginia since 1988. Her Father was a Navy Man that lived in Daytona Bch. She is wondering why that no one has ever been able to find him to pay child support. We where never married and the reason was he was an alchoholic. He was very mean when he was drunk. He worked either for the Phone Company or the Electric Company there in Daytona and the Welfare here in West Virginia told me to hunt him myself, on the count I didn't have his Social Security No. How was I ever to get it when I had her he didn't even come around. I know that he told me he either got out of the Navy in 1985 or 1986. I have tryed to raise her myself for a long time hoping that one day Welfare will say they have found him to pay child support but so far nothing and every time I mention it to them they tell me to get the money to go find him myself. I am Disabled and dont have the money to come to Florida to find him what should I do she really wants to know her Father but she say's she dont want to live with him. Please help I dont know where else to turn.
Helen Lockhart (Clemins) <runt139@hotmail.com>
Gary , WV USA -
We want to appeal a recent custody order done in Florida. The child has resided in Mass. since Dec. 2000, but the father has been there since June 2000. Where do we have to file the appeal, FL., or MA.? Thank You
Judy Riley <jrileyx2@earthlink.net>
North Port, FL USA -
My friend is an american cetizen, living in the Philippines
They are planning to get devorce here in Las Vegas, NV.
It's a no fault devorce. His Question is, what are the requirements needed?
Nelsie Duckworth <rtheducks@aol.com>
las vegas, nv USA -
I lived with my paqrents for 5 years. I signed a paper that gave them rights to recieve my daughters Social secirity payment for rent for us. I moved away and theywere very angry and called social services on me saying I did not have what the kids needed. Some how my mom go my daughter sent to a place called safe havean. and I didn't see any of the money. We have moved back in with them, theysaid they wanted me to sign a paper as before. But as I read through this it sounds like they want full custity and guardianship I'm scared that this will happen and I will have know say in my childrens life.
Help Julie Dack
402-463-4856 My phone number
Julie Dack <julie36@mailcity.com>
Hastings, NE USA -
My husband and I want a divorce, uncontested, no-fault. We have reached an agreement. What do you charge to do the legal work of getting us a divorce?
Grace Horenian <ghorenian@aol.com>
Dedham, , MA USA -
If you have an account at a rent to own store, if you go back and rent another item, is it leagal for them to charge you a processing fee again? I have paid a processing fee 7 times at the same business, in the past year. Thanks.
Connie <auntm@sylacauganet.com>
Sylacauga, AL USA -
My girlfriend and I have a major obstacle blocking our marriage and we need help. She is a Filipina.
Billy Vitruls <bvitruls@webtv.net>
Columbia, Tn. USA -
thank you for taking the time and just listening some times even though that may be all you can do for us so i would like to take this time and just say thank you and god bless you.
cindy adams <camancub@aol.com>
house springs, mo USA -
Please help!!!!My husband left almost 6 years ago - i had a baby, and have not heard from him since. I don't really want to hear form him as he was an abusive alcholic. I want a divorce, and to remarry. What is the easiest way to go abut getting this done quickly? I want my new husband to adopt my son and a name change also. The attorney general's office had sent a letter saying they could not find him either. Any help would be appreciated
sincerely,
ew
elizabeth willett <law475k@yahoo.com>
brownwood, tx USA -
I have a friend who needs help. She has decided to leave her husband of 8yrs. They have 1 kid and in the beginning,when she said she was leaving him, he was being very civil. She has fallen out of love and wants to try to move on. She told him this,and of course he wants to try and make it work, but she just doesn't want to be with him. They talked about the kid, and she said she would take him, but by no means would she keep him from seeing them. She told him that she has no problem with visitation. She wants to get divorce but he told her that she can leave without the kid. She is able to support the family by her self because she owns a business. When she went to get the loan for the business her husband co-signed the loan papers, but all the business paperwork is on her name. Her husband got a lot of money and wants full custudy of his son. He told her that he would do anything to keep custidy of him. She said that he can keep all the housholds and the money they saved during the last 8 yrs. but to please let her have 100% of the business and to keep the son, which nothing is on his name. She is scared because he has a lot money and thinks that if she goes to court she might loose her son. Please help me ASAP
Rebeca <elmime@aol.com>
Charlotte, nc USA -
I have been divorced for 3 years. I have custady of my
8 year old son. His father who is also living in texas close
by has gave me problems. I filed for child support raise and
he got upset, he quit his job and went to work with a temp
service. He has not informed the districk clerk. I found out
he quit his job by calling the place. The child support was held
out of his check. He is paying with money orders now. When I
confronted him about his job and lieing he blew up at me. He told
me he was taking my son away from me. My son has doctor bills
that I wanted him to help pay and he refused, He told me I was
Butting into his personal business and he was going to do
what he wanted to from now on and if anyone tried to stop him
he would load his shot gun and blow them away. He and his
girl friend are moving out of state he has ask our son to move
with them. He told our son I was butting in his business and
that is why they are moving. His girlfriend told me I have
to let my son go with them when he turns 10 years old.
I need to know if I should get a restrain order against
him so he can't pick my son up and leave the state with him.
He is acting very strange and hateful. Please help.
Linda <2lja@1starnet.com>
Tx USA -
I have a friend who needs help. She has decided to leave her husband of 8yrs. They have 2 kids and in the beginning,when she said she was leaving him, he was being very civil. She has fallen out of love and wants to try to move on. She told him this,and of course he wants to try and make it work, but she just doesn't want to be with him. They talked about the kids, and she said she would take them, but by no means would she keep him from seeing them. They live in West Palm now and she wants to move 40miles north because it is cheaper in that area. She told him that she has no problem with visitation. Then over this past weekend she moved in with her parents temporarily so she could get her finances in order. Her husband asked her to go to lunch with him so they could talk. She went and he proceeded to tell her that if she thinks she is going to move out she is mistaken, that he will take the kids from her. That she wont be able to make it on her own, and he will say that she is unfit. He told her that his kids will not be on welfare, and he has her mother, sister, and bestfriend willing to stand up for him to say she is unfit because they have all seen her yell at her kids. He also said that she doesn't know what she wants right now because he thinks she needs to see a head doctor, that she has post pardum depression or a chemical imbalance. None of this is true of course, but he is minipulating her into thinking she has no choice but to stay. Her mother and family are religious, and think that no matter how she feels she has to stay in the relation ship for the kids sake. I guess my question to you is what are her rights(in the state of FL) and what are his? Keep in mind that she has a drivers license and a car, and a steady job. He on the other hand only has a steady job. No license due to violations( I think a dui and driving on a suspended license) no vehicle. She really needs some advice and fast can you please e-mail me back ASAP. Thanks!
Melisa Novy <mnovy@bellsouth.net>
Stuart, FL USA -
hi! I emailed you with a question I had. I would I preciated to receive a response from you as soon as posible. I am a single mom and I do not know what I am going to do if they grant him child support reduction.
sandra santiago <gatita8565@Aol>
Fall River , ma USA -
I live in Nev. my ex husband has not paid medical expences for the 9 yrs. we have been divorced. It is in the divorce papers that he has to and refuses. Its to expensive to take him to court and file papers. Do you know any cheaper way? Maybe Small Claims? Any help i would Appreiciate it. Thanks
Mrs. Harris <mom3js@yahoo.com>
Alamo, NV USA -
Hello my name is nikki and i am 171/2 I am currently in High School. My mother smokes pot and my step father is a alcoholic. When I graduate I will not be 18 and I wish to move out of that atmosphear. I am planing on moving in with 2 of my friends who are 19 and 20. I plan to move in with my friends to be closer to the college I wish to attend. Can you please e-mail me and tell me the leagal age that I can move out of my house! Thanx
nikki <nikkicola7up@yahoo.com>
ca USA -
Hi! I sent an E-mail to you at lawoffices@Sooho.com and sts
@sooho.com please take the time to read it and answer my questions it would be greatly appreciated. By the way Im 15.
Heather Schuyler <hrschuyler6>
Middletown, IN USA -
My parent's we're devorced too and I
know how it feels that someone is
makeing your desisons and I thought it was un-Fair
and well i lived with my mom who treated me
so badlly when she had costidy.
I was so mad that they thought you needed to be
with your real mother! they we're wrong!
-Mindy White

Mindy White
Clarcksville, Tn USA -
I think kids should have a right to choose
becuase they will need to live with it for
their rest of their child hood!
-Mindy
Mindy White
Clarcksville, Tn USA -
I have custody of my son,his father has liberal visition. I would like to move about 50 miles from where I am now living,can his father stop me from moving? We already live about 25 miles apart.I'm buying a house so I need to know fast! Thank you, Kat
kat <rebkat96@aol.com>
USA -
Can a child choose who she/he wants to be with when parents divorce in California?

Thanks
Crispina Alcantara Meily <cameily@yahoo.com>
Concord, CA USA -
i work for a large hospital in winston salem north carolina as an engineer. i take care of a biological microwave unit. i went to my supervisors about the operators not doing their job. theywould not respond to my requests and in doing the operators job i took a needle stick. the doctor at occupational health said since it was an old needle the chance of getting something was nill since bacteria does not live on metal very long. i did'nt tell my wife because of what he said. i obstained for two months and in taking the tests came up clean. i took the tests for a year. when i came home after the last test my wife saw the bandaid on my arm and asked me what it was. i was trueful. she said i had put her at risk and she did'nt want to listen. she cut me off completely. about 6 months ago she made me move out. she told me the house is hers. my tools are still in the shed and she made me give her the keys. i'm totally torn up. i don't know what real rights i have. i feel she has me over a barrel. my sons are at home one is sixteen and the other eighteen. the older one has joined the military and when he gets out of highschool this year will go off to college. she keeps wanting me to stop my mail going to the house. i don't know if she is trying to show that i abandoned or what. what should i do here. i give her 200.00 for groceries and 120.00 for my boys school lunches every two weeks when i get paid. she also gets a check for 600.00 every month for the house payment. she gets a check for this abd the other is cash with no chech or receipt. what are your thoughts on this.

bill smith <ka0qlp@yahoo.com>
mocksville, nc USA -
i enjoyed reading your guestbook, very long though.i'm going though a cus. battle as well as most of these people.
it's nice to know that i'm not alone in the hurting and i can't believe the courts point of views. thanks again.
B. SOLOMON <honey4u1974@hotmail.com>
connellsville, pa USA -
hello i'm a father of a beautiful little girl named paige she was born on
7-20-00 it was the most wonderful thing that ever happined to me at the time
i lived in washington state and the mother had moved back to alaska so when
when i came to alaska to see my girl come into this world i new at that moment
that i now lived in alaska so i said goodbuy to my girl and went back to washington
and raised the money i needed buy working on cars i'm a mechanic by trade and selling
all that i could so i got the money together about 2800 $ and moved to alaska i was
working again in 17 day i'm trying to do every thing i can to be the best father i can
i give the mother 200 a month and i see my girl on tuesday and thursday and every other weekend
i drive 1 hour each way every day i see my girl and it is worth every second
my problem is the mother will not put my name on the birth certificut and every time she gets mad with me
for what evr reason she will not let me see paige it's like punishment and she uses it to the fullest
i try so hard to get along with her and she just will not i nedd to know what i can do with very little money
i need to be a part of my beautiful girls life forever because she is the best thing that ever happined to me
and i cant see anything ever comeing close to the love i have for my beautiful girl my life for her
I NEED HELP thank you for listing MICAH BRYANT
micah bryant <micahbryant@hotmail.com>
nikiski, ak USA -
looking for new law put out by IRS on rights to claim childern if divorced?
susan alkire ( paralegal) <su3751@pennswoods.net>
cumberland, md USA -
My boyfriend who has been seperated from his wife for the past two years has two children. Out of these children are a seven year old girl and a five year old son. Now the son is his and the girl is not, but has been raising her since she was an infant. Now going through the divorce, he has no legal rights to his little girl. He is the only thing she knows as a father. He takes both children every other weekend, and evey week out to dinner. Buys them what they need, and gives the mother money when she needs it, including childsupport to his son every week. He has asked for legal custody of his daughter, but the mother has yet to come through. What I am asking is it possible to get costody of his daughter through a court of law, while going through a divorce? Thank-you
jennifer <ZagamiP@aol.com>
manchester, nh USA -
my dad left us about 10 years ago and in 1999 him and his new wife had a baby girl a few months back we were told he didnt want to see us anymore but me and my other sister want to know what visitation rights we have to her because we miss her terribly

kirsty meats <klmeats@yahoo.co.uk>
derby, united kingdom -
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Douglas, g USA -
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zhangshaolin <ooo0485_cn@sina.com.cn>
changsha, china -
HI IAM A FATHER OF TWO BOYS AND MARRIED I JUST WANT TO
SAY A FEW THINGS OR MORE ABOUT THE ATTORNEY GENARL WHEN I
WAS IN MIDDIL SCHOOL I HAD MY FIRST CHILD AT THE AGE OF SIXTEEN.ME AND THE MOTHER DIDNT TALK NO MORE BECAUSE SHE WAS ALOT OLDER THAN I WAS BUT THIS WAS AFTER FIVE YEARS WHEN I DIDNT KNOW SHE WAS PREGANT WITH MY CHILD THAT WHEN SHE GOT ON WARE FARE WITHOUT LETTING ME THAT SHE WAS PREGANT SO THE OWE THE ATTORNEY GENARL TEN THOUSAND DOLLAS BACK PAY ALSO THE CHILD DIDNT KNOW HER REAL DAD AT TIME BECAUSE SHE WAS MARRIED WITH ANOTHER GUY WHO HATED ME AND WANTED TO KILL ME ALL BECAUSE I WANTED TO SEE MY CHILD. I PAY MY CHILD SURPORT JUST WASNT GETING MY RIGHT OF VISTION SO IN THE YEAR OF 1999 ME AND MY WIFE WANTED TO DROP OUR RIGHTS WHICH WE NEVER HAD AT ALL NOW IN 2000 THU 2001 NEVER SEEN HER THE LAST TIME WAS 1998 SO I TRYING TO TAKE CARE OF MY TWO BOY AND MY WIFE BUT I STILL OWE THE ATTORNEY GENARL 24,000 THOUSAND DOLLAS OUR LIFES IS SO MESS UP BECAUSE WE DO MAKE MUCH MONEY THERE TAKING HALF OF MY CHECK ITS 400 A MONTH AND MY INCOME TAXS ME AND MY WIFE WE LIVE WITH MY WIFE MOTHER WE DONT OWN A HOME ,
APARTMENT FOR OUR CHILDREN THERE TAKING MONEY FROM MY KIDS AND WE WISH SOMETHING CAN BE DONE ABOUT WE KNOW THERE NOTHING THAT CAN BE DONE BUT HOPE SURE I CAN GET TWO JOBS BUT IF MY WIFE WORKS WHO WOULD TAKE CARE OF MY KIDS THANKS

MICHAEL BROWN <JUILANNA 2000>
SA, TX USA -
My boyfreind and I live together and have a 6 month old son. He is divorced and has two beautiful little girls 6 and 4. We want to get married, but have heard from numerous people that if we get married, his ex-wife would be entitled to more child support. By no means do I think that he should not have to pay child support for his girls, but I do not think it is fair to raise the child support if we get married. We can hardly support our son on what we have left after child support, how can the government justify what would be the equivelent of my paying child support for children that are not mine. That is what it comes down to. If you stop and think about it, the money comes out of his check, but the only reason they want to take more is because I am contributing money to the family now. Is there a way to stop this from happening. I don't mind his having to pay for the girls, I just don't think they are my financial responsibility. I had no contribution to them being brought into the world. Has anyone ever heard of this? If we get married, how do I protest it?
Brandee Toland <bakers@farmtel.net>
Wayland, IA USA -
I need to ask you a question? I have a 4 year old little girl, Her name is Shelbe Lake, She has my maiden name because her sperm doner was not around. I met a man and married him a year after Shelbe was born. He has been the only father she has know. She is in school now and goes by Shelbe Hoffman his last name. Her sperm Doner has only seen her 1 time ever, It was when she was about 5 months old he was getting out of jail. ( great choies of men un!) Anyways what I am trying to find out is how can I get her Last name changed from Lake my madien name to Hoffman my married name?Like I said in school she allready goes by Hoffman. Please help if you can!!!!!
Mendy Hoffman <mendabone@yahoo.com>
parma, Idaho USA -
Thank you, for your response - Mo. lady.

I was not asking for sympathy - just stating plain facts.

Did you noticed I to could of received child support for my child but choose not to do this. I know my choice but like I stated I know what this does when the situations are reversed. You on the other hand do not.

And you are wrong about not being allowed to see children. When x moves halfway accross the US and you cannot afford to fly out there or fly them in or hire an attorney - YES it does happen. You are only on one side and therefore are closed minded to the other side. Good luck with your endevers on getting more MONEY from your X- who cares about all the children involved - I mean yours are most important!

I wish you well have a Merry Christmas!
Laurie <freespirit139@hotmial.com>
ID USA -
When my child support order was first drawn up with the assistance of child support inforcment, I was young, poor, and a single mom for the first time. My ex who at that point had two children from a prevouis relationship hired an attorney to have the amount caculated by the state droped by over $100 per month. 10 years later, I have still not asked for an increase. He pays his childsupport faithfully and now has five children in total. Of all his children we recieve the least. There have been times that I have considered requesting a raise, but haven't because he is a single parent also. Never the less, I can't suffer because he made the choice to have so many children. I have recently decided to pursue an increase in payment. Further more I'd like to say to the author of the comment in guestbook who stated that her husband pays so much child support to the "first" family that he can't take of the "second" family. Parents shouldn't be allowed to drop a family and start over whenever they see fit. You, the second family have much more than money... you have a family unit, and if whom ever wants to avoid getting those nasty notes from angry children, all they have to do is be a parent. There is no such thing as "she wouldn't let me see them" Hell nor high whater could ever prevent me from seeing my children. That's what the courts are for and you never give up on being with your children! Finally, childsupport payments are not a subsitute for being a good parent. By the way I am not the "first" family in this situation and my husband pays childsupport also, and I think she (his ex) should get all that she deserves -- just like I should. Maybe these unfortunate storys will finally sink in to the younger generations and they will be more responsible when making life decissions.No sympathy in Mid Missouri
Curren
MO USA -
I need some help on how to get my children father to take care our 2 kids.
Shemekia Benn <sbenn507@bellsouth.net>
Ft.Worth, Tx. USA -
It is my opinion all this child support has gotton way way out of hand. I myself have been on both sides being owed chid support. Which I NEVER pursued to collect when I could see what my husband now who has had to pay child support has gone through and what this has done to our family. I would never wish that on anyone else or the family they are tring to raise. The laws state that the first children from first mariage comes first- so this means our children had to go without, and I mean without we have lived in pure poverty. Our children are all grown now and had to go without for many years. His first children have gone to college and are now ages 28 and 23. We still are haveing to pay arrears. Our children which lived in our home had to go without christmas, food and clothing to name a few. Our income is around $15,000 a year- meanwhile the other children from first marriage - which like I state have all gone through college and such and now have familues of their own. We just got notice that my husbands liscenses will be suspended.

To me this whole thing is Horrible and their is alot of issues involving child support that is all about MONEY and nothing else. Especially when they say the first children come first without reguards to any of the following children. Who says they were more important.

this whole child support things makes children HATE there biological parent just because that they are poor. And love or blood has nothing to do with it. JUST MONEY!!!

We are nice people and have tried hard our whole to do the right things. my husband was even suicidle for many years. And we do not see a end to this. If our income does not go up we will NOT PAY ARREARS as we cannot afford it. And our family Children and grandchildren whom we raised will come first.

The first 2 children from my husbands first marriage were never allowed once to see his children. And all he got from his son when he turned 20 years old was a nastly letter saying how he hates him and what a deadbeat dad he was because he owes arrears. Nothing about how he would like to meet him and actually get to know him as a person or get to know his half brothers or sisters. AGAIN all about MONEY!

It is a pure shame.!! My daughter from my previous marriage knows I never received child support for her - I taught her never to hate her father because of this. And they have a nice relationship. MONEY is not an issue!

To me this seems much mor healther then what the system is doing now!

It should be on the ability to pay and thats that!!
Laurie <freespirit139@hotmail.com>
ID. USA -
Hello,I've been divorced from a man for 16 years.He has a daughter of mine who is 15 now.He took her at 2 years old.I have not seen her until this summer and I finally got to meet her.She came down here for a week to spend it with my other daughter who is 25.We have been writeing each other every since then.I live in Oklahoma he lives in Indiana.Here a while back he had my daughter write me and made her put in the letter that he now think that I sould pay him child surport.Which I don't mind doing but I think I sould have some rights also.Like her getting to spend time with me and to have my phone number.Well he wrote me back and in his eyes this don't need to go through lawyers.Well I think it does because I can't trust him because everytime I wrote her before they all came back to me.He also told her that me and her need to just be pinpals.Well this man put me through hell for 12 years a daughter of mine died before her fifth birthday in a fire due to his drunkness but nothing was ever done to him.When he use to beat me they never did anything either.The laws in Indiana suck.This man can and has gotten away with everything.He is sick in the head.When it was time for her to go home she cried herself to sleep because she didn't want to go back home with him.I told her there wasn't anything that I could do here that it would have to be done in Indiana where we were divorced at.A friend of mine told me if I took her to a judge her and she told him she didn't want to go back to his house that they wouldn't make her.I just think it is sad the way he uses her to tell me things she don't want to.I hope you can give me some advise on what to do.I talked to a lawyer in Indiana and he told me that child surport has to go through the court house.Thank you.
Debra <tsds@poncacity.net>
Ponca City, Ok USA -
I am in search of what can be done about my custidy case. As it stands We have joint leagl custidy and my daughter lives with her mother. She works a second shift job; never see's the kids. Right now the kids are at there grandmothers. I would like to get full custidy of them. She never has them. What Can I do??????????//// I would appreciate some advcice.
tom Jones <Tomjones4u2000@aol.com>
Portage, MI USA -
My children are all over the age of 25 years. I have wages that are being garnished for back child support. The family did receive assistance from the State of Florida.(i can get dates for these procedings). She and the state of Florida have known where I was located and the children came to stay with me and my new family every once in a while. I thought that I cannot be responsible for both back child support and owe the state of Florida too! I also know there is a Statue of limitations on the children ovwver the age of 25. I AGREE I OWE SOME BUT NOT THE MILLIONS THAT THEY SAY. The garnishment checks are made out to my ex-wife and not the children or the program she did receive assistance from. My wife has incurable cancer and we cannot meet the amount and still have our needs met. Please send me some more information on these subjects. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE
GEORGE L. STOVER <memoria_orona@Hotmail.com>
85925, AZ USA -
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dammam, 12 USA -
I'M A 21 YEAR OLD MOTHER OF A TWO YEAR OLD AND AM 6 MONTHS PREGNANT WITH MY SECOUND CHILD RECENTLY MY BOYFRIEND OF ALMOST 5 YRS AND I SEPARATED ON REALLY BAD TERMS, AND HE HASNT SEEN OUR DAUGHTER IN 2 MONTHS BECAUSE HE LIVES IN CALIFORNIA AND I DONT WANT HIM TO TAKE HER OUT OF STATE, BUT HE INSIST ON SEEING HER. WE HAVENT WENT TO COURT FOR CUSTITY YET, I AM TRYING TO AVOID THAT. I WANT TO LET HIM SEE HER BUT I DONT KNOW THE LAW AND I CANT GET A GOOD ANSWER OUT OF ANYONE. IN THE STATE OF AZ SINCE WE WERE NEVER MARRIED I HAVE SOLE CUSTADY UNTIL OTHER WISE SET BY A JUDGE, AND AT THIS POINT HE HAS NO RIGHTS TO HER, BUT I WANT TO LET HIM SEE HER I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO IF HE TAKES HER AND DOESNT BRING HER BACK PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME. VERY CONCERNED MOTHER
holley bolinger <jake92755@earthlink.net>
laughlin, nv USA -
i need some help my parents are saying their going to take my son away from me if i move out of state with him like i plan to with my soon to be husband we're going to get married before we move of course also my son draws a check off of his father who is disablaled to work they make me give them his check every month. what are my rights? e mail me back.
TRISTA RAY <tristafrei@hotmail.com>
shannon, ms USA -
hi i am a single male who was engaged to be married we had a baby together but write after he was born she moved to california and started sewing me for child suport she moved away with out my permision and took my son away from me now i have no writes as a father to see him i was paying $200.00 every two weeks but she now gets $400.00 every two weeks and i have no visitation. why? doesn't she have to be a resident of california for 6 months she hasent been their for 6 months i need a lawyer can you help
mike devoid <noid@lasvegas,com>
lasvegas, nv USA -
i was wondering if you could give me some leagal advice?
i am 16 years of age and i had a baby 3 months ago. my daughter has been in the hospital for those three months and she is sappose to get out on november 30th.and they want to put her in a fauster home because my parents house is un fit. i was wounder if there is any way that i could change my gardianship to my fiences parents so that i wont have to put her in a fauster home. i am in real need of your advice. please get back to me as soon as possible.
nina jarrett <haveaparty1@aol.com>
dexter, mn USA -
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KARAGANDA, KAZAHSTAN -
I am tryig to get custidy of my child because his mother is a drug addict.I and my wife asked for custidy of the child and she said yes at first but changed her mind and gave her mother temp custidy of the child.What can be done about this matter.They want me to pay child support and all this took place with out my knowledge.PLEASE HELP.and no new order for support have been filed by grandmother.
James E Collins <lmcollin@bellsouth.net>
Jackson, TN USA -
What is the difference between custidy and gardinship of a child? And how do you get each one?
Stephanie <scruffy_m99@yahoo.com>
knoxville, TN USA -
Hello, I'm going thru a custody battle with a adoption
agency and I was wandering if you could help me? My address
is 2463 astrozon cir C/S CO 80916. please let me know

Shawn D. Pollock
C/S, Co USA -
I'm going thru a parental issue and was wandering if you
could help me? i have no email address but my mailing
address included and phone # is (719)393-1805 call about
11:00 am
Shawn D. Pollock
C/S , CO USA -
An informative site. I would be interested in knowing what the cost would be to have your firm completely revise my 1984 custody settlement. I am no longer a resident of Massachusetts and neither is by ex-spouse. Please advise.
Yvette Dudley <Yve3tte@aol.com>
Newport News, Virginia USA -
Hi i am doing a research paper on the cause and effect of devorce on women and children. if you coould please send me some stuff.... thank you
thanks alot,
Brittany
Brittany <sportygurl_99_2004@yahoo.com>
hillsboro, oh USA -
I would like to know who is on our side??? I have a Ex husband who owes me $9,747.98 in back child support,He has had no contact with our son in over a year now..and i do mean NO contact what so ever,No phone contact, no letters..nothing....the divorce was filed in Tennessee..and i can not get a Lawayer here in Missouri to help me.They say its called'an interstate case' and that i would have to go to Tennessee to get the help..But the state of Missouri does however have him in their Child support inforcement files...Bur here is my question....its been a Year no contact isnt that Leagl abandoment of a Child??? and what can i do?? i have become remarried...and my son loves his step father to death...even calls him dad..and he would love to have all rights to my son ....And what gives my ex husband the right to pop into my sons life at any point ITS NOT FAIR!!!!!!!!! to my son or me and my husband..ifear that he will wait till my son is older then come back into his life and tell him that i kept him from each other...and im scared that my son will be angry with me and think i did keep them from each other...Please help ...Very lost...
Lavonne <PeachyOne3@aol.com>
St Louis, Mo USA -
MY HUSB PAYS 90%OF HIS PAY AND WE ARE LIVEING ON 164,00. EVERY TWO WEEKS.AND WE HAVE A 15YEAR OLD BOY THAT LIVES WITH US CAN YOU HELP US. PLEASE
PATRICIA LAMEIRE <MAUNTIE28@AOL.COM>
WAREHAM, MASS USA -
Several years ago I met a man who I fell in love with at first sight. The feeling was mutual. He was a legal resident from another country. At that time he was married and I didn't know it. I kept hearing about it but I wasnt sure. Then he finally admitted it but we had already been intimately involved. We had and still have strong feeling for each other. Eventually, I got pregnant and now I have a son from him. His wife found out and had a fit. Well, its obvious to me that he was not happy at home and that's why he started messing around with me and because I had a deep attraction for him, (despite it being morally wrong) I continued my relationship with him. Well, he was involved in some illegal activity, which his wife was aware of and he ended up going to jail for several years and then being sent back home to his country. When he was in jail, he was so down and out and he was getting no support from his wife. So eventually he turned to me for support because he felt that she abandoned him. I felt bad for him, but I didnt turn my back on him, I gave him all the support I could because he is my child's father and I love him. Well, now he is back in his country and he does not want anything to do with his wife. He wants to marry me and I have always wished I was his wife. The wife is now trying to hold on because he is free, even if it's in another country, at least he is free. He wants a divorce but his country is so poor, he can't afford the process there. I want to help him so that I can marry him..I really love him bad and have for a long time. I feel it was meant for us to be together, the only thing keeping us apart is the fact that he is still legally bound to her. He needs to get legally detached from her and there are no children and no property so it shouldnt be a problem. I need help with this..can you please advise me on what I can do to help him gain is freedom to start his life over. Jail was a terrible ordeal for him but at the same time, a very good lesson. He never wants to be in that situation again and if she was being the wife she should have been, she would have encouraged him to do the right thing a long time ago. I know that when he is my husband, I will not stand to tolerate certain things I know are not right. So, I want my man NOW..we want to get married...I need some help ASAP...
Please tell me what I can do to help him facilitate the process...I'm just doing what I need to do to get what I want...
niecy <Delswife@hotmail.com>
USA -
I have a friend who has been married for almost 10 years but living apart from his wife for over 4 years now. Because of certain things that occurred inside and outside of their marriage, he no longer wants to be a part of the marriage. After 9 years there are no children between them and no property or financial assets. He wants to divorce her because his feelings have changed after going through some tough changes. I don't blame him for feeling the way he does because when you love someone you should be there for them through thick and thin. I hope he can get his divorce without all the hassle and nonsense that some people go through because he deserves to start his life over and be where and with whom he chooses. I wonder how difficult can a wife make the separation be? It is foolish to love someone who doesn't love you back. What was...no longer is.... and that's the way life goes. Don't you agree?
Denise <Niecyeusa@netscape.net>
Boston, MA USA -
they tell me the age to move out is 17. But what they dont tell use that we are still responsible for them .That means that if they dont go to school we get in trouble . And if they need to go to the DR. we have to take them because they are not legal to sine for them . so tell me why they can move out . I fell if they can move out why do wh have to pay fines , and pay ther dr bills.
Dana <browneyes_167@hotmail.com>
Pampa, TX USA -
I see so many differant views on here and its kind of nice to know that Im not the only one in this world having this kind of trouble...I have 3 children my 2 older (girl 9 boy 7) have one dad and my third little girl 5 has another dad..
So here is the proublem...A few years ago I left the town that we all lived in for work when I left my youngest childs dad got a restraning order to prevent me from taking her out of town...But I had no choice but to leave I have no family here and I had someone moving into my house the day after I left...So I left and there was a court hearing and I was there telephonicly, we were given joint coustidy and I was supposed to be able to see her week on week off when I got back...But her father wouldnt let me see her and then shortley after I got back he took her and moved to Texas and I havnt seen her in like almost 3 years...As for the other 2 I let my son stay with his dad for a summer so that they could do the guy thing and I was able to see him whenever I wanted...So then I let his sister stay there too and everything was find...at the time I was working 12 hours a day 7 days a week trying to save money for the winter when I didnt have a great job like I do in the summer
now all of a sudden his family is mad at me and I cant see the kids and it is really bothering me...The guy really has no rights to my little girl sence he isnt on her birth certifict but he still wont let me see her...is there anything that I can do about it? Well thanks for listening to me at the very least and I really hope to hear back form you sometime...Lalania

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Lalania <hlalania@hotmail.com>
Soldotna, AK USA -
Hello, My name is Frank and I am the father of a beutiful 3year old girl name Nikelle. My wife and I have been have not lived together for 2 years. We are not legaly seperated or divorced. In the begining of our non-legal seperation I was always visiting my wife and child everyweek. Taking them places and out to breakfast, lunch and dinner. I was also sleeping at my wife's house on weekends. After a while my wife said we should not be together anymore. I was heart broken hopeing to see if we could get back together. She had a lawyer send me paper work for a divorce. At that time I did not have joint custody or visitation rights. The divorce did not go through and I did not hear from her lawyer anymore. After the 1st year we tried to see if would work. I started staying at my wife's house on weekends. I never closed either one out of my life because I love them more than anything on earth. I tried to let her know that the only way to see if it would work was to let me back in there home. I even said to continue the child support for a few months to see how things go. I also pay my daughters and my wife's health insurance. She refused to get back and I noticed a lack of her returning my calls to say hi to my daughter and see how they are. I got upset and decided to file for joint custody and visitation rights, because I didn't realy have any communication with my daughter but that one day a week for a few hours which I did not like. I felt I needed to be a huge part in my daughters life, not just a once a week for a few hours dad. Even my side of the family were neglected in haveing my daughter visit them. She also has another side family that love her very very much and has another gradfather and grandmother that love her. So when she was summons to court for visitation/joint custody, my wife did not let me see my daughter for a whole month until we went to court. I was crushed!!She got a lawyer for divorce and he called me to cancel the petition and that he would take care of it with the divorce. Stupid me agreed. So when I went to her lawyers to see him and her She tried to give me a small amount of visition for no reseason.I also could not let her sleep over. And listen to this! She wanted supervisory visits. I am no danger with my daughter. She made no sense! How could I bring her to my family to visit with her around. My family would of been mad at me and say who the heck she thinks she is. How could someone divorce you when they know you love them but also still be there where ever you and your daughter are. I respect my wife but I'm not a FOOL! So after that her lawyer said he will wright up the correct forms for the divorce and joint custody\visitation deal. I never heard from her lawyer again. Second time to do this and nothing happend. I blam alot on her mother. Who tells her what to do. She butts in all the time and wants the baby with her more than me and my family. Well a few months later in the second year of not living together with each other I told her I wanted closure on this because I didn't know where I stood. It drove me crazy being away from them and not knowing what was going to happen. When I called her and told her I wanted closure she hug up on me. Later that day she called me and said she wanted to be with me that night but she had our daughter with her with no one to watch nikelle. I said bring her along, she's our daughter and she belongs with us. I told her my mother would be tickled to death to watch her while we went out later. Everything was fine and I thought things were going to get better. For a month things were fine, she was calling me at work everyday to see how I was doing. I was so happy!! So after a month we all went away to New Hampshire for the weekend. When we got back I asked to stay the night and she said yes. Well that night at around midnight her mother was ringing the bell to see if Carla was home because she didn't hear from her during the weekend. I was sleeping with my wife and we did not answer the door, Her mother was looking in the bedroom window!Her mother then went through some bushes and try to look in my wife's bedroom window. She is insane!!!!!! A week after that my wife told me it would not work for no reason. I know her mother put things in her head. Her mother does help her with money and certain things but holds her to it all the time. I think my wife is afraid to let me back because her mother will never help her again. She is afraid of her mother. HER MOTHER IS A HOMERECKOR!!! So now for the past week my wife has been putting a disappearce act. I see my daughter on Sundays so now they are not home when I visit and she doesn't return any of my calls. My daughter loves me to death. And it breaks my heart knowing my wife's actions arekilling me and Nikelle's heart. I have put in a petition as of 10/24/00 for jointcustody and visitation rights and I will not cancel this time, but I am afraid when I go she will have her lawyer make me look bad because the conditions I want for visitation and joint custody. I can not afford a lawyer but my love for my daughter means so much for me. I don't want to let my daughter down. She means the world to me and I want her to know I want to be her dad and her best friend and that she can come to me for anything when she gets older. Pregnancy, drugs, school or boy problems, ect.I will alwasy stand by my little girl. Please help me!!!!!
Frank Difusco <Frank.Difusco@Monstermoving.com>
Medford, MA USA -
please answer my e-mail
ruth <lallasher@aol.com>
fenton, mo USA -
Hi! My husband wants a seperation but doe snot want a divorce. He is moving out and taking the big screen T.V. and stero. I am keeping the rest plus the BIG rent. We have led an expensive life style and now he thinks I can do it by myself. He does not know how much money he can help me with. He says that he does not know if he wants to be with me anymore and that when he leaves I need to respect his space and not ask him any questions. To me he just wants all responsibilities taken away from him. I failed to mention that I have 2 kids. A 10 month old boy and a 9 year old girl.. I am so confused and I still love him but I am not going to just sit here and wait for him to come back to me.

Please help me....I want a legal seperation.....if this the right hting to do?

Hopeless!
Amanda
Dallas, TX USA -
I am trying to find the form to use to file custody
modification in missouri.
jeff christensen
mo USA -
what i write so ..
i will write next time
rashid <rashid941@yahoo.com>
rawalpindi, asia pakistan -
Iask why? Woman are not enforced to pay child surrport.I am a dad, I was awarded $50.00 a month for two childern.Thats a laught, she is a woman so the Judge patted her on the rump. In seven years my boys received $100.00. The local surrport agent in WV, say we are working on it. If anyone knows were Sharon A. Meadows Collins is email me.
Darrell Collins <collinsitirep@hotmail.com>
Princeton, WV USA -
Hello I am a 20 year old single mother. My sons father denied paternity when I was pregnant and I couldn't get a test done until he was 7 months old when the test came back showing him as the father he beged me to stop child support told me that he wanted to try being a family. So I beleived him. He moved in with me and then started hitting my son and I after about a year and a half I decided it would be a good isea to get out of the relationsip so left him. About four months ago he got very mad at me and decided he wanted to run me over with a car not succeeding I went to get a restraining order. He told the courts that he hadn't tried to run me over and they wouldn't give me the full restraining order that I fell I need. Now he wants 50/50 custady is this possible with a restraining order that say he can only see our two year old on tuesday nights.
Heather-Lorraine Russell <hrussell@SlawsonCompanies.com>
Lakewood, CO USA -
THIS IS FOR MY TWO DAUGHTER KIARA AND SHRAY CAMPBELL.CALL AT 718
718 574-0645.THANK YOU
KYSHA MARTIN <GIRLY_1052@YAHOO.COM>
BROOKLYN , NY USA -
My pregnant girlfriend moved to TX to try to get custady of her kids back from CPS. An attorney told her that because she thought it was in the best interest of the children to stay in custady of the State of Texas, my girlfriend's case had a low priority. She then proceeded to tell her what she could do to improve her chances while representing herself and that CPS would take my unborn child as soon as he was born. She confronted CPS, they avoided the issue. Is there anything that I can do to keep CPS's hands off of my kid? Also, she has no money, is there anywhere she can go to get legal help getting her kids back or is it a lost cause?
Jason <bac1201@ivillage.com>
SD USA -
I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHY MEN GET AWAY WITH NOT PAYING THE CHILD
SURPORT THEY OWE. I HAVE BEEN TO COURT 6 OR 7 TIMES THEY
TELL HIM IF HE DOES PAY HE WILL GO TO JAIL. THE SAME OLD
STORY EVERYTIME. AND ITS MY CHILD THAT DOES WITHOUT.
PAMALA GOSSETT <PAMALA@CENTEX.COM>
BRADY, TX USA -
Good for you Sharyn! We need More Asian Lawyers in this area, because many Asian women are in the dead end street when come to devorce issues.
I am a professional court interpreter. I work in Federal and State Courts. Many people think the Asians has lower devorce rate. I don't think so.
Many Asian women are affraid of devorce issue because they don't have a good support systems. As the result, they suffer silently and die quietly.
If you need your book to be translated to any foreign language, please let me know. I can help.
Sincerely yours,

Anh Ryan
Anh Ryan <translation@iwon.com>
Plymouth, MA USA -
Dear Sharyn,

You have such good idea for a webpage. But, I think one of your guests are not civilize enough to writ his comments.
I think, you should add a request to your guest book that if anyone who can't control his/her jungle manners they should stay off your webside.
If he/she want to live in uncivilized society is ok, but not in the United States.
Anh Ryan
Plymouth, MA USA -
are there any stipulations to visitation rights after a lengthy seperation? I lied to the bio. dad 6 years ago...told him it was someone else's (I was 18, that was my parents' advice...) I now have doubts about my decision but don't want to risk him being thrown into a situation he can't control, like being forced to stay with strangers before he gets to know them
emily <emily_wilson@ctilogistx.com>
tx USA -
my daughter is 14 and would like to sue her real dad for child surport.........i've never wanted to do it myself.... better off not i guess........he alway said he'd never pay......but now my daughter wants money for her college education some day , her idea was to get money for her real dad .......like how?
mnewman <mnewman87@icqmail.com>
princeton, maine USA -
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daniel m dunbar <dannysalldone@webtv.net>
rockland, ma USA -
PLeased to have a courteous and bright Attorney, representing the rights of abused fathers who have been manipulated through "the system".
Gordon Travers <GTravers@webtv.net>
Venice, FL USA -
I first stumbled upon your site a few years ago while doing a genealogy search online. When I entered in my last name, Heacock, I was surprised that someone actually had a website with content about my parents on it. I, of course, have strong feelings about the Heacock divorce. I feel as though my mother got screwed first by my father and then by the Massachusetts legal system. I hope that things are better for other families going through the same type of situation. Wellesley seems such a sheltered town, but there are always ghosts in every town, every family. I just hope that at least, maybe my parents' divorce may have helped legal evolution in Massachusetts so that other families have benefitted. Feel free to email me.
Nicole Heacock <nnikkii@angelfire.com>
Wellesley, MA USA -
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Mohammed <mohammed_r_t@hotmail.com>
jorden, -
could you please answer aquestion regarding an aunts visitation of a nephew? ihave guardianship of my nephew but his father's sister wants visitation schedule setup by the courts eight years after the fact? hismy nephews father does not have visitation . i would appreciate an answer . ihave looked thru the internet and can find nothing Thank you lorraine
lorraine <mikzu@banet.net>
foxboro, ma USA -
I definitely wish I could afford you! Do you have any associates who have a resume as good as yours? Of course I'm referring to the Atlanta, Georgia area.
Leroy Minnis <CTacitus10@aol.com>
College Park, GA USA -
Sharyn T. Sooho, may not get my email? I`m guo
wait for your comment on my writing.

guozi <guoyezi@yahoo.com>
Tianjin, china -
Hi, I have been devorced for two years. I am primary residental parant. That cost me $35,000. What I lost was rotating custady. We rotate 2 days 2 days then the 3 day weekend, then it switched so that the other person has the next weekend. I fought it and lost. I want to stop it. Our daughter is now 6 and going into the first grade. We live close to each other and the school, but we never agree on anything. Dance class, Swimming, nothing. We can't even work out when a Holiday falls on the other persons weekend what do we do? It is very stressful for me. What can I do??
I make more money then he does, but his girlfriend lives with him. Shouldn't that count on the child support? I am supposed to give him $72.00/month for our Daughters insurance. We both got a raise this year. I have asked him for his W-2 to refigure, but no response. SO I haven't paid for her insurance. Will I get into trouble if we go to court???
Ana DePriest <ADBANANA@beelsouth.com>
Miami, Fl USA -
A very big "thank you". My daughter's father and I are going through a divorce. I'm trying to make it as painless as possible since he initiated it nearly 3 years ago. We went through the child support formula nearly 2 years ago and have never updated it since. I asked him two nights ago to produce his W-2 for 1999 and the volcanic eruption that happened after that was just terrible. I needed to find the child support formula for MA and your site helped in a great deal. I greatly appreciate the time and energy you put in your web page. Sincerely, Michelle

Michelle Marie Waryjasz <michelle.m.waryjasz@williams.edu>
North Adams, MA USA -
I am under a restraining orderfor one year.. my wife and I are considering
divorce (now she thinking legal seperation). I do not want a divorce or seperation, I would like to resolve our problems but at this time it is not a consideration. My quetion involves child support. I currently pay $200.00 per wk and complete medical benefits ( $60.00 per wk/est.)
When the Judge in our case determined the amount that I have listed above, my wife was working part time with an annual salary of $29,000.00. She has since found a full time job
making $46,000 per year. I have 2 children, ages 12 and 14. My current salary is $52,000.00 salary. Am I paying too much and should there be an adjustment. I know that I must go to the court and ask for a motion to appeal... but before I do so I would like some advice. I tried to fill out the Child Support form at Family Law Advisor Website
and it seemed less by at least $40 to 460 dollars per wk. Also I may have missed something. Again before I see a lawyer, I was wondering if an adjustment on the payment amount is valid.
Sal chinappi <sal_chinappi@sunlife.com>
walpole, ma USA -
Can my husband give me power of attorney to handle his domestic relations hearings? He is a truck driver and it is hard for him to schedule appointments.
renee <beebeebrain2@aol.com>
USA -
if i was to start my own buisiness would or what would my ex wife be entitled to. we had three children together. in our divorce she was awarded most everything,house,car ,property, children .
art vallad <abvallad@voyager.net>
boyne fallls, mi USA -
Hi, I am a mother of two girls 5,7 and have spent close to $35,000 for my divorce. My
divorce took place in New Hamphire where my ex-husband was found guilty of adultry. I
have lived in Massachuttes for 1 1/2 years and would like to move the case and child support.
Can this be done? And what forms do I need. I was afraid to bring the subject up to my former
attorney. I felt guilty, which I've had to let go due to financial problems. I can no longer afford
an attorney. If you could answer the two questions above I would greatly appreciate it.

Thank You,
Lisa

Lisa Nolan <Lisa.nolan@haledorr.com>
quincy, ma USA -
iam a parent that raised my 16 yr old by myself with no suport from dad. went through brain surgery with our child when he was 6yr old.i never had enough money to fight him and he work then not work. well i meet my husband now that help me get back child surport.it was 15 yrs we could only go back 7 yrs. mean while he makes my ex 92,000 a yr in newyork.he has never been there for this child.wel iwas able to get a judgement on him for 24,000 a yr, they based this on 75,00 a wk now i could of taking him back you a increase but i didnt i thought this was fair.after that he now wanted to start seeing our son well ithought this was great our son would have a dad. well we now are living in virginia so he would take our son to ny to visit i thought this was good well only to find out he was buying the kid to come to live with him so he did not have to pay. he succeeded.my son said at 15 he wanted to live with his dad. i told him he can go and try ithought that would be good for our son. well he would not let me see him took me to court in nassau county ny family court. well i had to come to ny for a lawyer i found one a large firm they said this would cost 5,000 we paid. i now have 2 other boys which i had to keep leaving them to go to court in ny went 6 times only to have it a jured. so when the court case did happen i did it by phone well 2 days in to the court which i never was able to get a chance this large firm i had wanted 12,000 plus 4,000,plus5,000 they said to me do you have it i said no they said well yuo have to settle, this whole case cost me 28,000 only to lose even what that dead beat dad never paid .he does not have to pay the arears any more and i am paying 115,00 a wk and my husband now is paying 83.00 a month and that is not even is child they based this on my income at 17% which i only make between 19,500 and 22,000 a yr plus have 2 other children to raise. i canot afford to pay this money and i know i can do a modifacation but i cannot afford to take time off to go to ny for this and then i need a lawyer too. is there anyway i can get help.also my dad had left a policy for me and my son when i bought this up in court my ex got my brother to say i was lying well after the court case i was able to find traces of policy and it was a 60,000 policy my dad took out in 1984 and my brother cashed in on it and closed it and took the money in 1997.in the court room my brother lied i now have all the paper work to prove it he forged my name. i hope you can help me or direct me somewhere thank-you mary
mary pinto <marypint@cs.com>
ruckersville, va USA -
this is a great site. so much to read. but, one could spend hours here. so, to my question....is there anything a grandmother can do when DSS removes her grandchild from her son's home? I miss my grandchild so much but I feel helpless to get the child back. where can I go for help??
Dina <sjackson@epotek.com>
USA -
My sister-in-law in upstate NewYork is owed over $10000 in back child support from her ex-husband.He was arrested and held untill he posted $7000 bail.After lying to the court,by saying his lawyer didn't show(when he didn't have a lawyer)at the first hearing.her ex-husband didn't appear for the second hearing!he subsiquently forfitted his bail money.my question is "Can my sister-in-law recieve that bail money as payment for child support?"or where can she go to find legal pressedent to try to get it? thank you in advance for any information you can provide.
ANTHONY CENTOPANTI
ANTHONY CENTOPANTI <Unctony2000@aol.com>
fairfield , ct USA -
What can I do if I feel that the guardian-at-lightem that was
assigned to my child custidy case was not byous.
reco <ericcw3@netscape.net>
va USA -
Can I have child support reduced know that one of my three children know live with me,with out going through a lawyer.
reco <ERICCW3@NETSCAPE.NET>
VA USA -
HI.I'M A 38YR. OLD MALE. I HAVE SEVERAL QUESTION.
IN 1993 I SEPERATED FROM MY WIFE. DURING THE FOLLOWING THREE YRS. OUR TWO DAUGHTERS LIVED WITH ME AND MY SON LIVED WITH ME FOR TWO OF THOSE THREE YRS. I NEVER RECIEVED CHILD SUPPORT FROM THEIR MOTHER NOR DID I ASK FOR ANY.
WHEN I FINALLY FILED FOR DIVORCE THREE YRS. LATER I TRYED TO DO THE RIGHT THING,BY GIVEING HER JOINT COSTIDY BECAUSE I WAS MOVEING OUT OF WASHINGTON ST. TO VA. LESS THAT FIVE MONTHS LATER SUPPORT INFORCEMENT SERVED ME WITH PATERS.
IN A NUT SHELL MY QUESTIONS ARE.
WHAT IS MY STATUE OF LIMMITATIONS FOR FILEING BACK SUPPOT FOR THE SEATTLE WASHINGTON.
I HAVE TO PAY DOUBLE THE AMOUNT IN REARS BECAUSE THE PEARSON THE TYPED UP THE PARENTING PLAN STATED THAT I WOULD PAY SUPPORT WHEN OUR CHILDREN WERE WITH HER AND WITH ME ALSO.
WHEN I HIRED A LAWYER TO CORRECT THIS AND WE WENT BEFORE A JUDGE. SHE DIDN'T EVEN ADDRESS THE MODIFICATION THAT WE WERE THEIR FOR. SHE APPOINTED A GUARDION ATLIGHTOM TO THE CASE.
I FEEL THAT MY CASE WAS NOT HEARD OR EVEN LOOKED AT.
I AM STILL PAYING THE FULL CHILD SUPPORT ALTHOUGH ONE OF MY DAUGHTS NOW LIVE WITH ME.

E.Calderon <ericcw3@netscape.net>
Dale City, VA USA -
dgd du as !!
lufata0 <lufatap@263.net>
liaocheng, china -
This is a good for general help, I want to find out that how to file a contempt of court in massachusetts and what,s the name of that form is. If you give me a answer I will really appriciate

thanks
sam
sam <sss01060@yahoo.com>
northampton, ma USA -
none
MISS PRUITT <PRUITT4CPR@AOL.COM>
LANSING, MI USA -
It is 2-29-00, i recieved a phone call abuot three weeks ago that i am going to be a father. When she called me she gave me a choice to be a dad,,,or hang up and never hear from her again. Of course i said i want to be a dad. Well to make a long story short,,now shes not sure if she want's me comeing to where she lives.And on top of that she's thinking about not putting my name on the birth certificet.I know for a fact that the child is mine. And i grew up never knowing my mother. I will not do that to my child. What can i do?

Kyle Mason <po box 4323 soldotna alaska,99669>
soldotna, ak USA -
I have two questions of grave concern to me:
1. Can a convicted felon in Mass. receive a degree in law and a license to practice?
2. Is there a statutes of limitations on child abuse?
My need to know is very important for family unity.
Harry J. Coppola <coppola@inficad.com>
Peoria, AZ USA -
I am curious to know if there are any sites that I may possibly be able to view legal papers, such as parenting plan modification for Vancouver,Washington, in Clark County?thank you, please, R.S.V.P. TO srfRIDSTROM@AOL.COM
Shelli R. Fridstrom <SRFRIDSTROM@AOL.COM>
VANCOUVER, WA USA -
...the most encouraging info I have come accross in 18 years of searching for a possible success of collecting arrears...
You are a delight!
Granger H.H. <NVsunset@aol.com>
Las Vegas, NV USA -
I have been divorced from my ex-wife for close to three years and have a daughter from that relationship. I'm having a hard time paying the outrageous support guidelines that the State of Mass require from the NCP. The 27% of my gross represents 42% of my take home pay(net)I believe in supporting my daughter, but how can I support my current family with only 1/2 of my pay? How does the Comm of Mass justify that a child needs almost 1/2 of my pay to survive?
What about the other parent? There is no way to know that all the money given for support goes to the child. Maybe there wouldn't be so many dead beat dads if the rules didn't
sufficate the NCP so much.
Bruce Hartness <Hart71098@aol.com>
Rome , NY USA -
Thank you for offering such helpful information. I am representing myself as my attorney withdrew for lack of payment (he is now sueing my estranged husband.) I don't know if the same laws apply to Fla. as Mas. but the legal terminology is very helpful in itself. Happy New Year.
Susan de Lama <Fun4nfla@aol.com>
Tampa, FL USA -
IS THE FATHER ABLE TO GET A CHILD CUSTODY IN WICH CASE?
GLADSON CAVACIM <CAVACIM@AOL.COM>
MALDEN, MA USA -
Please at your earliest convience calll me to set up a appointment will I am not at the divorce state yet I do want a seperation as My wife can not stay sober.
jay clark <lclark6287@aol.com>
hyde park, ma USA -
Thanks a lot!
Chaoxue Li <ynkm yaolong hotel@public>
Kunming, China -
stop forced fatherlessness!
michael parent <mihaelpaernt@webtv.net>
chicopee, ma USA -
Dear Sharon:

I'm in need of some advice. I am a struggling single parent with four boys, two of which where from my ex-husband. Gene Carroll is a Self-Employed, Master Electrician. It is very hard to get him to pay his child support, every month. His support payments would really help out, my family. I gone through the department of Revenue, Child support enforcement. However, he continues to neglect his obligations. I want to go back for another modification in my child support. Right now he is only paying $142.00 a week. I sure that the court can have him pay a few dollars. We have been divorced since October l991. At that point he only paid $79.00 for two. Then my boys where 2 & 4. Now they are 13 & 15. I have only went for a I modification in all that time. That was April 28, l998. These boys are growing up fast and mentally, fincally, emotionally, and financially, Gene has not been there for them. Occasionally he will see them when it's convient for him, or he will take them for dinner. He never spends any time with them alone he is always with a buddy or a girl and her child. I that isn't sometime that pertains to the case, however it is just part of what he is like. Well I wait to hear from you. Please contact me soon.
Sincerely, Kathleen Carroll
Kathleen Carroll <AOLMsKmv123@aol.com>
Dracut, MA USA -
I came across this site while searching for Divorce information and stratagies.
I think this is a great site. But I could use a little advice from anyone with information
and willing to share it. My husband (we're separated) baisically got a duplicate Certificate of
Title to a car that we shared ownership on and forged my signature to sell to a junk yard for
$50. This car was in poor shape but it was paid for and still ran. He did this afer I told
him that if he was just going to junk it, then let me have it in case mine is repossessed. I am
unemployed and way behind on my payments that he is not helping me with at all. Is there anything that
I can do about this? I've called the police and the DMV and they say nothing
can be done because it's a legal matter. But what can I do? Help!!!
Thanks!
Cinderelli <cindreli@netport.com>
Lancaster, CA USA -
Sharyn, thanks so much for putting the child support paper work on your website, my daughters father tried telling me that he only had to pay $125 a month and when I saw your web site I did the worksheet out and it told me that he has to pay $125.00 a week. Thanks again. Janine
Janne Franklin <MNCKN98@aol.com>
Westfield, MA USA -
hello !

nice to meet you ! my name is laiyouhua ,
can I make a friend with you ? thanks for you url
I am very happy to get to know you here
can you talk about youself for me ? example, your family
and about your study,or your job !
I hope you can reply !
laiyouhua <laiyouhua@163.net>
fujian of china, USA -
The mother of my daughter has informed me that they will be moving from here (Dallas, TX) to Boston, Mass in two months. Is there any law preventing them from moving away from me?
I have been and am current on all child support payments. I am a great father to my daughter. I love her and she, me. She will be two-years-old this November. Right now I only get to see her twice a week.
Do you have any advice?

Sincerely,
James

James <JmsChmbers@aol.com>
Irving, TX USA -
I have been raising a child since she was 3 days old. She is now 10 months and her biological father and I have seperated. I am not her biological mother but would like to keep on raising her. During the time her father and I were together he was home about one day a week, if that, and spent little time with the kids. I want to know what rights I have to her if any.
Charity Garrett <vabaldyerols.com>
Woodbridge, Va USA -
SOOHO,
What a Web!
I like you.
ÕÅ¿Â <zhangke@public1.ptt.js.cn>
Nanjing, JS CHINA -
I am wanting to reward my custidy to a friend that is over eighteen so I can move out, but I don't know where to begin. I am seventeen and if you have the time please write to me .

anonymous <christinecheer1@hotmail.com>
East Peoria, IL USA -
I would like to look into filing for a divorce and have questions. Please contact me via email.
Kimberly Guy <kcguy@earthlink.net>
Attleboro, MA USA -
Sharyn,
Thanks for the web site that made the whole process of initiating and getting divorced much less traumatic!
Brad Ozerdem <chefbrad@erols.com>
Boston, MA USA -

The Web page for the Fatherhood Coalition is now
http://www.fatherhoodcoalition.org/
please update your web page and thank you for listing us.
with the other father rights groups as well.
For most of us, Men and Woman, there is no pain, no horror
greater then loseing ones children. This happens everyday in family court. unfortunatly custody to often is not about
the best interest of the children. It's about power and control. The future has got to include shared parenting
as the default. false allegations should be enough to lose
custody. thank you again
mark
Mark Gilbert <Mgilbert@thecia.net>
Fitchburg, MA USA -
Your info is helpful. Do you advice on how I can move forward with a divorce. My hold up everytime is a lawyer. I have had two and it goes nowhere? I need help!!!
Mary O'Connor <william.e.quattrucci@usarthurandersen.com>
Scituate, MA USA -
Help me?
zhitaoli <ztli@phy.ccnu.edu.cn>
wuhan, china -
Hi you have a very informative site. I'd like to tell you about myself see if you have any advise. I have been divorced for 4 years and its still a living hell. I've been sent to jail at least 6 times on false charges. Its to the point that I have given up I'm sick of fighting and going to jail. I have not seen my two children since last Holloween not because she won't let me but because I'm too scared to go back to jail for the night.I have always been found not guilty. She has no job it cost her nothing to take me to court it cost me big bucks everytime. anyway thanks for listening. Sincerly, Randy

Randy <melzbelz@rcn.com>
Gardner, Ma USA -
HOLLO:
WHO ARE YOU I AM A PERSON LIVED IN HANGZHOU, ZHEJIANG CHINA. I TYPE INTO YOUR HOME PAGE TODAY! I WANT GO TO USA, CAN YOU HELP ME? I AM A 27 YEARS OLD GUY, I SUPPOSE YOU ARE CHINESE ALSO!
PLS. HELP ME IF YOU FEEL FREE IN YOUR REST TIME.
WILL YOU SPEEK CHINESE? Äã½²ÖÐÎÄÂð£¿
THANKS£¡
KEITH KK
keithkk@hotmail.com

KEITH KK <keithkk@hotmail.com>
HANGZHOU, CHINA -
If one CANNOT keep himself together, how can he keep a marriage together?
Certainly it wouldn't be his fault if it's just something he has no control over.
Chillee Umgum <Chillee@um.gum>
USA -
MY MOTHER DIED AND I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW WOULD MY UNCLE GO ABOUT GETTING CUSTIDY AND COULD MY FATHER CUNTEST IT
SHAYNE WILLIAMS <SHAYNE.WILLIAMS@MAILCITY.COM>
MT. HOLLY, NJ USA -
I have no comments about this website and just take a look.
smith
Portland, OR USA -
The Tao of Divorce site makes many a man wish he were a dog because dogs don't have to go through divorce settlements at the risk of losing everything. They don't have to get married in the first place.
Red Kuller
USA -
I have been looking up Laws on custidy of a 16 year old.
She lives with her dad and wants to come live wit me,Her
MOM.I thank you for the information,But still dnt understand some of it. Thank you! Sharon
Sharon Parsley <sjp35@webtv.net>
Vidor, tx USA -
I am the custodial parent of 2 children (9 & 11). I am trying to
get back support and an increase in support. I am also getting married
to a man who makes apprx. 70K annually. Will this effect the amount of
support I am entitled to?
Susan Ventura <sueventura@hotmail.com>
Wakefield, mma USA -
Excellent Page construction; helpful; and thanks for the information!

Bob Whitten <ipr1@gis.net>
Newton, MA USA -
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ÕÅ¿ËÄþ <zhangkening@kali.com.cn>
Ìì½ò, ÖÐ¹ú -
I want to get a copy of book
zhonggang <gangzhong@hotmail.com>
ganzhou, China -
Nice site. Found accidentially while looking for sooho.com
which is supposed to be new Chinese web site. I am 60 YO proud American Republician who is trying to convince all thinking Americans to vote for Democrat state and national candidates this Nov. 3, 1998. Maybe the legislators will get that message. They haven't been listening to now. REPLYS?
Mister Ed <mred@email.com>
Rockford, IL USA -
lj
henry xue <henry@tongyuan.com.cn>
beijing, beijing china -
I would like to know what the cost of a consultation would be. I am looking into getting a divorce and would like to know what I should expect and what I would be subjected to financially. We own a home that was recently bought in 03/98 and have two children. Please contact me to let me know if I can schedule an appointment and what the cost would be. Thanks. My work phone number is 617-832-5785.
Hubert Warner <Warner_Hubert/bos_bcbsma@bcbsma.com>
Hyde Park, MA USA -
Nice site. Please don't mind, but we sent you a lengthy e-mail.
Mark & Christine Matthews <matthewsm@earthlink.net>
Beacon, NY USA -
Hello,,
I found your page informtive and detailed, a little to much
for me. My son is in the thought process of getting a divorce.
He's in Hungary right now with the Army. He has no idea on how
to file with him there, and her here in California. If you have
any advice feel free to contact him or myself.
Thanks, Chad English
Son:Jesse English
his email: jesse33@hotmail.com
Chad english <badchad@@hotmail.com>
Atascadero, Ca USA -
The guideline worksheet is very helpful in helping me before I go back to court to defend myself against my ex-wife for an increase in child support. I was able to run the numbers in different ways because my ex and I both have one of them two remaining unemancipated children. Is there anything to refer to on child support with one child in each household.
Ed Hanlon <ehanlon@tuthill.com>
Canton, MA USA -
I will be appreciate if you could kindly give me some help when I have questions on the study of law.
Cecilia Chen <jing.c.chen@usa.net>
Beijing, China -
7/30/98
You have a great web site, very helpful and informative!!! However, I was disappointed to only see references to Dad support groups... why is that????

Carrie <capecodder@hotmail.com>
boston, ma USA -
Hi Sharyn. Just thought I would check out your web page.

Dan
Daniel H. O'Leary
Boston, USA -
Thank you for the information on your site.
Erin Flatley <esf@erols.com>
Needham, MA USA -
this is very helpful for my stepson who is going to the cleaners by the ex.
Richard Ritz <ritzpbr@prodigy.net>
spfld, ma USA - Tuesday, March 04, 1997 at 12:56:01 (EST)

you have an excellant page - I got a lot of information out of it - I am in the middle of Support and custody hearings after a divorce in 85-86 and find the new % rulings totally unreasonable for my current credit situation. There appears to be nothing that my lawyer can do about it - and no interest by the court system to change it. I can just imagine where my money is going - MY EX is back at college (how nice) but I dont see my son wearing new fancy clothes each day nor eating filet mignon. Where is the justice in this system? my ex will be getting double what I pay for rent and more money than the IRS and the state takes from me each year - is this fair??????

C Mellgren
Norwood, MA USA - Sunday, January 05, 1997 at 13:33:31 (EST)
Read the first chapter of the Tao of Divorce - what an excellent fresh way of approaching the subject. One question, how do you handle the "me-first" man in a divorce. And how do you handle his attorney, who believes in all-out assault. Negotiation is a moving target with these two. Offers are accepted, then recanted in an alarming fashion. The issue seems to be control. Any advice welcome!
Jane Bolin
Chicago, IL USA - Sunday, December 01, 1996 at 06:50:29 (EST)
Is this Tao?
Ernie
USA - Tuesday, September 17, 1996 at 00:44:31 (EDT)
Your information has been very helpful. Thank you.
Mandy M. <murph02@aol.com>
Hamilton, MA USA - Friday, September 06, 1996 at 11:22:24 (EDT)

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